TER General Board

Re: terminology clarification needed
WildwestKelly See my TER Reviews 390 reads
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Why would you want to get involved?

I think it would be best for the ladies to work it out themselves.


I try to stay out of the drama and don't try to add fuel to the fire!

Just my 2 cents,
Kelly

If I takes sides in a board fight between two providers, am I a white knight for supporting provider A or a misogynistic a-hole for chastising provider B?

Or just an idiot for even getting involved?

modified to add smiley face and indicate the above is all hypothetical

-- Modified on 2/18/2008 9:10:18 PM

Why would you want to get involved?

I think it would be best for the ladies to work it out themselves.


I try to stay out of the drama and don't try to add fuel to the fire!

Just my 2 cents,
Kelly

maybe lay down a wager, but never take sides. All you'll get is scratched up :-)

Not knowing the circumstances, my best advice is to stay out of it publicly. If you want to support A or B, do so privately through their PM. We had a snit come up on the Chicago board recently and I think some sides were taken. In the end, I think both providers may have lost some credibility but it depends on your frame of reference. As for white knight or misogynistic a-hole, I think you might be over-generalizing how these are traditionally used. In one case, it means you have a rescue complex, in the other, some might say you had issues with your mother, i.e., and Oedipus complex. Guess what? You get to choose.

-- Modified on 2/18/2008 8:55:19 PM

it was more a slam on those who toss the terms around --- for some a wk is anyone who ever protects a provider's rep, and others label someone as misogynist for ever attacking a provider's rep, so what happens when you protect one provider by attacking another?

BTW, the above was all hypothetical, inspired by some drama on the regional board but I just watched, and then thought of this to sort of amuse myself.

mmm..you have too much free time. I do too though, mostly due to insomnia so I understand.

Bluntly you should only be involved when there is an envelope and a provider with something easy to take off, and willing to do so.

That is all.

get these ladies together to settle their differences in the best possible way.








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