If you are meeting a provider at your hotel bar, does the time you spend there count towards time booked

Of course meeting her in the bar counts towards the time... duh. If you don't want to do that, no law says you have to. Find a provider that meets you at the room/incall in private, but don't think that 'meeting for drinks' does not count as part of your time... it most certainly does with most ladies.

My advice to the OP is yes the clock normally starts the moment they meet, except if the bar time is at the insistence of the lady, BUT don't assume this to be the case, or you might find yourself with 45 minutes of bar time, 15 minutes of "alone time" and a bill for the entire hour.

NEVER ask about any kind of sex act prior to meeting with any provider, but it is wise to determine when the clock starts to avoid any misunderstandings.

Keep in mind she might be the idiot for doing this, but HE is going to be the one paying for it, so who is the real idiot??? lol

Yes she insisted to meet at the bar and yes I believe it was for "screening purposes".  
I wasn't aware that this was counted toward time booked and would have preferred to just meet in room. Live and learn..

Oh, well in that case, she's a fkin idiot lol. If you demand someone meet you at another location to screen them, that is on your time, not his. Screening should be done before she even confirms a booking! Gosh...

My opinion is the clock starts when you shake hands and say "hello".  She should have mentioned it, but that's a legitimate question to ask up front.   Live and learn, and thank you for bringing it up.  I need to remember that when meeting someone for the first time.

Lol when I asked her about her screening process, or rather lack of, she says TER sorta does it for her. I just sort if chuckled at that and nodded.

every provider conducts their business differently.

It was SHE that insisted on the bar meeting, not him. He didn't want a date, he wanted a session. Even HG fully agreed that this time should be on the lady in question, and NOT on the OP

Was there a blood sample involved?

and if you are able to get guys stupid enough to pay you for "screening dates" more power to you, but count me, and anyone else here with any experience and/or brains out TYVM. Get it?

A very wise man said this "I will pay for pussy, and I will beg for pussy, but I will NOT beg to pay for pussy" Words to live by.

if their poop floats they are safe because they're eating their veggies.
thanks I told him to leave I know that means they're a cop and they have too much donuts running through their veins

I can see that...and others feel as you do as well.  And if you can get some johnnie boy to pay you to feed your face or sleep...more power to you.

Srsly?

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Deal.  

I see you do....and that's great.  I can't imagine many would pay you $ 100/hr to just have lunch with you, but if even one does than you're a winner  LOL

Well then I'm many times a winner, lol.
Yay for me.  
     
And yes you're right, I'm no nonsense, lol.  

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Seems to me that you're still looking at this with your 1970 glasses on.  Yeah...back then it was expected that the guy paid for the dates.  Seems like now that isn't the case...especially on early dates.  

I think I would find a comfortable place to sit down and cry.

but not to the OP who is an obvious newbie.

It's guys like him who needs assholes like me to tell him to tell hookers like Estrella to go jump when they ask for "public meetings" on the clock like this other hooker did to him. Isn't that what TER is supposed to be all about in the first place? A place where newbies can learn from the experiences of us "old timers" lol

As far screening, there was none to speak of. I have been planning my trip and meet up with a provider for a while. I did my research and read VIP reviews. She insisted on meeting at the bar for drinks and I thought it was fine. I had booked 2 hours but being the newby that I am didn't know this was on my dime. By the time we got to my room about 45 min passed already. Yes I will be posting a review about her when I get home. The funny thing is, a new review was just posted about this girl, who had the same negative experience I had. more stuff than the drinks...

Hooktard never offered an hour... well, not after the first 18 months anyway. Don't cry... I hate pansy ass stool boys. Save that for the hookers who still think they are saving marriages by taking a load down their throat.

I could have gone the run of the mill break down about hookers who love those multi hour appts. so they can blab their way through the (insisted) dinner first option on a 3 hour, only leaving him with 40 min. to get a nut, but I thought that was a given lol.

It's LR ha ha ha. I screen for safety... I go the extra mile for chemistry, or I 'did' lol. I mean gimme a break. At a grand a pop, do you think I really gave a fk about chemistry? 300, maybe. At the rate I was charging before I retired, I would have done just about anything.... almost. Chemistry was a given being I required 3 day's notice and a freaking deposit. Not many guys were going to just do all that without putting some time and effort into finding out if we even liked each other.  

When the nipple makes the first appearance!

The salesman asked if I would like someone to go to the registry for me and get my plates.  "How nice of them" I thought as I wrote out the checks to the state.  After the runner had gone the contract was put before me by their "paperwork guy" and I saw they were charging me $50 for their kindness, which was not mentioned at all by the salesman.  I should have torn up the deal but was too young and stupid at the time.

But some gal(s) wanted to bloviate that you should be paying for her to eat, drink or shit on YOUR dime  LOL

Exactly. I mean gimme a fkin break. If her site says 300 an hour and then she wants to tack on an extra half hour (LOL) to see if they have chemistry, then don't put a fkin hour as the min. Put 90 min.! It's really that simple. NOT doing that and disclosing that on your site, makes you come off as a time waster or rip off. If you INSIST, you should state that point blank.

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With you would be way to little time. I don't know if could hold the tears back.

Yes, it is HER FAULT because even a fkin newbie provider knows that meeting in public is NOT SCREENING! What part of "You can be arrrested just for showing up" do you not get? If you are a cop, he is busted... same with the reverse!  A public meeting does not prove shit! Watch for the backup next time lol. This is not sugar daddy for me, in which case that crap might fly. If a guy books you from your HOOKER WEBSITE attached to your HOOKER REVIEWS, you are fked on a public meeting.  

to Mangina Island. See Dave above for arrangements.

Mind if ask how the time spent was discussed? She's watching the clock, you're expecting another 45...beep beep.. off goes the timer and you say 'huh'? And if so, what was her response to your reaction? Was she apolgetic for the miscommunication? Or just matter-of-fact?

Nice to hear from you! I knew you'd still be stopping in once in awhile.
Now I know you know how to spell my name lol
Hey man, what can I say? There's no amount of money in the world that will make me a f*uck doll, haha
But for the right price, I could be a perfect date for someone, lol.  

I retired from sucking d*ck, not TER. What can I say? Love ya girlie!

I agree with you in that I said I screen for safety first...THEN (and only then) the next step is chemistry. I already know who they are before I ever meet them in public. I'm just saying we don't know enough about the girl to know what type she is. For all we know, the answer to this question is clearly written on her website and this dude just doesn't like it so he's saying she insisted.  

I knew it. In "this" part of it, you're a lifer, lol.

Yup, she took you for a ride, and not the good kind lol. Most women who insist on meeting first offer longer dates and it is understood that it is part of the meeting. If there was nothing on her site to state this, you got fked and should review her as a rip off... well, close to it.

...where did you see her ad? You say she now has a review describing a similar experience to yours. What were her other reviews like?  

I meant that in a platonic way... lol

I can barely even repeat that with a straight face when it's someone else's thought.  

...in my setup post on the NY board.

That it's at least 2 hours so she can make enough to cover the hotel?

Fked a guy in the bathroom actually bwahahhaa.

Yes off Williams. Lol.

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There's a sucker born every minute.  

It's the poor newbies that count on us for useful advice that I direct my posts on the subject towards.

If none of us "oldtimers" tell them it's not the norm, nor is it required, hookers like Estella will have them jumping through endless hoops until these newbs simply quit the hobby. It's our responsibility to teach them how to stand up for themselves against all the manginas and manipulative hookers that try to tell them otherwise.

I'll get crucified worse than usu if I put this out on its own...