I recently saw a provider who had good reviews and some artfully posed pics on her website.  She was reported not to have any tattoos or unusual piercings.After the usual verifications, I arrived at the appointment and was met by a slender woman in her mid-twenties who was definitely the girl on her website. After the preliminaries, we took each others clothes off and I was unpleasantly surprised by a series of prominent, deep stretch marks  on her lower belly, butt, breasts (which had been enhanced) and the back of her thighs. This was a huge turn-off for me and greatly detracted from my enjoyment  of the session. Everybody has something that turns them off and prominent stretch marks are a turn off for me.  

Sure hope you don't provide it as part of your screening info, lol!
As for stretch marks, most guys won't write things like that directly in a review for a number of reasons.  Whether they should or not is another issue.  That said, the best thing to do is PM a gal's reviewers and ask this and other questions.  It's usually available back channel.

they should be mentioned as a matter of fact in the pursuit of accuracy.  But not dwelled on, rather the review should be about her performance.

If that's true, then why do they have all the appearance info as part of the template.  Looks are important. We all have things we look for; things that turn us on or off.  Guys have a right to get info on her appearance and to expect it to be accurate.

I said it should be mentioned in the interest of accuracy.  

To point out on a major review board that you have a mushroom cap sized penis? That would be so upsetting to a woman if she thought her stretch marks turned men off...she probably just had a baby and convinced herself they are not bad..Maybe saying her body was in great shape but not flawless would be a better way of describing her...not telling people it was a turn off


That is damaging for this girl

Yes, but you also said what you said about reviews being mostly about performance, which just ain't true.

Mentioning facts about a lady is what it is all about.  To not mention that fact would not be fair to all the guys that pay to read the reviews and pay to see the lady.

Those kinds of details should be in the reviews. I would want to know if there is cellulite, stretch marks, and other details. Some providers are happy to get glowing reviews, but unhappy when physical attributes are not in their favor.  

Or are we talking Portobellos??? lol

The fact remains this is a review board for the "GUYS" to exchange information about the women we PAY for sex. Not an ad site for hookers.

When you start paying us, feel free to be as judgmental and critical as you like. After all, at that point you would be the customer.

Your advice is akin to saying that a 5 foot tall, 150 lb woman was not overweight, just a foot too short. Sorry, but if she has stretch marks, I want to know, because I am one of those guys who finds them a turn off.

Stretch marks can't be removed from "hitting the gym."  At best there's a laser procedure that can lessen the appearance and texture of them but they can never be fully removed.

You can always stretch the skin back out again by regaining the weight.

Hey, I never said it was a "good" way to get rid of them. lol

As they say Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..

about the lady I'm with. Just makes for the best possible experience. What turns us off is an individual thing. So my reviews will relate my own experience and feelings. I tend to agree with Nicky; specific details you'd like to know but may not have been important to another reviewer are easily found out via PM to the reviewers.

pass on the idea of providers reviewing me. My fragile male ego would likely be totally destroyed! Although.. always wondered how many laughs you providers have about us on the PO board. Oh well, some things are probably best left unknown.

Haha funny idea but it doesn't work that way.  The skin is stretched to the point where it's permanently altered and the stretch marks will be there regardless of whether or not your weight changes.  Like I said there's nothing you can do about them other than the laser procedure, which is extremely expensive and painful, isn't guaranteed to work and won't completely erase the stretch marks.  There is also a tummy tuck but instead of stretch marks you have a long horizontal scar across your belly.  Some women don't get them but only because they are genetically predisposed to having stretchable skin.

Yes, you are correct about the marks. I am far from an expert in stretch marks but I do know that proper care in the recent aftermath can help to minimize the marks, but working out can also help. It's more about the flab then the marks themselves in my view.

The loose flabby skin is quite another matter. I find it a huge turnoff, and while I "might' go through with the session, depending of course on how the rest of her appearance was, I guarantee you DATY would be off the menu. yuck

There are thousands of women with bodies close enough to perfect for me. One or two little flaws is a far cry from cellulite and ugly stretch marks. I kick civvy women out of bed for less, much less women who charge money and advertise themselves as HOT.

If you want to review men, start your own damn board, and just remember who is paying who. All I can say about myself, is that the women who I pay are always eager to see me again, so I can't be that disgusting.

I would hate to look up for that visual.

He's a liar if he doesn't mention it, and yes lying by omission is still lying. Or he can mention it and be a dick.

I think the choice is clear, he needs to be a dick and mention it. Reviews are meant to be an honest assessment of the guys experience, and if the stretch marks were off putting enough for him to start a thread about it, they are definitely important enough for him to mention in a review.

I agree that he should mention it as it does bother him, however by the same token, I think it only fair that the lady be able to get his handle and check his reviews before seeing him so she can see that it is something important to him and avoid him if that will be a problem for her.

I agree that it matters what it is that she is charging. If it's on the high end, then of course a higher standard should be used, but if it's comparable to what should be charged when you take everything into consideration - you mentioned her pictures were accurate re her body type, and it seems she was otherwise pleasant to you, then a mention of it seems, almost petty, especially if they were recent as they seem to be, and that's why it may not have been mentioned by others. But if you feel you must because they were such a turn off to you, just make sure you're clear in that you're particularly turned off by them.

As you have mentioned, yes, I can figure out lots of ways to take a better picture, and perhaps one day in the near future I will, but it is not my priority. There is someone for everyone, and I sir, am not selling a fantasy, I am offering a real experience, to get to know me, and though it's not for everyone, it is fortunately for some.

You didn't have time to check her website, yet you had time to stalk her posts just to give her unsolicited advice on how to run her business? You have got to be trolling, I refuse to believe that anyone is that much of a douchebag.  

If you have had surgery, you have a scar.  A recent scar is going to be more prominent than an old scar.  The same w/ stretch marks.  They both eventually fade.  

"Gentlemen" don't speak to grown women like they're children, nor do they refer to them as "holes to fuck." I think she's made it pretty obvious that she doesn't need some creepy, condescending douche giving her "advice."

Who gives a shit why she's doing it, and how does any of that make her a "naive little girl?" My point is that it's none of your business. She clearly doesn't need me to stick up for her (as evidenced by her repeatedly telling you that she doesn't need or want your "advice"), I'm just butting in because your douchebaggery is so astounding that I couldn't resist.  

Little girl? I'm 30 yrs old and act well beyond my age.

And what is wrong with trying something for the hell of it?  Declare your agenda assisass - otherwise we are all going to speculate.  My money is on mentally unstable