You know, I even fired the girl who cuts my hair. The scissors were going a mile a minute and so was her mouth. Then to top it off, she would go from one subject to another, then back again.

Then I hate it when you take them out to eat and they are non stop. One time a waiter came over and asked her if she didn't like the food. I was already nearly finished.

I won't even get into the chatty providers aside from saying "I have no psychiatric training" Please don't treat me like a shrink.

Many ladies who chatter –which is another word for “communication” - incessantly are vibrant, alive, and good natured. They usually have wide interests and display that by making a comment about everything.

     That the lady would chatter to you all is a gift showing that she feels comfortable in your presence. Rather than be annoyed, perhaps it is time for self-evaluation. Have your interests grown so narrow that what is important to her seems like drivel to you? Are you now actually measuring her talk in terms of as quality and quantity? Have your relationships withered so badly that you’ve forgotten the joy of simply talking about nothing with someone you like?

       It’s the reverse situation that is the real problem. Beware the morose, introverted, and taciturn companion. As Bob Dylan wrote in his classic breaking-up song, “we never did too much talking anyway.”  When she has little to say to you, that’s when you should become concerned.

As long as it's not fueled by anxiety. As long as I'm interested in what she has to say, and there's not something else I'd rather be doing, it's fine with me. But, I do agree, that being with a woman that's just as comfortable with silence as she is with talking is very refreshing.

I generally don't mind, as long as the incessant chatter does not involve the frequent mention of trendy, mindless, pretentious, quasi-artistic nonsense.

Actually, it's a test: how able are you to tune her out and still be able to respond appropriately when she gives it a rest and allows you to get in a word edgewise?  and to respond in a way which does not piss her off?

I was raised with four sisters, and many extended family adult females, and got lots of practice with this at an early age.

Just make it a game, it's way more entertaining than soduku, crossword puzzles and acrostics, and the practical value cannot be overestimated.

Question : is a chattering woman the counterpart to the male who practice stoic silence?  Is it possible that many women find that as annoying as you find chatter?

Sorry GTM; too bad. I understand though

Women are relational by nature.

I used to complain about(still do sometimes)coming home and enduring the barrage of 'tell me about your day' crap. It bugged the jeepers out of me until i realized that she spent most of her day changing diapers and "rewinding Barney for the 18th time". I was INTERESTING to her(poor thing).

Gosh, you made need a blow up doll, they don't say much but....

pshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh........


when they deflate....I love to talk!  My guys love to hear it...we have something called:


F U N!    


Next time, get those ear covers-Noise cancelling earbob deals... the rampers use at the airport..You will look goofy, but you won't here a fucking thing!  


Trust me, I worked with LOUD airplanes...... kiss..
LOL Take care

Too bad they can't be silent fuck dolls, huh?

Class shows itself in many ways....or the lack thereof.

"Words are very unnecessary.  They can only do harm." - Depeche Mode