Now that's....

The million dollar question, isn't it?

I am not here to embarrass anyone or make anyone feel bad. And sometimes gentlemen who have trouble in that direction are a) either seeking some *magic* to make everything work, or b) are really much more interested in some snuggling and playful close time together.  Now insofar as it goes, I will say... I will work hard, and try my bestest, but I am not houdini. I wish sometimes I could wave a magic wand and make everything a-ok for some of these gentlemen... I can't. I do my best and usually we both leave happy!

I will add tho that one reason for impotence is... CONDOMPHOBIA. And I have to say that this one bugs me. I mean... you KNOW ahead of time coming into this situation that they are sorta required. Ok, not sorta, they ARE required.  So if your dipstick does a doubletake everytime it's in the presence of a protective item, we've got problems!  Now of course there are other things we can do, and that's fine, but... darnit... I'm GREEDY. I want it ALL!!!! And the only advice I can give to a gent who is plagued by condomphobia, is to masturbate with condoms on. Yeps, you heard me right... much better to get used to them alone, then try them for the first time in front of someone else!  

And, I'll throw in a tidbit about Viagra here... Viagra can (and often does) make it so you're numb. Which can mean you can be mr. studly all day and all night, but never reach a pinnacle, and flustrate the holy heck out of your partner. Please oh please, if you are trying it out, try... a QUARTER of the prescribed dose. If you find you need more, you can always move it up.  

I do not think less of any man who may have problems in this vein... it just happens sometimes!  And there is nothing quite like the feeling of inspiring someone like that to... new heights, so to speak.  

Hugs*
Nicole

Even though he's excited as all hell?  Happens to me when it's a new girl and I'm fricken turned on to the max.  For some reason that has an opposite effect on me and I just can't pop.  I still have a great time but 2 hour minimum date is necessary just to finish the deal.  Wonder of there are any methods for curing hyperextended ejaculation?

Practice...Practice...Practice & see her on a regular basis so you are more familiar with each other's bodies. Practice is good for timing pre-mature ejack... whether you are dating your left or your right to get the timing thing down for awhile, should help.  But you need to relax & just have a drink which should slow things down some. Come practice with me Honey, I'll fix it for ya hee hee. Darlyn

I try to put the gentleman at ease and not make the situation the focus of our visit.  I will usually start to give the gentleman a very slow sensual massage to help him relax. Encouraging lots of mutual touching in hopes of reducing his anxiety.  Most of the time this will enhance his performance if his anxiety is not the result of a medical or physical condition.  If not, with the mutual touching we can usually still have an enjoyable visit.


WGISF

Re:Just Human...Men and Women..

I think sexycurves just about said it all!
I believe the Quality time a man and woman spend together...is most Important.
The Companionship..
The closeness..
Intimacy...
Hugging, Kissing, Caressing,
and if possible( in allmost all of My Encounters)
and the Ultimate goal ofcourse...
The Ultimate Hieght of Estessy.. Orgasam.
Yes ... there have... and will be times ..        When I wished ... I was Samantha, (Bewitched)
When I can just... Twinkle My Nose...
Ya la!
Have A Great Day Guys!

And what do the lovely ladies think about the flip side - that is, a guy who pops too quickly but can do 2-3 times per session?