Hi all, new to the site and looking to start hobbying. Obviously, verified and well-reviewed ladies are the best and safest bet, but I was thinking about way to research when they were NOT reviewed on here. This is what I came up with:

1. Does she have a website? (that doesn't set off your anti-malware/spyware defenses...lol)
2. Does she have active social media?
3. Does a reverse image search of her photos come back clean?
4. Does she avoid mentioning cash for specific acts? (I believe sting operation LEOs will try to do this)
5. Does she screen clients and requires a deposit? (I know people complain about deposits but I don't see a cop asking for a 30% deposit when their goal is to get you in handcuffs...plus no deposits would make people LESS likely to take the bait.)
6. Should be obvious, but does the price of what I'm getting look too good to be true? If she looks like a blonde slim thick fitness model, literally a comic book superheroine, and she is asking for $200 for one hour, something is off....

I also want to add that being scammed is not the end of the world. If I lose money, it's an expensive lesson learned. Being taken away in handcuffs, even for a misdemeanor that may result in all charges dismissed (in my state, anyway), is WAY worse for me.

Thoughts? Opinions?

Is she on multiple advertising platforms? Tryst, Er*s, Slixa? etc. Does she offer outcall? Is she on p411? Let me state though that none of these questions, in and of themselves point to or suggest LE. Many legit girls only use one advertising site, don't have any SM at all or do not offer outcall.  
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LE just tends to use the KISS method (keep it simple, stupid) and as far as I know, they just wont go to a lot of trouble over years building up a fake persona to nab just a few guys. It just isn't cost effective. What they like to do is put up an add with a fairly believable good looking woman with a reasonable fee and bust all the guys that show up that day OR what they do is bust a girl in the morning who doesn't screen and then wait for all the guys to come see her that day to bust them.
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Yes, beating the charges usually doesn't help the guy in question any as the arrest alone, coupled with the publication in the local paper/website of same is what leads the guy to divorce, possible job loss and humiliation.  
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My question to you though is why risk it when there are so many verifiable, spectacular women available? The TOFFT guys are necessary as they are generally thrill seekers so if you fall unto that camp, so be it, but those guys tend to be experts in spotting LE's deception. I would suggest any new guy to this business to play it smart. Then when you gather that experience, reach out to less verifiable women.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

 
But, I can't help but wonder whether you've come across a lovely lady who caught your fancy, who you also want to see.  But, she has no reviews.

 
If that is the case, my advice is, "Go for it".  Someone willing to TOFTT is always appreciated.

Perhaps a username that specifically states that you are loser AND you are broke might not be the best way to present yourself to potential provider? :p  

 
Just saying, friend.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

And has met/seen my fair share of un-reviewed ladies. One thing I can say is that nothing beats experience. In time you'll develop a instinct or sixth sense as to who's real and who's a scammer. One thing is, you have to know how to read peoples communication. And go where the information is, besides TER there's other forums that will help you connect the dots.
Once you start with a open intro in your first message, Then study how she responds. The more they engage the better. Try to read between the lines. By that time, I'll know if I'm communication with the booker, her assistant or maybe herself. And just so you know, bookers or assistant aren't a bad thing...I just don't care for them...(Sorry Mia..lol)
And your number 6 is spot on, those 200 girls are the entrance fees, expect upsell,upsell and ....UPSELL. There a website where they seem to gather all the ads. You'll see a shit load of hot girls with the 200 tag. Those I would cross off.  
And your list is ok I guess
1- Helps but I've met many who don't have their own personal site,
2-Again, helps but not a deal breaker
3- I'm too computer challenged for that...I heard it helps but I'm a dinosaur
4- Here's where your people skills come in, in time if all is going well...she'll tell you
5-I'm rarely screened. Funny is that in all the years, I've only been asked for references on 2 occasions. Buy see number 4
6-Spot on..winner winner chicken dinner.
 And one thing, you will get burned at one time or another I have..but the experience is priceless and to this day I laugh at myself, thinking WTF WAS I THINKING...AND YEAH, FUCK YOU EVA...LOL

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Social media can be a good way to get a feel for her. However, I know a few who don’t even handle it themselves. It’s a good list. Especially, when you see the 10s under cutting the competition by a large amount. Red flag for sure .

.. to site and "hobbying"  then why are you wanting to see unreviewed ladies?  Why not stick to tried and tested ones with lot of reviews.  

 
Even after 20 yrs of doing this, the only time I  have seen unreviewed lady is when she came as a recommendation from another lady I had seen and enjoyed time with.  

