So to hobbyist do you mind if the girl you were seeing pulled out a small vibrator and used it while bbbj or any other way? If so, would you want to be asked first? Just wondering because maybe some guys might not like the idea or the sensation....

i do not like using toys on myself during the session usually unless i know it really turns on my partner  
i prefer the real flesh lol

no need to ask.  But if she's planning on using it on me, I'd appreciate her checking with me first.  

If you're using it on yourself, go for it. If you plan on using anything on me, you damn well better ask first! 😊

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....and both times it was awesome. I have a quick release trigger, so using a vibrator on me will have me climaxing way too soon, so it has to be used with caution.

As we hit the bed. I found out over the years that's where many providers keep the toys. If I find anything, I usually ask if its for her, me or us.

Hair pulling, slapping or finger in butt for hookers, something you should ask first.

Please tell me that some guys DONT do any of these things without asking?!

I've never had the vibrator treatment, but I've been in a few situations where her fingers have gone exploring without notice. I've reacted differently on each occasion, not always well. I definitely want to be asked so I can either decline or prepare myself

I always have toys with me but I do ask the gent first before pulling it out.
I like to use toys on myself sometimes and will use them if the gent is into it.
But some gents do not like toys so for that reason I ask.

The "I pay so I can do what I want" corps. Even some of the others who think hookers should be able to deal with everything that is thrown at them.

This hobby has expanded my sexual repertoire exponentially!!!  And...OMG!!!   (No words... Except: yum!)
That being said, I was somewhat shy IRL w toys before this life..
I'm eager to use toys in my sessions, however, I have yet to ask the question to find out if it's on the table for him...  
So!  Is it acceptable to be direct in asking, and at what point in the interaction (making appt stage to being alone together stage)?

Meet with a provider who while in K9 whipped out a vibrator which she proceeded to use on herself.  I thought it was fantastic.  Nice sensation.

Enjoy toys.

surprise and felling that a vibrator gave during session

I'm planning on a session sometime where I sit in a chair.  She sits on my cock with her back to my chest.  I reach around and use a vibrator on her so that I can feel her pulsing on my cock when she cums.  

I'm courteous by nature, and when I am enjoying intimacy with another person, providers or civvies, I make sure to asks first about anything out of the norm that I would like to do. The worst that can happen is that she says no. Therefore, I expect to receive the same treatment. I have never used any toys on me, but had used them on some of the girls I've been with and it has been fantastic.

a lady uses a favorite toy when she is with me. A vibrator, a (not too huge) strap on, restraints, anything that pleases her makes things so much more exciting for me. She is inviting me into her space and this is a generous gift to me.

I have no problem if she breaks out her favorite toys.  I'm all for whatever pleases her.  Stimulating all the orifaces going for erotic sensory overload - sign me up.  

I was starting to get interested in the transsexual women, but wasn't sure I could take it.  So I mentioned it to my ATF, and she was quite happy to "train me in" with vibrators and strap-ons.  It really turned her on, too, and she would go buck wild on me.

Thank you for your response!  Makes a lot of sense.  I'm like you, courteous by nature...