I think ideally I would try to reschedule, but that's not always possible.

I did have trip booked with a lady once and this happened. I started to cancel the trip but her response to me was "I do have three holes you know" As I am sure you can guess, we still had a great time. lol

Guys, if you hired a provider to go on vacation with you for one week, and that week (unbeknownst to her) coincided with her monthly visitor, would you ask for a refund of fees paid, credit for future services, cancel the entire trip, or begrudgingly accept limited services during the trip?

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It's a practice that is still in use today.

It does feel a bit weird when at the end of each deep thrust you can feel your dick hitting a foreign object, but I don't think I have ever complained out loud. lol

This precise thing happened to my ATF and myself on a trip a few months ago. She took it in stride and educated me on a couple 'tricks of the trade'. Not gonna say any more here, just know it's a solvable problem.

I would you a raincoat same as allies a little blood don't me unless she complains about cramps put a please put a rag on the bed.

I am all for it, no refunds here.My last gf was all for having sex on period told me she gets more wetter/hornier.Not really in the real heavy flow just light/medium for me .

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

Guys, if you hired a provider to go on vacation with you for one week, and that week (unbeknownst to her) coincided with her monthly visitor, would you ask for a refund of fees paid, credit for future services, cancel the entire trip, or begrudgingly accept limited services during the trip?

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but if I was so interested in a provider that I took her on a trip vs. scheduling with local girls when I got there I doubt I'd be dissuaded. If I wasn't told it would cast a shadow on the experience though.

But you should have some general idea of when to expect her.  Why isn't it possible to plan around her visit? I suppose if the trip had to be planned months in advance that might not be possible.  So just be clear up front that on a trip of this length, and given the irregularity of your period, it's a possibility.  And then there's also GaGa's "Greek Option."

That is not spontaneous.  Can't just roll a gal over in the middle of the night and have a Greek quickie (lol)

it would be because I greatly enjoy her company, and not just in bed. The sex would be a relatively small percentage of our time together (I can foresee the replies to that by certain people already); the sex made difficult or impossible by her monthly visitor, even less.

LOL! Just kidding.  I realize there's more to prep than that.

... so of the ladies I know this well, I have no doubt she would offer to cancel or give me a credit and I would not take it.  I'd say let's go.  For anyone I would take a trip like this with, we've built trust over time, had plenty of sex, and I'd know I have been and will be well taken care of down the road so it would be more like a shrug of the shoulders to me.  It wouldn't be all about the sex anyway and as Gambler and Meatloaf both said, two out of three ain't bad so regardless, something tells me I'd still come home a lot happier than before I left. And something tells me that there would be a second really really good vacation in our future.   But I'm at a point where i have to do less budgeting for the hobby than I did in earlier years so that may inform my answer; I'd like to think it doesn't though.

Not sure that's a great idea, given the chance of toxic shock.  Your tampon idea sounds a lot safer.

Take when planning something like this. I would just go through with the vacation and have fun. Besides your not going to get anything on him that won't wash off.

Gals have a multitude of charms.

Hell, some gals can delight you with a finger more than others can with their whole body.

Attitude is the key.

I guess the means your dick is longer than mine.  Impressive!

But apparently you've gotten no answers yet.
Too bad you weren't here when two now-retired top gals had the following back-and-forth on this board:
Girl #1: "So you're saying inicky is packing'?
Girl #2: Well, let's put it this way, when he arrived at my incall he was pushing a wheelbarrow."
So glad to know you're fascinated with the subject. LMAO!
For your edification, here's a shot of me, GaG, Dr. Who, The Humanist, USGrant, Curly and Back_In_Black.  We are on our way to a meeting of the He-Man Woman Haters Club

I learned this trick a while ago, and use it all the time now......"that"time is when I want sex the most, but don't like to mess up my sheets or towels, just cut them up, but I would inform the guy.....personally speaking I think they work 10 times better than tampons.....they are just a bitch to fish out!!!!  Lol  

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

Guys, if you hired a provider to go on vacation with you for one week, and that week (unbeknownst to her) coincided with her monthly visitor, would you ask for a refund of fees paid, credit for future services, cancel the entire trip, or begrudgingly accept limited services during the trip?

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How far in advance did you arrange this?  

and replaced with a new hooker. If sex was part of the equation, then the vacation would be ruined. Besides, who wants to be with a bitchy hooker on the rag?  

Deceive. My nose would pick up the smell.

That being said.. If you know yourself to be irregular like that. Put a disclaimer out for appointments booked in advance.

