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That sucks she was annoyed! I'm sure her being annoyed didn't help the situation.

I just think it's nerves....or maybe shouldn't have had that last beer lol.

If a guy doesn't seem to be rising to the occasion, I just direct his attention elsewhere...Me! I have hot buttons too that need to be pushed ;)

Kisses,
Christine

Lonerider2277 reads

Ladies, what is your perception when a client fails to rise to the situation? I will admit, it happened recently, not sure if it was nerves, not enough time between pops, not sure. The provider seemed a bit annoyed, I'm not sure why it's not like there is a no performance refund.

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clairecavendish965 reads

Hi there,
The only reason she would,have got cross at your hiccup in performance would be because she's got low self esteem issues and sees your lack of get up and go as a personal slight on her! I'd just ignore it, it happens to all guys at one time or another, those of us who are professional would smooth it over not get pissed :)

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Blowing Chunks786 reads

They want a dick that can rise to the occasion. :D

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0603450onThe1126 reads

the provider was annoyed? That's silly in my book. You can't help what the body won't naturally do.

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JackDunphy840 reads

It happens much more often to YOUR johns.

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0603450onThe1179 reads

it happened with the gentlemen I have met, did I ;)

I can point you to my reviews if you'd like.......they are here for a reason unless they are far too long in detail for you to handle.  

Sleep tight Jack, don't let the bed bugs bite...TOO HARD.

;)

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JackDunphy773 reads

It's a well known fact that septugenarian johns almost always sport wood on demand for a BSC hooker.

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89Springer942 reads

you're a class act.  

I had a session last week where a lot of things went wrong, including my injection. I do injections rather than Viagra, as the erections are harder, I can cum and still have an erection after, and I can have multiple pops. That's IF the needle hits the right spot. Well, I missed.  

The young lady took it in stride, and we found ways to satisfy each other. This wasn't the first time one of her customers didn't get a full woody.

I can't imagine why the provider would be upset. It's the guy who's plunked down a lot of money and isn't getting the dick dance he was hoping for.

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wrps071050 reads

Instead of viagra or injections do swimming. Then go have a session. Your blood vessels will be opened up naturally after swimming and you will be rock hard.

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89Springer1083 reads

How old are you?

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wrps07983 reads

50.

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89Springer1013 reads

Check back with me in about 10-12 years. ;)

No, seriously, I'll look into the swimming idea. However, if a beautiful, 36DD-22-36, 24 year-old brunette in lace thigh-highs and lace panties and bra doesn't get it up, I don't know that swimming the English channel could do it. ;)

The nice thing about injections--when done correctly--is that you have a hard-on even if you're not trying to have one. Depending upon the dosage, you've got one for half an hour to three or more hours. I can do one at lunchtime at noon here at the computer, and still have a woody at 3 pm.

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0603450onThe975 reads

careful with those 'injections'. While I know many men use them, there are many natural ways as he stated (swimming) to try to get to where you need to be. Putting 'stuff' in the bod no matter how quick a fix it is, can't be good for the long haul. That makes me nervous. Just please be careful.  

Muah

xoxo

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89Springer960 reads

The injectibles have been around for about 30 years. As long as the user stays within the safe dosage range determined by his doctor, there's usually no adverse side effects.

If it weren't for nervousness, I wouldn't need it. That's why I think something like swimming probably wouldn't help. It's being nervous more than it is a physical condition.

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0603450onThe814 reads

tea or add some lemon balm to a cup of herbal tea before an appnt. Should ease your anxiety just a bit as long as it doesn't make you sleepy lol. Do a test 'before' an appnt and see how it makes you feel. Most importantly just BREATH...there are excellent breathing exercises to help with this sort of thing that help in daily everyday stresses of life as well as coping with nervousness and anxiety.  

Yoga? Take a class, not only will it help the mind, body and soul but you can then have a reason to stare at all the lil hotties in class too. I bet that could help a bit ;) In my class, I think that's why I think a lot of gentlemen take it anyway, not for the 'yoga' but for the 'yoga ass in pants' contorting their bods in every which way LOL.  

There are lots of natural remedies instead of toxins in the bod. That's all I'm saying, doesn't matter how long it's been around silly. I have an egg first thing every morning and a protein shake with the highest amount of protein to boost the mind and energy to keep things going all day (where do you think my smart ass sassy comments come from LOL jk). You just have to find what works for you and there's never too late a time to start figuring out what that is.  

