Before the whole of TER goes into flame mode, I realize that there is an "incall music" thread below. However, most of the responses were just types of music. Though, SinsOfTheFlesh did provide a short playlist.

Anyways, today was my birthday so I decided to make a special playlist for SO2 and I to enjoy while he gave me one of my presents. I have other playlists for getting it on, but it's mostly just music I like, not necessarily music that turns me on. Therefore, I decided to make a list of songs that aroused me when I was listening to them. It consisted of (a lyrical snippet is provided in quotations):

1. Say Yes- Floetry (All you have to do is say yes/Don't deny what you feel let me undress you baby...)
2. Pony- Ginuwine (If you're horny, let's do it/ride it, my pony)
3. Miami Nights- Lower Definition (Baby won't you stay with me/I know it's late/I wanna set your body ablaze)
4. Starry Eyed (Jackwob Remix)- Ellie Goulding (Next thing, we're touching/...it's like you hit me with lightning)
5. Hell Is Around The Corner- Tricky (We're hungry beware of our appetite/Distant drums bring the news of a kill tonight.)
6. Sweet Lady- Ginuwine (Sweet lady would you be my/Sweet love for a lifetime?)
7. Grind With Me- Pretty Ricky (Now come and sex me till your body gets weak/With slow grindin')
8. Eyes on Fire- Blue Foundation (I'll seek you out/flay you alive/one more word and you won't survive)
9. Waking Up- 10 Years (Waking up/good morning to you my dear I'm/waking up/enduring my biggest fear love)
10. The Recipe- Kendrick Lamar (And yeah my type, I like 'em brown/just like my drink/the fuck you think)

There was more, but a top ten is good. Now it's your turn, I want to hear you ideal birthday sex playlist (mostly so I can steal music). A line that you like/think is sexy would be nice, as well.

You can't "eom" right there. That isn't a top ten! >

1.  Fern Kinney's Groove Me
2.  Bryan Ferry:  Love Me Madly
3.  Brian Eno's:  Thursday Afternoon
4.  Beatles:  Hey Jude
5.  Maurice Ravel's Bolero
6.  Roxy Music:  Prairie Rose
7.  Marvin Gaye:  What's Going On?
8.  Smokey Robinson's Tears of a Clown
9.  Any version:  Misirlou
10. Rolling Stones:  Midnight Mile


I just kind of shot from the hip, but I think that list would certainly get me in the mood.

place of music while having sex. I guess you can use music to distract yourself if you are fucking your SO - just because you want to get over with it.

I really find music to be distracting when having sex...

Songs in the key of ...

10. Money (Pink Floyd) "Money, it's a crime - share it fairly, but don't take a slice of my pie"

9. Love For Sale (Ace of Base) "They've got love for sale, the money they earn when everybody wants them, money for pleasure, money for pain"
8. Money (Extreme) "Money, my personal savior - money, a material lust"

7. The Money Song (Month Python) "I've got ninety thousand pounds in my pajamas..."

6. Gimme Some Money (Spinal Tap) "Gimme some money, don't get me wrong, try getting me right, your face is ok but your purse is too tight"
5. Money (Michael Jackson) "They don't care, they'd do me for the money - they don't care, they'd use me for the money"
4. Money (That's What I Want) (Beatles) "Your lovin' give me such a thrill, but your lovin' can't pay my bills - I need money, that's what I want"
3. Money, Money (Abba) "In my dreams I have a plan, if I get me a wealthy man, I wouldn't have to work at all, I'd fool around and have a ball"
2. She's Got All the Friends That Money Can Buy (Chumbawamba) "And everyone worth knowing is kissing her behind, she's got all the friends that money can buy"

1. Letter to a John (Ani DiFranco) "Don't ask me why I'm crying, I'm not going to tell you what's wrong, I'm just gonna sit on your lap, for five dollars a song"

It it more about the bass, and drums. The rhythm is everything.
If any of you are musically inclined. Around 80bpm is the most common tempo used in music that makes you feel sexy.
Not too fast, not too slow.


Check out Distance, Massive Attack, and Porcupine Tree
It's not R Kelly, or Beyonce

I'm handicapped and have no fingers but if I look down I can count to one. That's my top 10"

Posted By: ChinaRose

You can't "eom" right there. That isn't a top ten! >

This is true. The BPM is really what most are after, in terms of sexy.
However, I listen to a lot of screamo/emodem hardcore/post grunge, and those often don't have the aforementioned BPM.

Massive Attack is always hot. But I also am really getting into Turkish metal. One particular band has a song called "Sahip" (master) and is very brutal sounding. At the ending, he basically just growling out filth in Turkish. Very hot. So I also think that "what is sexy" is sometimes subjective.