I'm with you. "Unbeknownst?" By a week? A few days I get. A week I struggle with.

Is there mental disability insurance avail for her?

The point you raise makes perfect sense, and is very real.  For me it comes down to whether I think it would feel like  a week that could be every bit as good, albeit in a different way, as the vacation we had first planned.  

even those of us with a cycle so regular you can plan it to the day, extensive physical activity can delay, and a really strong orgasm can trigger a cycle early. Then again, sometimes, who the hell knows why....surprise!

A strong orgasm can trigger a cycle over a week early?  

What, exactly, doesn't add up for you?

SHOWER FUN BEST WAY! I'm happy I dont have to deal with monthly problem.Thanks!

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It makes the GFE more authentic, thank you very much!

...and maybe even earn my wings!!!

Assume a history or irregularity (over a week).  

Yes. Absolutely. "exogenous factors" can trigger a cycle more than a week early.

Please provide a citation or some direction for me to research.

i think the key word you use is 'professional'   and yes, I think every 'professional' provider would; or I'd like to think so.  I asked the question and would to love to know the answer to it; specifically what Minnie would offer in this circumstance, esp since she brought it up.    

Unless she didn't tell me, and then when I pulled it out claimed that she had been a virgin and that I had just broken her hymen. Then I would rethink the whole deal.

As others have stated, if you're going on a trip with a provider it should be with someone you've got some connection with and could work through whatever else was available on the menu and still have a good time. I would think that on this vacation you'd plan other things of interest to do other than BCD. If not it's a shallow existence and you might as well just hook up with local provicers wherever you vacation.

How many rabbis do you know who aren't religious?

I've lived it since I was 13 yrs old---as has every other woman here ---give or take a few variables. I'm telling you how this works. So, I guess you'll just have to trust that Im not making this shit up to provide cover for providers whose real intention is to mislead you....

So what's the big deal?

is that why my periods are less than 100% predictable?

And, I would be surprised to find one who doesn't.  

I did have a session once with an ATF when she had her time of the month, but she was into Greek. We made it an oral and Greek date. I did miss her kitty but it was a lot of fun. For a week though I'd definitely want full access.

Just a head's up that it is physically impossible to stick anything past one's cervix...hence why it is impossible to "lose" a tampon or any object up there..the cervix stays closed, unless one is giving birth.  

Posted By: sexxygurl

He'll never know, as long as you thoroughly cleaned yourself before insertion. He won't be able to feel it unless you are squatting and bearing down. That's also how you remove it later, in the shower.  
   

Posted By: Skinny_Minnie

Guys, if you hired a provider to go on vacation with you for one week, and that week (unbeknownst to her) coincided with her monthly visitor, would you ask for a refund of fees paid, credit for future services, cancel the entire trip, or begrudgingly accept limited services during the trip?  
   
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The vaginal walls are flexible and the cervix less so.  She meant push it to the side of the cervix, then keep pushing a bit more.  Past it.

It reminds me of several vacations I've taken with my wife. She wasn't on her period, but she was cranky and they were sexless! lol I like you Minnie, but....

It wouldn't bother me, so long as she didn't have a problem with period sex. I know it freaks some people out, but it isn't that much fluid in total and it is spread across multiple days. With all of the bodily fluids and lubricants potentially involved, what is one more liquid?

Who has claimed women have 100% control?  

With my past GF's, the monthly cycle was never a problem.  Seems it made them more responsive.  Love everything about a woman!

Do you really think that explaining that cycles are not set to a clock is misandry? I don't even bother trying to educate guys on here about a woman's body because everyone's like "no I'm a man IM the one who knows!!", lol! At least she was trying to help.  

"Do you really think that explaining that cycles are not set to a clock is misandry?"

On this thread at least, it kinda looks like you are riding the OP about whether or not it's come early. Others are of course involved, which I guess may have escalated things in some minds.  

"On this thread at least, it kinda looks like you are riding the OP about whether or not it's come early."  

Aren't you the one who asked for confirmation that a lady could get her period a week early? I see her answering from there, and then I agree there's a lot of assuming, but I don't see it starting with her. From here, she gave a pretty innocuous answer to a fairly obvious question, and for whatever reason that sparked something.  

You’re the one who says he doesn’t understand. It doesn’t “add-up”  for you. How can her period be a week early? How far in advance did she arrange this?  Was she aware prior to the trip of her irregularity?  When did the flow start relative to the trip? Shouldn’t a professional take this into consideration

Trust us when we say we wish we had something more to tell you, lol