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If it turns her on, then I'm turned on. eom
Gypsy2184 See my TER Reviews 988 reads
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1 / 24

So to hobbyist do you mind if the girl you were seeing pulled out a small vibrator and used it while bbbj or any other way? If so, would you want to be asked first? Just wondering because maybe some guys might not like the idea or the sensation....

And to other providers,if and when you bust out any toy/vibrator do you check first or just whip it out? Lol

 
Ive tried it twice with one great reaction and one not so great...lol....so just curious....

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 316 reads
posted
2 / 24

i do not like using toys on myself during the session usually unless i know it really turns on my partner  
i prefer the real flesh lol

Alan_Nimm 366 reads
posted
3 / 24

no need to ask.  But if she's planning on using it on me, I'd appreciate her checking with me first.  

Reminds me of a date awhile ago where the provider told me she would like to use a Magic Wand in multiple ways, with each of us using it on the other. I tell ya, she was a master with that thing. And she enjoyed it immensely also.  :)

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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 269 reads
posted
4 / 24

If you're using it on yourself, go for it. If you plan on using anything on me, you damn well better ask first! 😊

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lopaw 29 Reviews 325 reads
posted
5 / 24

....and both times it was awesome. I have a quick release trigger, so using a vibrator on me will have me climaxing way too soon, so it has to be used with caution.

But I also enjoy using them on providers as well....and what woman doesn't love a nice vibe session to go along with that DATY? :D

I have thought about bringing my own toy to playdates, but I never remember when the time comes. I guess I gotta keep a 'pocket rocket' in my car's glove compartment for that next special occasion.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 248 reads
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6 / 24
hiddenhills 143 Reviews 287 reads
posted
7 / 24

As we hit the bed. I found out over the years that's where many providers keep the toys. If I find anything, I usually ask if its for her, me or us.

hbyist+truth=;( 344 reads
posted
8 / 24

Hair pulling, slapping or finger in butt for hookers, something you should ask first.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 262 reads
posted
9 / 24

Please tell me that some guys DONT do any of these things without asking?!

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
Hair pulling, slapping or finger in butt for hookers, something you should ask first.

impposter 49 Reviews 266 reads
posted
10 / 24

I've never had the vibrator treatment, but I've been in a few situations where her fingers have gone exploring without notice. I've reacted differently on each occasion, not always well. I definitely want to be asked so I can either decline or prepare myself

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 267 reads
posted
11 / 24

I always have toys with me but I do ask the gent first before pulling it out.
I like to use toys on myself sometimes and will use them if the gent is into it.
But some gents do not like toys so for that reason I ask.

hbyist+truth=;( 261 reads
posted
12 / 24

The "I pay so I can do what I want" corps. Even some of the others who think hookers should be able to deal with everything that is thrown at them.

KristaC34 See my TER Reviews 246 reads
posted
14 / 24

This hobby has expanded my sexual repertoire exponentially!!!  And...OMG!!!   (No words... Except: yum!)
That being said, I was somewhat shy IRL w toys before this life..
I'm eager to use toys in my sessions, however, I have yet to ask the question to find out if it's on the table for him...  
So!  Is it acceptable to be direct in asking, and at what point in the interaction (making appt stage to being alone together stage)?

Appreciate your opinions!!

xoxo
Krista of Atlant

Misnout 5 Reviews 224 reads
posted
15 / 24

Meet with a provider who while in K9 whipped out a vibrator which she proceeded to use on herself.  I thought it was fantastic.  Nice sensation.

el.dude 223 reads
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17 / 24
tt85003 121 Reviews 271 reads
posted
18 / 24

surprise and felling that a vibrator gave during session

CuriousSort 201 reads
posted
19 / 24

I'm planning on a session sometime where I sit in a chair.  She sits on my cock with her back to my chest.  I reach around and use a vibrator on her so that I can feel her pulsing on my cock when she cums.  :)

PocoHunter 15 Reviews 203 reads
posted
20 / 24

I'm courteous by nature, and when I am enjoying intimacy with another person, providers or civvies, I make sure to asks first about anything out of the norm that I would like to do. The worst that can happen is that she says no. Therefore, I expect to receive the same treatment. I have never used any toys on me, but had used them on some of the girls I've been with and it has been fantastic.

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 251 reads
posted
21 / 24

a lady uses a favorite toy when she is with me. A vibrator, a (not too huge) strap on, restraints, anything that pleases her makes things so much more exciting for me. She is inviting me into her space and this is a generous gift to me.

1615628anon 11 Reviews 178 reads
posted
22 / 24

I have no problem if she breaks out her favorite toys.  I'm all for whatever pleases her.  Stimulating all the orifaces going for erotic sensory overload - sign me up.  

I too enjoy being engulfed with no motion clitoral stim to feel my partner spasm while she O's.  One of my favorite things is watching a lady rub out an O and immediately going in for DATY.  Who knows better than you what gets you off.  

In terms of her wielding the toys for my pleasure...  I've not tried it but I wouldn't be opposed as long as she progressed at a manageable pace...

vantheman666 11 Reviews 173 reads
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23 / 24

I was starting to get interested in the transsexual women, but wasn't sure I could take it.  So I mentioned it to my ATF, and she was quite happy to "train me in" with vibrators and strap-ons.  It really turned her on, too, and she would go buck wild on me.

KristaC34 See my TER Reviews 191 reads
posted
24 / 24

Thank you for your response!  Makes a lot of sense.  I'm like you, courteous by nature...

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