I am a  very long time lurker hear. I rarely have ever posted over the years because I rarely had anything i wanted to say that wasn't already being said. I reecntly saw a wonderful very well reviewed mid twenties provider with mostly 10's with a few 8's and 9's thrown in. She is the best possible date in IMHO. I saw her for 3 hour date and in the middle when i was having problems keeping it up because of the cover, She offers bareback!!!  I straight away held her face and said don't ever do that honey you are risking your life. Why !!! Why!!!  I want to know how prevalent you guys think this is. It has shaken my false sense of manageable risk hobbying. This girl is so pretty and gives such great service that business reasons make no sense. I will sadly never call her again. How many others are doing this? I have been hobbying  on and off for 15 years and this is the first time for me.

Is greater than the ones who get it, and I think the girls who do it are really not thinking things through even if for the simple "give em an inch and they'll take a mile", and I also think that it is not as big of a deal as people make it out to be.

It happened to me with my first provider during the 3rd visit. I resisted. I have seen other providers that were out of condoms (I don't carry any) and have offered bbfs. The first one said "I'm out of condoms, is that OK". I  said yes, expecting a bbbj to finish. she laid down on the bed and spread her legs. I said, I'd rather have a bbbj. One provider even said she was out of condoms, but could give me a bj, after getting me good & hard she turned around & offered doggie...wtf?

This girl is 500 hr higher end classy girl. Not the type that runs out of condoms. She does greek and every other "safe" thing a guy could want and young and really pretty. I just really don't see that she wouldn't be fully booked all the time with just what her ad offers. I am questioning my hobbying over this. Maybe i have been naive all along.

I'm not overstating unsafe sex practices. I'm just saying that we are not all the AIDs infested cesspools that we'll be accused of being in 5...4....3...

I believe it's pretty common.  

He was like crying lol.

It bothers me that you are so accepting of BBFS. I have always felt ( maybe wrongly as it turns out ) how i hobby was representative of how other successful, rational and well adjusted men hobby. I read reviews very carefully of reviewers that are like minded ( based on like choices and experiences ) and saw women frankly so pretty and normal that I still wonder why they do this. I have always thought this greatly lowered the chance that i would encounter unsafe practices. I avoid the 10/10 20 pages glory seekers because i always felt that they would do what it takes to keep on Top. i have always seen the beautiful early twenties to early thirties girl who only sticks around a few years and goes on with her life. They I felt had something going for them that they would roll the dice so to speak. I guess my bubble has popped.

My question was rhetorical.  You definitely did not overstate it.  You suggested that bbfs is not as big of a deal as some make it out to be.  

Happy now?

Quite possible.

No I am not. I also don't care how many times it has been brought up before. I always felt  ( or told myself) it was very uncommon to run across when you Hobby how I do.

Your theory is mostly likely correct for most cases. It still doesn't make sense for her to offer it when all her other service and looks are so good. It wasn't asked for. We already had one cup and i usually always have condom problems on the second and always am happily to finish another way. She had to have known I was very happy and having a great time and she didn't need to do anything else to get me to come back. This is a business for her and she doesn't need to do anything more to have guys calling all day and repeating anytime she crosses their path. In fact she lost a customer.

Guess what? I have lost track of how many times BBFS thread has been posted here and on other boards. So you are saying something that has been said for the gazillion times. And we pretty much get the same response every time: People said they have been offered but they would never do it. In reality, we all know this goes on far more often than people care to admit. Why do you think 8/9 providers suddenly are getting all 10/10s? If you read their recent reviews, you will notice quite a few never mentioned covers. TER used to modify a review that doesn't mention cover, but they don't bother anymore after they start allowing BBFS reviews. I also know people bc on which provider offers bbfs so it is not a secret bbfs goes on here. Especially for some high-end providers so they can keep their score averages up and charge their expensive rates.

So can you see why she would think you're a safe person to offer it to? Everything points to you being quite safe and non-demanding. It's human nature is to offer things when someone doesn't ask for them.

Btw....it's not just "you" I'm worried about.  Shelling out a line like "we are not all aids infested cesspools" is a bit myopic.  If you choose to go BB with some guy...I now have to trust your judgement in your partners and I don't get to review them or all the other providers they've gone BB with.  Regular testing will not surface a result in time to save me from your judgment.  I'm not willing to take that risk.  Many happy returns to those that disagree with me.  Not a game I'll be playing anytime soon.

99% of these threads turn into Udo vs. YOU WILL GET AIDS AND DIE!!!!

Learn to tell a joke and I will be happy to laugh at it.  I'm not married.  I'm not concerned with anything other than my own health.  To the one that is pregnant, sick, dying...the stats don't mean much.  

Learn to read and you'll see that I did say that, word for word.

It's not for me except with Someone who's achieved SO status.
That said I don't get botheredeither way by someone fishing for it.  

Your first post didn't include this:

Unless a lady is giving CBJ, she can quite easily get what ever it is you have that can be transmitted via a  penis. Sadly, there might be guys with something that never say anything and let the unsuspecting ladies BBBJ them.  

She is so good looking and the service is so good she wouldn't need too, is my point. I also felt I was being very selective to avoid this behavior. ( naive) 15 years and never running into it and when you do it's a shock.

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No, I don't, because I know that my original post still contained comments condemning it, and I know you're still trying to argue about it. Why? I don't know. People love to use their imagination and I think that's great for the most part.

Awesome. Keep up the "lurking" and your novel threads.  

If condoms were designed with his pleasure in mind, the packaging would be empty.

I believe that a large majority of men DO hobby responsibility…the difference is the "taboo" activities, such as BBFS that a smaller percentage are involved in, comes to the light more often, strictly because of the topic itself. Do otherwise sane and intelligent people sometimes engage in unsafe activities? Of course. But there are many more who do not. Too many people take the stance of "well, he is married, so he must be clean", or "he is so polite, and I've been seeing him for awhile..so he must be OK"….and fail to take into account that, if he is doing BBFS with you, then more than likely he is doing it/asking for it, from other ladies as well. It's not just you…so the whole, he's safe because he's married theory goes right out the window.