Well, I am planning to wrap up one of my sugar baby arrangements; been seeing her for about 3 months and things are moving to the boring stage. We are in a monthly arrangement and I am planning to make this my last month with her.

as for the OP, there is no "right way" to break up with a person, whether that person is a civvie, SB or hooker.  

1) We need a SB board. It is becoming a HUGE part of the p4p world and deserves its own board, ads, whatever.

I say the very best time is while you are wiping your dick off on her drapes after having sex with her for the very last time. Can I get an Amen??? lol

I mean nothing last forever I'm sure it was great for the both of you while it lasted. Just say you're ready to move on and tell her why so she can do better for her next sd. I would suggest telling her after your last meeting with her so you won't have a crappy session and she won't expect anything that following month.

othing salves the sting of rejection like a Big Mac.

after all why should you care how fat her ass gets now that you are done fucking her? lol

so don't think she won't be able to make rent on June 1.
Also, you're just as replaceable as she is.
Politely let her know you want to change to an occasional thing AFTER your last date this month, otherwise consider your pre-pay her severance package.

but if you have a coupon......

There are probably almost as many germs on there as on her bedspread.  Use a towel.

I don't know what the situation is, but my guess is you are paying a lot and her part of the deal is to have the time you spend together be as much fun as possible.  i am guessing you just might have paid for May with this thought in mind already, because things weren't all that great in April and you figured that maybe they'd turn around.  And now you see they didn't and no use throwing good money after bad times.  

Are you her?

DON'T need an SB board

She probably has come to rely on you cash to pay bill, etc. so you may consider a severance of sorts to keep the door open and not be seen as a "prick". Remember, you are as easily replaceable as she is.

He's been seeing her for three fucking months. Even fortune 500 executives don't get a severance package after only 90 days

unless he's really overpaying for a once a week thing, she has other income. it's not rocket science.

There is only downside to telling her anything about your leaving before the last fuck on the last day you are paid up to.  As you're dressing, just tell her you're going to be busier and so the arrangement you have is not going to work anymore.  If she would like to discuss the possibility that you could still see her once in awhile on a limited basis, then you are open to that.  

Most women have blinds, not drapes.  
Blinds are much tougher on dicks 🙈

Their hotness? Their youth? Their low rates? Their lack of weekly handle changes?

Will let her know after the last session, that I am going pay per view...might give a couple of hundred if needed, don't expect much drama, but this one has a few issues - hence my reason to move on.

If he is as easily replaceable as she is, why would he owe her any severance?

seen as just a prick.  I prefer, "Prick with money."  That way, even if you're a prick, they still like you.

Or more likely a true or false question as I didn't see an option for "all of the above"

It was about the post.

Nothing here is rocket science

That's weak. Grab your balls, be a man and tell her before. You and she will feel better in the morning. I mean really sometimes.

You can't feel  but it's there  gagambler lol

Don't you know she has NO problem with SB's, she just has a problem with posts ABOUT SB's. LOL

This oughta be good lol

It's called not being a prick ... Guess that concept is lost on you. Some "high roller" you are.  

Sanity and stability.

You're such a gentleman it's absolutely mindboggling lo

Nah, it wasn't you, I am sure I would have felt the pain a bit lower down on my body. lol

I love Jake

Why would you expect logic from this poster.

But...are you wearing khaki's?

Clearly you have never had any form of long term arrangement.  They all have an expiration date.  Any professional knows this and prepares both mentally and financially for that very eventuality.  