;)

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89Springer799 reads

I've suffered all my adult life with anxiety and depression, although both have subsided a lot in the last decade.  

At one point I was taking as much as 90 milligrams of Valium in a single day. That's enough to put most people to sleep for a day or two. Sometimes that wasn't enough for the anxiety.

When I have to be sedated for an MRI or such, the anesthesiologist is always amazed that he or she has to use two or three times the normal amount of anesthetic. It's because I've built up such a tolerance for such things.

So...I don't think tea will have an effect. ;)

I'm a firm believer in pharmaceuticals. I've had pneumonia many times, and the last time was given a prescription that knocked it out in one day. Just two pills in one day. My father almost died from surgery for a condition that can now be treated with a week's worth of pills.

I've been a one pop guy since my early 20's. I learned to hold off for a long time before cumming, but once I did, that was it for the erection. That's why I like the injections. I can cum and still have more fun. There's no headaches or difficulty cumming as there is with Viagra.  

I hate getting old. I absolutely hate it.

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0603450onThe861 reads

through to you am I LOL. Babe, perhaps it's the VALIUM that's done the bod in.... NOT GOOD. But from one 'naturalist' to someone who believes in 'pharmaceuticals', I know this discussion will not end well and we can just agree to disagree and leave it at that.  

Again, 'drugs' are in the mind to help you think and cope that it will do you better. Ya know that shit doesn't work right? It just fucks you up even more and takes your money in the meantime thinking you need more shit to pile on top of it and all your worries and problems will just poof, go away LOL. It's a conspiracy I believe haha LOL.  

Springer, you're only as old as you think you are. With that attitude love, you will feel ancient in 2 years or less, not old. You seem absolutely adorable, just enjoy life for as long as you're here but as naturally as possible.

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89Springer641 reads

Taylor, I don't take anything that I don't absolutely have to. I put off using ED meds until I started hobbying. I knew from the experiences with my ex that things wouldn't go well without help.

As for the valium, I can never explain it to someone who hasn't experienced panic attacks. By "panic attack" I mean feeling like you're having a really bad acid trip while simultaneously being screamed at by a Marine drill sergeant. I suspect you've never done acid or been in the Marines, though. ;)  (I had a bad acid trip, but was never a Marine).

Not to give you too hard a time, but I get a kick out of people who savage the pharmaceutical industry, and companies like Dow Chemical, etc. There's places in the world where all natural treatments are used, and there's no "big pharmaceutical" or "big chemical" companies. It's called the Third World. People die by the millions from starvation because of bug-ravaged crops and from diseases that we in the industrialized West haven't experienced in a hundred years thanks to pharmaceuticals.

Better living through chemistry. ;

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inicky46588 reads

while I do sympathize with your plight, it also reminded me of this guy, whom I assume would be your worst nightmare.  It is funny though...

Related Link: Would a former drill sergeant make a bad therapist?

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89Springer757 reads

I love R. Lee Ermey. I've met him, and he's funny, but not intimidating (unless he goes into his D.I. act).

A D.I. alone wouldn't be enough to induce the level of fear that comes with panic attacks. It would have to be a D.I. while you were tripping, or cops shooting at you while you're tripping. I can't describe the level of fear that panic attacks induce.  

Odd as it may sound, I wish everyone could experience a panic attack for just a minute or two, just so they'd understand.  

I'm so glad I'm over those. I went from being anxious everywhere I went to traveling cross country several times a year by myself on a motorcycle. I just reveled in the sense of freedom after being hostage to those attacks for so long.

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inicky46849 reads

A really good exercise regimen helps a lot.  So does a decent diet, helped by the right supplements.  No joke, I look and feel better than most guys 20 years younger.
Of course, it also helps to be immature.
Basically, I have the body of a 30-year-old and the mind of a 15-year-old.  That's on a good day. I have been justifiably accused of acting like a five-year-old.  I plead guilty but, in fact, I have no guilt at all.

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GaGambler766 reads

as long as you believe he really is 90 years old.

and yes you do have the body of a 30 year old, and occasionally the bodies of women anywhere from 18-48, but unlike your 90 year old body, you have to give theirs back after "rental" period is up.

