Love it :)

For me, it definitely depends on the mood during sex. Also, nicely trimmed nails and a bit of finesse help as well but typically, when this does happen, it makes for a very intense orgasm for not only me but also for my partner

Feces on his fingers ruins the mood for both of us.  When a guy tries to do this to me, I immediately squirm away.

While most men understand that, with their penis, it is necessary to approach the third hole very gradually, with TONS of lube and a modicum of finesse, they rarely take the same consideration with a finger. I can't tell you how many times I've had a dry finger shoved up there without warning. Some of the time, I wasn't prepared for a Greek appointment of any kind, either. And yea, I usually just bear with it.

Having the asshole lightly massaged is OK, as long as there's some type of lubricant and no fingernails or penetration. But not necessary. I'll likely be more worried about where that finger is going to end up in a minute and a half.

One time, when I was new, a client stuck his finger up there. So, when it was time for his BJ, I put a condom on my finger and reciprocated. He didn't like that too much...and he didn't even get the full benefit of the experience as the lubed latex added some smoothness. Do unto others as you would have done unto you

If you MUST, please please please at least use lube. And if you think you're going too slowly, go slower.

Your nails are clean and trimmed and there is appropriate lubrication.  Going dry doesn't feel so good.

I have experiemented a bit over the years and have determined that I do not enjoy any ass play.

But if you enjoy having it done to you, I dont have a problem doing it (or not doing it if its not your thing either).

the only thing i like in my ass is tongue or cock.  fingers just annoy me.  lol

Come on ladies..

I know you all will love my middle one up your ass!