Ugh
You need to login to P4 and read the site. Iāll admit some of this is sort of hard to find once youāre in there, itās a bit counterintuitive. But all of this was put right in front of you as you were signing up, you just didnāt read it.
Sending an email with your P4 handle is meaningless. No, providers cannot look up your profile with that. The whole point of the site is privacy and discretion, providers canāt go browsing around the client profiles.
If thatās what youāve been doing Iām surprised some of the providers havenāt just ignored you. At best, youāre creating extra steps. At worst, itās kinda sus because if youāre a P4 member in good standing you should already know all this. It could look like youāre lying about being on there or trying to borrow someone elseās credibility. Thatās why they tell you to contact them through the site.
P411 also stresses to never give your username out to anyone other than a provider who is a member, whom youād like to meet. So if youāre not making sure that every provider you send that to is an active P4 member in good standing, you might be breaking policy anyway.
When you say sometimes you get the alert and sometimes you donāt, are you talking about the email notifications, or in your account on P4? The email alerts sometimes are delayed a good bit and sometimes they just glitch out and donāt show up. Do not rely on them.
In your account, you can click on ātrackingā and it will show you the providers who have viewed your profile and exactly when they did so. If youāre saying a provider looked at your profile and it did not show up in the tracking, sorry but I donāt believe you.
If you didnāt get the alert, why do you believe she looked at the profile? Did she tell you she did?
When you send an appointment request, a certain amount of information about you goes along with it to the ladyās email. (At the bottom of the request you can click on āsend me a copy of this requestā and youāll be able to see what they see in the email they get from the site) It has your username, the date, time and duration youāre requesting, your off-site contact info, and whatever message to her you typed in the message section. It also has the number of your okays. She canāt see who gave you the okays, or when, without viewing your profile; but it does say how many you have. For some women this is enough. Iāve had providers confirm the appointment and meet me without ever viewing my profile.