Can't we just all get along? ;)

In recent threads I've noticed several comments made from men and women posting distasteful comments. Usually, rude comments are based upon self-defense tactics. I guess it is sort of a venting bulletin board for all our frustrations and hostility coming from our personal lives. If so, that is a shame. However, must we lower ourselves to defend against threats by belittling others who are nice people? "Can't we all just get along?" :0

I cannot blame Wanderer for being upset that his wife teases him and then tells him to go and jerk off. After awhile that would bother me, too. In fact, I had a boyfriend that wouldn't give it to me enough, so I can feel your pain, buddy. Not all women are alike, guys. You tell us that all the time about men.

However, the book "Men Are From Mars" is so truthful. Until men and women learn to communicate with each other, there will always be slander toward the opposite gender. Get a clue, guys. Most women do not like to be called "bitch."  And, I'm pretty sure that most men wouldn't like to be called "worthless assholes."

     Rule #1 for women:  Don't assume men know what you want. Tell them. Don't give them the silent treatment. Please attempt to converse intelligently and carefully when you disagree with them.

    #2:  Give them sex. If you don't, generally
no matter how much they love you they will seek sex elsewhere.

    #3:  Accept the fact that they may watch sports on TV (hopefully not every weekend), so go do something you enjoy if this disturbs you. Try giving them blowjobs during half time.

    Rule #1 for men:  Don't call women "bitches." You might as well say "cunt" which is equally disturbing. Some of us are not into rap music, and a bitch means a female dog in heat. Look up in dictionary.

    #2:  Try being romantic. I know this kills some of you, but try anyway. You might just get laid. If this doesn't help and you're even helping around the house, then I'd say you don't have an appreciative woman. Perhaps she's either ill and needs to see a doctor or she's not in love with you anymore. If the latter is the case, that is a shame, but divorce her and have fun hobbying. It might be worth living in a smaller apartment again to have your freedom back.

    #3: Communication is key to women. Gently ask them what is wrong? If you don't get an answer, tell them to read "Men Are From Mars."  

If all of these do not apply to you, then you're obviously doing something right, people!  Just my two cents, for whatever it is worth. But please . . . let's try to be civil to one another. I know I enjoy this board and the debates as long as they're intelligent, funny and not degrading to other people. If you disagree with someone, you can state so politely or humorously. We all need a good laugh.

Hugs,
Ciara

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