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NorahLucille See my TER Reviews 382 reads
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and I'll never do it again. Had a SUPER regular. When I first started I mainly did incall and whenever I had incall he'd be there, every single time maybe even twice if schedules allowed. As such I decided to gift him a session for his birthday. Shortly after, he crossed the line in my book by getting too personal and telling me he loved me. I stopped seeing him. This was 3 years ago. He is literally, to this DAY still contacting me, lately about once a month or so, after repeatedly telling him not to do so. Part of my reasoning for no longer seeing him was the clingy-ness which I am still dealing with YEARS after the fact.  

Soo, lesson learned. That's not the way to appreciate the people who support me.

As for what I'd like to receive, repeats are as good as gold. Other than that, that's what the wishlist is for.

Edited to add: he later basically said that it was my fault because I blurred the line by doing offering the birthday session...and he's probably reading this. (waves)

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nobody3051029 reads

Merry Christmas to everybody here.

I am wondering on how many provider give discounts or free session as gifts to their regulars. I am talking about guys that you seen for six plus months or more. That been meeting with you on a regular basis and you would consider as a friend. Or do you get them a nice gift?

As for the guys what are you planning on giving you atf provider this time of year?

For the provider what is a good gift to give a lady cash or something nice?  

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jelloman42433 reads

...are getting a card and a 100.00 gift card...that's what my budget is allowing this year...

And I'm doing 90 minutes instead of my usual hour...

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NorahLucille383 reads

and I'll never do it again. Had a SUPER regular. When I first started I mainly did incall and whenever I had incall he'd be there, every single time maybe even twice if schedules allowed. As such I decided to gift him a session for his birthday. Shortly after, he crossed the line in my book by getting too personal and telling me he loved me. I stopped seeing him. This was 3 years ago. He is literally, to this DAY still contacting me, lately about once a month or so, after repeatedly telling him not to do so. Part of my reasoning for no longer seeing him was the clingy-ness which I am still dealing with YEARS after the fact.  

Soo, lesson learned. That's not the way to appreciate the people who support me.

As for what I'd like to receive, repeats are as good as gold. Other than that, that's what the wishlist is for.

Edited to add: he later basically said that it was my fault because I blurred the line by doing offering the birthday session...and he's probably reading this. (waves)

-- Modified on 12/9/2015 12:34:10 PM

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Zak0326271 reads

How can you love someone you know nothing about. This world is an illusion. As far as love is concerned I think I have loved two women both of which I have dated for five years. Love is what my parents have and what my grandparents had till death do us part. You can't love someone whose real name is unknown. GFE doesn't mean girlfriend in real life in this world.  

Posted By: YourMysteryDate
and I'll never do it again. Had a SUPER regular. When I first started I mainly did incall and whenever I had incall he'd be there, every single time maybe even twice if schedules allowed. As such I decided to gift him a session for his birthday. Shortly after, he crossed the line in my book by getting too personal and telling me he loved me. I stopped seeing him. This was 3 years ago. He is literally, to this DAY still contacting me, lately about once a month or so, after repeatedly telling him not to do so. Part of my reasoning for no longer seeing him was the clingy-ness which I am still dealing with YEARS after the fact.  
   
 Soo, lesson learned. That's not the way to appreciate the people who support me.  
   
 As for what I'd like to receive, repeats are as good as gold. Other than that, that's what the wishlist is for.  
   
 Edited to add: he later basically said that it was my fault because I blurred the line by doing offering the birthday session...and he's probably reading this. (waves)

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Durhamdrew192 reads

Yup. Free session means you love him. Proof: I've never had one and I'm very lovable. LOL
 

Posted By: YourMysteryDate
and I'll never do it again. Had a SUPER regular. When I first started I mainly did incall and whenever I had incall he'd be there, every single time maybe even twice if schedules allowed. As such I decided to gift him a session for his birthday. Shortly after, he crossed the line in my book by getting too personal and telling me he loved me. I stopped seeing him. This was 3 years ago. He is literally, to this DAY still contacting me, lately about once a month or so, after repeatedly telling him not to do so. Part of my reasoning for no longer seeing him was the clingy-ness which I am still dealing with YEARS after the fact.  
   
 Soo, lesson learned. That's not the way to appreciate the people who support me.  
   
 As for what I'd like to receive, repeats are as good as gold. Other than that, that's what the wishlist is for.  
   
 Edited to add: he later basically said that it was my fault because I blurred the line by doing offering the birthday session...and he's probably reading this. (waves)

-- Modified on 12/9/2015 12:34:10 PM

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USGrantlover213 reads

but I fell in love with you too! I guess I just forgot to mention it!? (waves) ;-)

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NorahLucille146 reads

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JackDunphy306 reads

I am THERE atf and therefore they gift ME either by taking me to dinner, getting me sports tix or throwing me a free session.  

Since I am in a generous mood and have the Christmas spirit, I'll buy the first round of smelling salts to wake up all the mangina's who fainted after they read the above. :D :D

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hbyist+truth=;(207 reads

My hair stylist does not give me gifts or free anything sessions, nor does my dentist come to think of it.  

Sorry Jacko, but I am not about to buy the tricks I see anything, nor do I expect anything...payment for services rendered is all I expect.

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escalade1964204 reads

But i always ask for it when im sitting on her lap

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Alan_Nimm182 reads

to give me discounts... my ATF I mean. When she raised her rates, she told me, "You can keep paying the old rate of course."  I thanked her and paid the new rate. She's worth it and there's no reason her income should take a hit because she sees me vs. a newer client. A few times she gave me a break on some long dates on her own volition, including a weekend, and I did accept those.  She doesn't give me gifts other than gifts of her time... and I enjoy those more than anything she'd buy for me.  

Question re what I'm getting her for Christmas was asked and answered a few threads ago.

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Larissa_Sweets168 reads

I actually buy gifts give you money back is like buying you a gift with your own money. If i were to give a free session it would be when the person least expect it.

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nobody305182 reads

I guess free was not the right term to use here. Or maybe I should of not put that word in my post. But thank you for all of your input. I never would expect a free session from a lady anytime of the year for any reason. I was just wondering more about what type of gifts if any would a provider give out this time of year. I know what I got my atf for her, and if she decide to get me anything that would be cool, but if not I would be ok with that also. It is her choice and I would not hold it against her.

Happy holidays to all

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