Ugh
You need to login to P4 and read the site. I’ll admit some of this is sort of hard to find once you’re in there, it’s a bit counterintuitive. But all of this was put right in front of you as you were signing up, you just didn’t read it.
Sending an email with your P4 handle is meaningless. No, providers cannot look up your profile with that. The whole point of the site is privacy and discretion, providers can’t go browsing around the client profiles.
If that’s what you’ve been doing I’m surprised some of the providers haven’t just ignored you. At best, you’re creating extra steps. At worst, it’s kinda sus because if you’re a P4 member in good standing you should already know all this. It could look like you’re lying about being on there or trying to borrow someone else’s credibility. That’s why they tell you to contact them through the site.
P411 also stresses to never give your username out to anyone other than a provider who is a member, whom you’d like to meet. So if you’re not making sure that every provider you send that to is an active P4 member in good standing, you might be breaking policy anyway.
When you say sometimes you get the alert and sometimes you don’t, are you talking about the email notifications, or in your account on P4? The email alerts sometimes are delayed a good bit and sometimes they just glitch out and don’t show up. Do not rely on them.
In your account, you can click on “tracking” and it will show you the providers who have viewed your profile and exactly when they did so. If you’re saying a provider looked at your profile and it did not show up in the tracking, sorry but I don’t believe you.
If you didn’t get the alert, why do you believe she looked at the profile? Did she tell you she did?
When you send an appointment request, a certain amount of information about you goes along with it to the lady’s email. (At the bottom of the request you can click on “send me a copy of this request” and you’ll be able to see what they see in the email they get from the site) It has your username, the date, time and duration you’re requesting, your off-site contact info, and whatever message to her you typed in the message section. It also has the number of your okays. She can’t see who gave you the okays, or when, without viewing your profile; but it does say how many you have. For some women this is enough. I’ve had providers confirm the appointment and meet me without ever viewing my profile.