I'm also into words, so I want what is being said to turn me on lovey dovey words mixed with filthy raunchy overtones is what makes me guuuushhhhh. I intensely dislike Beyonce, so she doesn't get to be in my playlist.

That's cool.
Check out Deftones the song is called Bored.
I wasn't going to suggest the hard stuff.
Also Meshuggah, System of a Down, and Chevelle
If you really want to get complicated.
Animals as Leaders, and Tram. That stuff is very different though.
Then, if you want to have a laugh.
Check out an artist who calls herself Peaches.
She is very sexy in an ultra slutty sorta way.
Sahip? Huh. I'll have to check that out.

All I want for my Birthday is a big booty ho...

I am kidding, I wouldn't want to hear that nonsense. Whilst sharing an intimate experience with a beautiful young Lady.

I agree, that song is club worthy, not for our bedroom. But, something sexy, sweet, and raunchy would be nice. I like music I can grind too. To me, I like a sensually depraved f*uck, while a man coos sweet nothings and terms of endearment. I need music that reflects that.

I always work myself up with these threads...

You never expect anything I say, silly! Remember when I told you I played chess?

Yeah, I think Sahip is on the album Yobaz. The band name is failing me now. I love System of a Down, and have heard some Chevelle.
I will check out the other ones when I get home from work.

Not necessarily in order, and depending on the mood desired.
There's something about her voice that stirs me up big time.

Janet Jackson - Come Back To Me

Janet Jackson - Someone to Call My Lover

Janet Jackson - All For You

Janet Jackson - Escapade

Janet Jackson - Alright

Janet Jackson - All Nite (Don't Stop)

Janet Jackson - So Excited

Janet Jackson - Love Will Never Do Without You

Janet Jackson - That's the Way Love Goes

Janet Jackson - Twenty Foreplay

Making Love list...Sensual, inviting, making you want more...-

1. If I Ain’t Got You-Alicia Keys
2.     Closer To the Heart-Rush
3. Silence-Delerium
4. Son of a Preacher Man-Dusty Springfield
5. 6 Underground-Sneaker pimps
6. Sexual Healing/What’s going on-Marvin Gaye
7. Cath-Death Cab For Cutie
8. Coming Up Close-Til Tuesday
9. Return To Innocence-Enigma
10. By Your Side-Sade

FUCKING...Making sure you can't take another appointment for 3 days-

1.Opticon-Orgy
2.Rocket Queen-Guns And Roses
3.For the Love of Money-Bullet Boys version
4.Unsung-Helmet
5.Frontier Psychiatrist-Avalanches
6.Only-Anthrax
7.Kashmir-Led Zepplin
8.Cult of Personality-Living Colour
9.The Red-Chevelle
10. Hey You-Exies


Having fun...Insures Kagels from the laughter and joy-

1.Sexy and I know it-LMFAO
2.I’m too sexy-Right Said Fred
3.I’m Bringing Sexy Back-Justin Timberlake
4.Can’t Get Enough of Your Love-Barry White (Cheese Factor)
5.Lovefool-Cardigans
6.Touch Myself-Divinals
7. Tubthumping -Chumbawamba
8.Oh Yeah-Yellow
9.Discovery Channel-Bloodhound Gang
10. Send Me On My Way-Rusted Root


I could do this All Day...

Making Love-

Dave Matthews-Crash
Roots-Seed

Fucking-
Breaking Benjamin-I Hate Everything About You
Nine Inch Nails-Closer

Fun-
Polyphonic Spree-Reach for the sun
Fun-We are Young

+1 on Bolero. I'd forgotten about that

The kind of music should definitely match the mood you're going for. I like your silly fun playlist. SO1 is ALL about the silly sex.

You totally got the spirit of the thread. And now I am stealing your music

I never feel any different but this year I do.
I looked up and suddenly I'm in my own apartment, avoiding blocked calls cuz it might be Comcast trying to get money from me.
The SO's and I shop for our usual brand of toilet paper, and our bank accounts are linked for quick transfers (when did we all get married?).
Being an adult is...disconcerting. I think I'm developing wrinkles from furrowing my brow too much. Not very cute....

So you have that to look forward to.

I have a hard time believing sex could be better than it is. I think the so's and have downloaded almost every multi orgasmic sex book for kindle. Not to mention we bought a lot to experiment when borders went out of business. I think women used to hit their peak back then because everyone is repressed. We have good sexual communication, so my sex life is really rewarding. I grew up in the age of audio books and internet!

I don't mind bills so much. or the being married thing. It just seems so weird, like I went from getting my first ever passport, to...well, just growing up. It feels good to be moving forward, I just don't want to change so much I forget who I am/was.

I look forward to menopause. No more periods or baby worries! Throw some estrogen pills in there....my life will be emotional bliss, Hahahaha.

Spin Spin Sugar was always a favorite, and I think would fit in this grouping fairly well.

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