I smell yet another SD turning over to the hooker side. Welcome -eom-

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From a woman's point of view in the sensual massage industry and from my psychology background; I would say to ensure you don't get the crappy 2 weeks... just keep the arrangement going until it's time to "renew" the month.  Like month to month lease.  LOL  When she made the arrangement, she knew you could drop her at any point. You don't owe her a 2 week notice.  Giving her a notice makes it seem like it was probably a JOB for her. I'm sure you don't want to feel like you were "Her Job." Keep it fun and simple til the last call...so to speak. Then you can tell her that you have a busy summer and going to have to break your Sugar arrangement for now, but would love to see her on an hourly basis to keep your "friendship going."  Who knows...you could decide to do the sugar arrangement again if things spark back up.  Could possibly turn out that it's less to have the sugar arrangement than to do hourly. I would not give anymore info than you have to.  Keep it drama and stress free...Therefore, no one feels bad or gets their feelings hurt. Not all ladies on here will concur, but it is a two way street for the sex worker and hobbyist. It's a world of it's own. Although nothing should be taken personal in Erotic World, feelings can easily get hurt.

Left Las Vegas and moved to another state, several months ago.  When we were together...he asked that I not date or be intimate with other people, or even do my solo webcam modeling.  Thus, he was my only source of income.  I wasn't smart enough to ask for more compensation each month, than to have my bills paid, so I didn't have a savings account.  He told me he was moving, two weeks prior to his departure.  Needless to say, I was upset!  Upset at him for not giving me at least a month's notice, and upset at myself for being such an idiot to put all my eggs in one basket.

I don't have any exclusivity needs, actually I have three SBs at this time. I am not sure about any of her other activities. I have made it very clear in the beginning that it is a month to month arrangement without any commitments or drama as long as things are going great for both of us...

Posted By: EroticRobbin

Left Las Vegas and moved to another state, several months ago.  When we were together...he asked that I not date or be intimate with other people, or even do my solo webcam modeling.  Thus, he was my only source of income.  I wasn't smart enough to ask for more compensation each month, than to have my bills paid, so I didn't have a savings account.  He told me he was moving, two weeks prior to his departure.  Needless to say, I was upset!  Upset at him for not giving me at least a month's notice, and upset at myself for being such an idiot to put all my eggs in one basket.  
   
 If you know your Sugar Baby only sees you, and she relies on you to pay her living expenses, please give her at least a month's compensation severance pay.  
   
 BTW, I am seeking a new Sugar Daddy in Las Vegas because I prefer NSA intimacy with one man, not many!

Contracts? That's crazy because they couldn't be valid in any court so it's pointless, but it could come back to bite you in the ass.  

Like I said,  mean people suck so maybe it was your knees. You are hitting  senior citizen age.  

Watching you try to trash talk is like watching a toy poodle trying to fuck a Great Dane, but you keep trying Fifi, if you keep swinging you are bound to connect sooner or later and in the meantime it's kind of amusing to watch you flail away so impotently. I kind of wish the Dungbeetle was still here so you could have someone to practice on before trying to jump straight into the big leagues

The point was not to be a prick i.e. Treat her the way you would want to be treated - respectfully, there are tons of BS Bravado posts here that can't be taken seriously and the "replaceable" comment was meant to counter that. I see critical thinking isn't a strong point, but I'm not up to teaching metacognition or any other thinking skills on here. I know it would be an exercise in futility.  

Agreed. Drop her a few bills and you won't have any trouble getting her to come back ...

Robbin I am thinking that if I were an escort in a SB\SD relationship I would be looking to recruit new partners say every five years or so. The question is because the relationship is not protected with a legal contract is how often should you be looking to recruit new Sugar Daddies?  I am thinking if you get anywhere from three to seven years then that is an eternity on average.  Not that you need me to tell you but this is a business relationship and like in the mainstream economy the Sugar Daddy always has the right to say no without notice.  Unlike the mainstream because there is no protection under the law, there is no way that you can hold said partner liable for your expenses.  Although you are in the process of looking for a new Sugar Daddy, make sure the terms are favorable to yourself and make sure that you have other pools of income that you can rely on.   That is extremely critical.

a Sugar Granny.  
Good luck in your quest.

So I'm sure there are gentlemen seeking a mature Sugar Baby.

tell her and don't expect to see her again.