Merry Christmas to everybody here.

...are getting a card and a 100.00 gift card...that's what my budget is allowing this year...

and I'll never do it again. Had a SUPER regular. When I first started I mainly did incall and whenever I had incall he'd be there, every single time maybe even twice if schedules allowed. As such I decided to gift him a session for his birthday. Shortly after, he crossed the line in my book by getting too personal and telling me he loved me. I stopped seeing him. This was 3 years ago. He is literally, to this DAY still contacting me, lately about once a month or so, after repeatedly telling him not to do so. Part of my reasoning for no longer seeing him was the clingy-ness which I am still dealing with YEARS after the fact.  

I am THERE atf and therefore they gift ME either by taking me to dinner, getting me sports tix or throwing me a free session.  

How can you love someone you know nothing about. This world is an illusion. As far as love is concerned I think I have loved two women both of which I have dated for five years. Love is what my parents have and what my grandparents had till death do us part. You can't love someone whose real name is unknown. GFE doesn't mean girlfriend in real life in this world.  

But i always ask for it when im sitting on her lap

Yup. Free session means you love him. Proof: I've never had one and I'm very lovable. LOL
 

to give me discounts... my ATF I mean. When she raised her rates, she told me, "You can keep paying the old rate of course."  I thanked her and paid the new rate. She's worth it and there's no reason her income should take a hit because she sees me vs. a newer client. A few times she gave me a break on some long dates on her own volition, including a weekend, and I did accept those.  She doesn't give me gifts other than gifts of her time... and I enjoy those more than anything she'd buy for me.  

but I fell in love with you too! I guess I just forgot to mention it!? (waves)

My hair stylist does not give me gifts or free anything sessions, nor does my dentist come to think of it.  

I actually buy gifts give you money back is like buying you a gift with your own money. If i were to give a free session it would be when the person least expect it.

I guess free was not the right term to use here. Or maybe I should of not put that word in my post. But thank you for all of your input. I never would expect a free session from a lady anytime of the year for any reason. I was just wondering more about what type of gifts if any would a provider give out this time of year. I know what I got my atf for her, and if she decide to get me anything that would be cool, but if not I would be ok with that also. It is her choice and I would not hold it against her.