Wondering if a thumb in the asshole adds to the experience or not?  

I am not talking about anal, and really, I am not talking about constant anal stimulation from the get go.  How I have used this is after a few minutes of intercourse, and signals point to nearing of the climax, inserting a thumb, or just a bit of anal stimulation.  

Sometimes I wonder if the girl is just being polite, by not saying anything, and I wonder if adds or not.  I understand everyone is different, but thought I'd get a consensus.

Thanks

Love it

For me, it definitely depends on the mood during sex. Also, nicely trimmed nails and a bit of finesse help as well but typically, when this does happen, it makes for a very intense orgasm for not only me but also for my partner

Sound obvious but you'd be surprised... Just a little pressure on the perineum, the little sensitive flap between the holes can give a good feeling as well. And watch who you probe in the ass, it's not always stimulating for everyone. If I'm in the mood, no thumb needed, you'll probably be DP'ing me with my dildo in one hole and you in the other! Fun times!

Feces on his fingers ruins the mood for both of us.  When a guy tries to do this to me, I immediately squirm away.

While most men understand that, with their penis, it is necessary to approach the third hole very gradually, with TONS of lube and a modicum of finesse, they rarely take the same consideration with a finger. I can't tell you how many times I've had a dry finger shoved up there without warning. Some of the time, I wasn't prepared for a Greek appointment of any kind, either. And yea, I usually just bear with it.

Having the asshole lightly massaged is OK, as long as there's some type of lubricant and no fingernails or penetration. But not necessary. I'll likely be more worried about where that finger is going to end up in a minute and a half.

One time, when I was new, a client stuck his finger up there. So, when it was time for his BJ, I put a condom on my finger and reciprocated. He didn't like that too much...and he didn't even get the full benefit of the experience as the lubed latex added some smoothness. Do unto others as you would have done unto you

If you MUST, please please please at least use lube. And if you think you're going too slowly, go slower.

Your nails are clean and trimmed and there is appropriate lubrication.  Going dry doesn't feel so good.

I have experiemented a bit over the years and have determined that I do not enjoy any ass play.

But if you enjoy having it done to you, I dont have a problem doing it (or not doing it if its not your thing either).

Prostate massage is the best feeling ever!

most hate it..some love it..i had one beg me to do it..it is amazing how some of these ladies keep their assholes so clean..as fresh as the morning dew..i usually do not like to probe..running my fingers delicately along their ass crack seems to evoke some good responses..

the only thing i like in my ass is tongue or cock.  fingers just annoy me.  lol

I know you all will love my middle one up your ass!