I see so many providers that fell like they are entitled, we provide them with the trips the cars rent and everything else they have if they don’t have a regular 9-5. We need to stop paying outrageous prices for SWers. I had a provider tell me this:

Quality,  Not Quantity ..
Kisses
Sheila

Common denominator...

I book from p411 her issue was with me not paying deposit. And she went in her rant. Hence the title of my post (Entitled).

Yeah and you charge below $400 so you would be one of the back page girls she was talking about LMAO so stupid.

but of course even if you had there would still be a bunch of hookers (and spineless johns) defending her response to you.

Oh I forgot to mention she agreed to see me and once I told her I don’t send deposit that’s when she went bar shit crazy.😂😂😂😂😂

It seems they have all conspired together to ask for them and its not only from the high end girls.

Did you know she wanted a deposit before you booked the date?

My experience has been that some ladies may post or put on their websites that they require deposits, but probably 90% of those ladies that claim to require deposits never asked for one.  For many ladies it probably depends on the guy and his credibility/reputation.  Net, maybe 1/10 claim to require a deposit and of those maybe 2/10 actually request one.  1/10 x 2/10 = 2/100 =2% of the time that I book a lady requests a deposit. Very small percentage.  

"Required" deposits in socal are more just a suggestion. You can almost always tell them that you're not comfortable with sending them money prior to meeting them and it magically goes away. Turns out, money is money, and turning away good business is no way to make money.

Never Pay Deposits; hopefully I never will.  Right now there are too many Nice Ladies who trust me.  I have never NCNS, or even cancelled.

Deposite wasn’t mentioned until after I passed screening and date was set.

wrong place if your goal is to bash providers.  In a nanosecond you will be like chum floating in shark infested waters and revealed as the true POS your post makes you sound like.

Not to keep the Messicans out, I LIKE the beaners, especially the chicas who like most immigrants are trying to take advantage of all the opportunities in our great country. It's our western, northern and eastern borders I am worried about.  

Our snowflakes move to Texas, this state has a knack for minting new ones.  As you say, a wall facing California would serve you better.

calipers to measure ball-size at the Texas border?  If any state would actually do that,  it would probably be Texas.  Lol

It could be integrated into every "Welcome to Texas" sign and, if the alarm sounds, the car gets pulled over, turned around, and sent back. For airports and other ports of entry, make the scanning mandatory BEFORE they get on the plane/train/boat . . . just like checking for valid passports and visas.

This is why I like TER POS like yourself like to talk big and bad on your keyboard in your moms basement.

I like it.  Texans might like it too.  

I prefer to pay up front in full before the date. I like using cash app. Then again I only book 4 hour dinner dates.  

My problem aren't deposits.  I just don't deal with a lady that wants them.  I know NCNS is a big problem.  I live in an area of the country where we can have storms or icy roads.  The ladies that want cancelation fees is growing.  Although nobody paid me a fee yesterday when I got no showed.  If a lady I am booked with has a cancelation fee I have been known to cancel three days ahead of time if the TV weather says there is a chance of freezing rain.  I also drive up to 5 hours for most of my visits.   I have only once canceled on a lady on the day of and I gave her almost 10 hours notice.  She was very nice and said I hope you can schedule again.  I did.

While it might be laughable for you to engage in the behaviors you mentioned, that's unfortunately not the case with everyone. There are plenty of posts detailing instances where deposits were paid and services not received. And, even where reputable providers were involved, there have been cases in which cancelllations happened (from the provider's side) and complications arose in getting a return of the deposit. So, while granting that deposits work for your personal situation, my only issue is with the "standard operating procedure" designation. There are plenty of women who don't require them and plenty of clients who, for a variety of reasons, refuse to pay them.

The list of "well reviewed" providers taking deposits, and then ghosting on multiple clients without so much as an "I'm sorry" much less a refund is a long and growing one.

Deposits are a no-go. Only people that I've given deposits to are Pamela Peaks' agency and AIA which are pornstar agencies. I know AIA's owner and I consider them a friend. PP has a stellar reputation and I've never heard anything bad about her. I understand why pornstars ask for deposits because you're going to have a bunch of people back out at the last minute from nerves or just being trolls.  

When I am on tour, I get a deposit for all first time meetings unless the client is a P411 member.  I also get deposits for my San Diego (home base) meetings If someone doesn’t have two strong references or if they cancel appointments.

I just took a look at your site and "your" cancellation/deposit policy doesn't seem out of line, especially requiring a deposit from clients who have cancelled in the past, now if us guys could only get a deposit from providers that cancel on us, but I digress. lol

I will never send a deposit to many beautiful ladies out here who don’t ask for a deposit as far as providers who say travel and hotel cost that’s the cost of doing business if I get sick or some emergency come up I shouldn’t be out of a deposit life happens!

stupidity of your posts.  Your words reveal just what an ignorant fool you are.  You can not run from it, you opened up who you are to the world.  Your words reflect how you think and exactly what you are made of.   And it is NOT pretty!  Get a grip!

I have come across some gals like this on twitter. I request $250 an hour. Unfortunately the gals that request $500+ an hour are also the gals that I see complaining that they don't have any business.  

This is the thing I always say ...  if your goal is making money, price your merchandise to move!  Somebody who puts a $1000 price tag then gets maybe a client a month, would make tons of money at $300 a crack if she'd put in the hours.
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I mean some of us have spent decades at under $50/hour and view something like $300/hour as heaven sent.  And then they turn their noses up at it.  It's insane.

"$300 a crack" was a Freudian slip.  LOL

Although not intended as a pun, I was aware of it's potentiality.  

Make screening easy.  

What was the reasoning for requesting a deposit?  
Do you lack provider references?
Was this a request for an overnight, or extended date encounter?

Like Gambler says, " Remember there is not a Better Booty Business Bureau" in the hobby.  Thus you have very little recourse if she runs with the money.  Now if she gave you collateral of equal value then it is something different.  However recognize game when it is being run.

See, it's attitudes like yours that have caused many ladies, especially touring, to require a deposit.
I personally only require a deposit for extended dates, such as overnights, and FMTY, and, on rare occasions I might ask an individual that lacks provider references for a small deposit.

That's just the problem ma'm, providers aren't held accountable. Usually by the time you've paid a deposit, you've been screened, which gives her more than sufficient leverage to take your money and have you say nothing about it.

People who make reservations but never show up are the bane of the restaurant business. By way of response some high-end and/or highly popular establishments require a cc number with every reservation and charge a cancellation fee for no-shows. That's fine as a business strategy if the restaurant is truly in high demand and the local market supports it. But, if those factors aren't present, customers will tend to gravitate toward restaurants without a cc requirement. So, for those restaurants who think themselves worthy of a Michelin star but are actually more at the level of Hooters, the market will always have the last word.

This probably goes without saying but no monger I know prefers to have a deposit. Consequently, no provider I have ever met with enjoys cancellations. The reason we have venerable services such as TER is so that we all have some level of trust. If she has no reviews and no identifiable footprint within the business, then NO.  I'm out on the deposit. A reputable provider where I'm booking a slightly longer engagement ( dinner, etc), then no problem. Like everything in this hobby of ours its YMMV...