To point out on a major review board that you have a mushroom cap sized penis? That would be so upsetting to a woman if she thought her stretch marks turned men off...she probably just had a baby and convinced herself they are not bad..Maybe saying her body was in great shape but not flawless would be a better way of describing her...not telling people it was a turn off
That is damaging for this girl
I recently saw a provider who had good reviews and some artfully posed pics on her website. She was reported not to have any tattoos or unusual piercings.After the usual verifications, I arrived at the appointment and was met by a slender woman in her mid-twenties who was definitely the girl on her website. After the preliminaries, we took each others clothes off and I was unpleasantly surprised by a series of prominent, deep stretch marks on her lower belly, butt, breasts (which had been enhanced) and the back of her thighs. This was a huge turn-off for me and greatly detracted from my enjoyment of the session. Everybody has something that turns them off and prominent stretch marks are a turn off for me.
My question is, shouldn't prominent stretch marks be noted in reviews just as tattoos and piercings are? Not one of reviews noted these very obvious marks on her body
Sure hope you don't provide it as part of your screening info, lol!
As for stretch marks, most guys won't write things like that directly in a review for a number of reasons. Whether they should or not is another issue. That said, the best thing to do is PM a gal's reviewers and ask this and other questions. It's usually available back channel.
they should be mentioned as a matter of fact in the pursuit of accuracy. But not dwelled on, rather the review should be about her performance.
If that's true, then why do they have all the appearance info as part of the template. Looks are important. We all have things we look for; things that turn us on or off. Guys have a right to get info on her appearance and to expect it to be accurate.
I said it should be mentioned in the interest of accuracy.
To point out on a major review board that you have a mushroom cap sized penis? That would be so upsetting to a woman if she thought her stretch marks turned men off...she probably just had a baby and convinced herself they are not bad..Maybe saying her body was in great shape but not flawless would be a better way of describing her...not telling people it was a turn off
That is damaging for this girl
Mentioning facts about a lady is what it is all about. To not mention that fact would not be fair to all the guys that pay to read the reviews and pay to see the lady.
Those kinds of details should be in the reviews. I would want to know if there is cellulite, stretch marks, and other details. Some providers are happy to get glowing reviews, but unhappy when physical attributes are not in their favor.
Don't forget. You are being paid and reviewed. If it is damaging, hit the gym.
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Stretch marks can't be removed from "hitting the gym." At best there's a laser procedure that can lessen the appearance and texture of them but they can never be fully removed.
You can always stretch the skin back out again by regaining the weight.
Hey, I never said it was a "good" way to get rid of them. lol
Haha funny idea but it doesn't work that way. The skin is stretched to the point where it's permanently altered and the stretch marks will be there regardless of whether or not your weight changes. Like I said there's nothing you can do about them other than the laser procedure, which is extremely expensive and painful, isn't guaranteed to work and won't completely erase the stretch marks. There is also a tummy tuck but instead of stretch marks you have a long horizontal scar across your belly. Some women don't get them but only because they are genetically predisposed to having stretchable skin.
Yes, you are correct about the marks. I am far from an expert in stretch marks but I do know that proper care in the recent aftermath can help to minimize the marks, but working out can also help. It's more about the flab then the marks themselves in my view.
The loose flabby skin is quite another matter. I find it a huge turnoff, and while I "might' go through with the session, depending of course on how the rest of her appearance was, I guarantee you DATY would be off the menu. yuck
I would hate to look up for that visual.
Or are we talking Portobellos??? lol
The fact remains this is a review board for the "GUYS" to exchange information about the women we PAY for sex. Not an ad site for hookers.
When you start paying us, feel free to be as judgmental and critical as you like. After all, at that point you would be the customer.
Your advice is akin to saying that a 5 foot tall, 150 lb woman was not overweight, just a foot too short. Sorry, but if she has stretch marks, I want to know, because I am one of those guys who finds them a turn off.
Yes, but you also said what you said about reviews being mostly about performance, which just ain't true.
As they say Beauty is in the eye of the beholder..
I am sorry that her stretch marks were not attractive to you.. Your post does make me wonder.
Was she 20 or 30 or 40
has she had children
what were you expecting
If you want a perfect body. You have two option.. Buy a blow up doll to your specifications ( yes you can) or go find yourself a 14 year old and that too will be hit or miss ( also disgusting)
To each his own.. I do agree. but It sounds to me like you are seeking perfection.
We are not perfect and I often wonder, since this is a review board.. if we were allowed to review
you as well.. How that would work out..
Adam and Eve and the Red Door both offer what you are looking for...
pass on the idea of providers reviewing me. My fragile male ego would likely be totally destroyed! Although.. always wondered how many laughs you providers have about us on the PO board. Oh well, some things are probably best left unknown.
There are thousands of women with bodies close enough to perfect for me. One or two little flaws is a far cry from cellulite and ugly stretch marks. I kick civvy women out of bed for less, much less women who charge money and advertise themselves as HOT.
If you want to review men, start your own damn board, and just remember who is paying who. All I can say about myself, is that the women who I pay are always eager to see me again, so I can't be that disgusting.
about the lady I'm with. Just makes for the best possible experience. What turns us off is an individual thing. So my reviews will relate my own experience and feelings. I tend to agree with Nicky; specific details you'd like to know but may not have been important to another reviewer are easily found out via PM to the reviewers.
I agree that it matters what it is that she is charging. If it's on the high end, then of course a higher standard should be used, but if it's comparable to what should be charged when you take everything into consideration - you mentioned her pictures were accurate re her body type, and it seems she was otherwise pleasant to you, then a mention of it seems, almost petty, especially if they were recent as they seem to be, and that's why it may not have been mentioned by others. But if you feel you must because they were such a turn off to you, just make sure you're clear in that you're particularly turned off by them.
To the ones who are adamant about the fact that if you pay, it should somehow be the deciding factor on writing anything and being as picky as you want, just remember that it is humans you're writing about. Mentioning everything on a woman's body makes it seem like you're talking about a cow's spots, and that's just tacky. I think the less people worry about the little things, the more they can enjoy life, and sex as well.
If you have had surgery, you have a scar. A recent scar is going to be more prominent than an old scar. The same w/ stretch marks. They both eventually fade.
Personally, I don't think that anyone should write about physical attributes that could help identify a provider to LE if it isn't visible in the photo.
With stretch marks being something that is going to distract you for the entire session I would suggest a couple different ways of finding out this information before you book the date.
Back channel for the information.
Ask the individual prior to booking if she has them.
Look for provider sites that have current video content so you can pause the stream and inspect for physical attributes that meet your standards.
TER is a review site for gents. Reviews can't possibly describe with 100% accuracy of what some one looks like. Keep in mind that some gents have crappy writing skills. Others may not be bothered by stretch marks and they wouldn't notice them enough to care and/or write about it. Reviews are descriptive to a degree, but similar to descriptions that assist you in getting a generalized visual of an item you might want to purchase out of a magazine or from an auction. You are not going to know exactly what you are getting until you inspect it in person.
She had stretch marks. You hated them. You could have left the appointment at any time. Writing about them in a review seems like a lot of effort to point out a physical marking that is a big deal to you but means hardly nothing to many.
If everything about the service was as advertised then I would say let it go in this instance, learn from it and prevent it from happening again by screening more diligently.
Moles
Scars
Stretch marks
Inny or outie belly buttons
Big feet
Freckles
Ears that stick out
All of the above may be horrendous turn offs for a few gents and so they do their homework and find out first by conducting screening.
Chalk it up to experience and next time just ask. Doing so will save everyone time and money