We are obviously stupid.  

but i would definitely immediately ask if it was.  and i'd jump on it.  and on you.

I would absolutely go for it. No hesitation or thinking about it.

... what I don't understand is why did he refuse your wonderful offer three times!  
He is either an idiot, or not really into you; maybe he was just saying it without really meaning it as a nice gesture in the heat of the moment. In my opinion, he may be a regular, but definitely not a keeper.
PH

1. "If an offer sounds too good to be true, it probably is." Will she demand that I marry her in the morning? Will she say she wants to stay even longer, even tho' I have to get to a meeting at 10 AM?  

Exactly why so many guys don't believe any Penthouse letters, they are consumed with doubt  due to their negative self esteem and their feelings of inferiority..
   

It's funny to me because in one occasion I was touring less than an hr away and I told him come on over after giving him other provider recommendations his words were "No I want to see you" so why not take the trip? See and people say men are simple creatures. LOL

gorgeous but because he hinted towards it 3x.

Not a keeper at all. I use to adore him but as time progressed he just became weird I guess. Drunk texting at 2a.m asking me questions that he knew irritated me things of that nature so you are right. You are also right that maybe he's not that into me that's true I'm not the end all and be all so I can understand it from that point of view as well.

I think people have a sense of arrogance about them that makes them internally feel like they are the shit but outwardly unsure.  I am guessing that he thinks very highly of himself but is unsure at times.  I don't know how clear you made your offer, maybe he was unsure as to if he would be charged.  What you did was plant a seed in his head by offering, as I said before, he very well may be unsure of himself.  He is used to seeing you for x amount of time, and since you said he has become a longtime regular, he obviously likes you.  My guess is that he wants you to like him as well, but one of the things that fades with time spent with someone, is intrigue.  I think he likes you, wants you to like him, but isn't sure that he will be able to keep you interested past the time you two normally spend with one another.  Your offer more than likely lingered in his thoughts until he decided to say fuck it and take advantage of it.

I never saw it like that but that makes sense. He also asks me if i get jealous when I hook him up with other providers. I guess somewhere some place he does feel unsure but there's no fixing it that. As far as clear....I mean....I drew him a picture and all. LOL Couldn't be more clear. What a shame but I'm weird like that. I offered it 3x and never again.

and you'll never probably ever know for sure, and even if you did, the next time might be a completely different reason.

I'm not sure either so let's test that theory.

I must say you are different with some of your clients.
When hobbyists read comments from some providers on here.
We are reminded about this is a business or money and let's not forget about don't waste the provider time.

Just kidding and I don't blame you for trying with Roxy either. Lol
 

Posted By: JackDunphy

I'm not sure either so let's test that theory.

Just this morning I used a coupon at mcDonalds.

of Roxanne or her client, there's a polite way to say sorry, I think I have to leave. If one party is disinterested  or uncomfortable,  
odds are that the other is too. Who walks away from a good time?

The money keeps our mouths shut (after lol) and it keeps many married men from feeling like they are truly cheating. It should keep emotions out of the mix, so that's why it's a business and not match.com. Why this guy feels the way he does, I could not tell you, but if he is not wanting anything more than a transactional relationship, I don't know why that would be such a shock.

and am still kicking myself in the ass.  My reasoning was I had work the next day and hadn't brought my "uniform" and didn't want to call in.  WHAT A DUMB ASS.  This sweet lady drove 4 hours, got a really nice room, set out a nice spread, all for just a 2 hour appt.  Needless to say she is my ATF and I see her whenever I get the opportunity.

Hope all is well and wish you a prosperous 2016

"Haggled" dates, no. LOL

had a favorite invite me out for a date, her treat. The gentleman in me insisted that I pick up the tab, but doing so would have diminished the gift she was offering.  I let her pick up the tab.

Prostitute/whatever definition- ladies engages in service for exchange for money.I never see prostitute give client free sessions.LOL

Much of the allure to this life of ours, is that I know exactly what the lady's motivation is. It keeps things simple, allows both of us to relax, and hopefully we both have a good time. Take out the dynamic of the first P of P4P and one is left with, why, what is the motivation/agenda. Now this comes from me, who admittedly does not believe in romantic love anymore, so my cynicism is most likely evident.

Amen NO FREE LUNCH in life.  Funny Prostitutes talk out their asses it's not about money.Are you smoking drugs?????

some people are used to sleeping alone...

Personally, I let things like this progress naturally, but I do see how if he were the one who suggested it, it would be natural for him to think the overnighter would be "on the clock" At least that's how I treat things. I have a rule of thumb where it comes to anything "free", the lady has to initiate it IMO, even if she does so after I put the thought into her head.

Times why not throw you a bone. How many hungry could one possibly be? In my humble opinion. Hispanic tradition you take care of those that take care of you. It's just a good etiquette.  Bet his wife doesn't give him anything for free.

as such. In my humble opinion. No drug smoking no nothing. Everyone does things differently even my doctor throws me a freebie here and there and what do I do I keep going back to him. The sun shines for everyone.

Hey... it's your vagina. Wear that shit out as much as you like, honey. I do offer incentives, but not free sex. Everyone pays for that.

Damnit... I was hoping you still hated me because stalking brings my stats up bwhahaha. Happy New Year, and yes... I agree with you. Shocker. Just a visit.

roxanne i would drop dead, y ou are gorgeous!

Hey, have your doc give me a call will ya lol. I will offer sexual favors for free Botox. Just saying.

1. He gets night terrors. (unlikely but a possibility)
2. Some part of him would feel bad. (Puritanical upbringing, choir boy)
3. He prefer you with makeup on. (to keep the 'fantasy' alive.)  
4. He and his wife sleep in separate beds at home for a reason. (why start a new trend.)
5. He wets his bed at night. (hey stranger things have been written on this board.)
5. He forgot his vitamin V pill. (he may have agreed if he was 'up' to it.)
7. He sleeps with the lights on. (see above.)
8. See  above.
9. He has insecurities unbeknownst to you or others as described.  
10. There are two number 5's.
11. You checked

.I'm not going to wastedtime going back and forth on board You look good crying to everyone and trying to explain yourself on board and to others.NO.FREE LUNCH IN LIFE.Irrational thinking that's why I made comment about smoking drugs.YES we all need TLC and hug sugar.Will you do that for FREE for me and others?SMILE doll life too short

Hey Fancy666, er, I mean, 888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888, what if they're snorting or injecting the drugs?  What if the goddamn cartel shows up in the middle of a P4P session?  What if the President is one of your clients, and you get busted, and outed on national TV?

Fancy666, er, I mean, 888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888888 also needs lessons in English, typing, and general etiquette.

But after the introductory hug (and I mean proper hug, not the half hearted pat on the back hug), after that intro, I need a really good blow job, some nice conversation, some more fun, some more convo, then a proper parting hug. For that she will be properly compensated based upon her stated donation for her time. And we both part ways happy.