 
Now I have seen many girls on SA and almost everyone over there is unreviewed from TER reviews POV. Whole different ball game sugaring is.  

 
Also change your handle..  brokeloser123 is not going to help you ...   "PsychoKiller" "PervRapist" "J.Dahmer", "T.Bundy" are not going to help you either..

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I'm further along in my hobbying journey so I look for a combination of things.  I'm not trying to get taken away in handcuffs for sure, but I'm certainly not trying to experience an "expensive lesson learned" either.  I tend to stay away from providers that require deposits and or have no reviews.  Are their some that I would make an exception for? Sure, but that is few and far in between, unless the juice (rate) is worth the squeeze (menu options).  
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1. Does she have a website? (that doesn't set off your anti-malware/spyware defenses...lol)

Answer: Websites are cool, but for me they are not the end all be all.  Though don't get me wrong, that are a huge plus.  Social media is acceptable in lieu of website, agency ad, Eros, Sixla, etc...  But it would take a strong combo of any of these to just jump at someone unreviewed.  I'm just really trying to see different looks/photos of the provider, hopefully in different outfits, hairstyles, etc. to make a better informed decisions as to whether or not i would like to see her.  To your second part in parenthesis, if you are cautious perhaps use an alternate search engine or VPN and make sure to erase your history afterward.  
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2. Does she have active social media? A: See #1
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3. Does a reverse image search of her photos come back clean? A: In my experience this isn't always 100% effective
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4. Does she avoid mentioning cash for specific acts? (I believe sting operation LEOs will try to do this)

Answer:  This isn't always the case.  On certain specific sites, services are alluded to or acronyms are used so you can get the gist of what specifically is being offered.  Or it is just flat out stated.  So I guess it depends on where you are searching.  But for me it all goes back to reviews.  And if they aren't present, then it is a pass for me.  
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5. Does she screen clients and requires a deposit? (I know people complain about deposits but I don't see a cop asking for a 30% deposit when their goal is to get you in handcuffs...plus no deposits would make people LESS likely to take the bait.)

Answer:  There is a reason some people complain about deposits.  On some specific sites deposits are required for some girls, but if you look at the travel schedule it doesn't make logical sense e.g. New York to San Fran to DC to Arizona to Florida.  So that's a red flag that said provider probably is a scammer.  So while you may be willing to send a deposit, that ad may be just meant to collect deposits without every actually meeting in person.  There are some additional easily noticeable red flags like a provider charging $150 for a QV but requiring a 30% deposit.  At the end of the day, deposits are subjective.  I can't say that if I had tons of discretionary income that I wouldn't be more willing to send deposits.  But the way my bank account is set up...
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6. Should be obvious, but does the price of what I'm getting look too good to be true? If she looks like a blonde slim thick fitness model, literally a comic book superheroine, and she is asking for $200 for one hour, something is off....

Answer:  For the most part some of that may be correct.  Although I have seen and booked providers that charge a crazy low rate in comparison to their looks that are legit.  Again, I've been hobbying for 15 to 20 years, but they are out there.  One lady that comes to mind, who I've seen a few times, is Jazz (link below).  She 200/hh, slim thick, gorgeous face, but Non-GFE.  Some other variations of that might be all that you stated above but the session is just for a massage, or just starting out, local, or UTR.  Just recently I was introduced to a UTR through a local board/word of mouth.  She works a normal job, good looking, blonde, but just wanted to make some extra cash in exchange for certain favors.  She had no TER or other major board reviews, but she was full GFE 200/hr.  
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For the most-part, you have a good system/structure.  Stick to what works for you, and if it doesn't feel comfortable, move on.  

I absolutely don't want to see unreviewed ladies as a noob. I've made a list of four providers that have many recent reviews from users with many reviews themselves.

I tend to overanalyze so I also wanted a contingency I see someone I am so attracted to that I want to see but she is not reviewed on here.

The bit about her seemingly being in multiple cities at one time on a "tour" and requesting deposits is a good one. If these are foreigners trying to scam deposits, they may not realize that Miami and San Francisco are nowhere near one another.

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Risks of TOFTT are well-described below.

Another risk inherent in seeing non-reviewed ladies is falling victim to the "show price." This happens when you hand her the white envelope, only to be told that even the most fundamental GFE activities are "extra."  

What can you do then? I heard a story where a guy went to the front desk of the hotel, showed the lady's ad to the manager and said "She's operating out of room 210." That ruined her night but, alas, didn't get his back.

ATTB

I view people like you as spies,troll or just someone looking for kicks. The reviews and ads tells you everything you need to know.The fact that you found TER tells me you're not new to the sex workers industry.