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GaGambler763 reads

I can understand a guy with ED wanting to ensure that he can perform, but why would still being hard whether you want to or not two hours later at work be considered a "good" thing?

speaking strictly for myself, if I had the slightest problem "getting it up" I wouldn't want to waste any of that time sitting behind my computer at work.

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89Springer939 reads

GaGambler, I did that for testing purposes. I don't just shoot up with the stuff to sit around with a hard on. I want to know what dosages to use for two hours, three hours, etc. I'm still pretty new to the injections routine.

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GaGambler810 reads

I had misunderstood that you actually enjoyed still sporting wood for another two hours after having sex, and that simply made no sense to me. Ensuring that you can/could go for another couple of hours makes perfect sense.

Getting shot up simply to have sex does seem like an extreme measure, but I am sure it beats not having sex at all. I am sure you want to make the most out of every minute you can after going to such extremes. Good luck, and yeah I don't think "tea" is going to cut it either. Natural remedies work just fine when their is nothing wrong with you in the first place. I could just as easily claim that getting drunk almost every day is my "secret" to good health. After all I do drink like a fish, I am in perfect health, so why not connect the dots to come with a "cause and effect" conclusion??? rofl

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89Springer882 reads

My best erections were when I was drinking heavily. When I quit, that's when I started having problems. Inhibitions, I suppose.

Injections aren't all that radical. Same principal as Viagra and Cialis, but the injections generally work better. There's very few nerves in the sides of the penis, so the needle just feels like a pinch. Thinking about injecting makes me more uncomfortable than actually doing it. I'm having much better results than with pills.

Something for you to keep in mind for years down the road.

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GaGambler920 reads

Or maybe just having a few before, and/or during a session? As you said, it could all be in your head, and "loosening up" a bit might be all you need.

I guess this is where I should make the mrfisher disclaimer (still not a doctor)

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89Springer674 reads

I'll never drink again. It made for good sex, but not the other things in my life.

I actually enjoy sex more sober than I did when I  was drinking.  I had multiple pops with a provider last week. I haven't had multiple pops since before I started drinking in my early 20's.  

Once I've been with a woman for a bit, I usually loosen up. If we have a second meeting, I'm loose from the get-go. I was that way when I was young and single, too.

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Duplicitouslust965 reads

Dear Ms. Steele the cerebral woman with the sex appeal:
I was wondering in your vast experiences as an adult companionship professional with a concentration on the copulatory and urological arts, what are some of the tricks to the trade when this challenge comes up for men? How do you get them to respond in kind with your sensual and femine touches? Please be fair and share.  Thanks.

Posted By: TaylorSteele
the provider was annoyed? That's silly in my book. You can't help what the body won't naturally do.

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Blowing Chunks862 reads

Dear Duplicitouslust, the cerebral dinosaur who vomits a thesaurus:

I was wondering in your vast experiences as a professional in the arts of verbiage pleonasm with a concentration in the arts of verbal circumlocution, what are some tricks to the trade when this challenge comes up for laymen bloviates?  

How do you get them to respond in kind with your usual thesaurus touches? Please be fair and share. Thanks.

:D

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inicky46861 reads

Just bear in mind that dupy certainly gets his rocks off writing this crap and also lives in the hope he'll get a girl to describe lewd acts in response to him so he can jizz on his keyboard.

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0603450onThe775 reads

spelling and writing a well formulated paragraph without a derogatory hit, I'd be happy to answer. I personally have no 'tricks to the trade' in this scenario, although I'm sure some women may. And in all honesty this has happened so rarely and never on a first (dare I say it 'pop') unless his psyche was so over controlled with nervousness in meeting, that it literally took over.  

'Compensating' and relaxing in other forms usually does the trick if one can 'get a grip' on the mind game. In some cases it is strictly physically impossible for some men, and that is completely ok and normal and nothing to be made a spectacle of. That's just weak and simply uncalled for by any person to make another human being feel less for something they simply cannot control. I might add although it may shock many here, NOT all men are here to 'get it up' and poke you every chance he can for that dollar amount. Unfathomable, I know.  

From my personal experience as I am sure many women here have experienced, most men are hard as rocks by the time they arrive and sometimes before I can barely say hello to be honest LOL, it is adorable. I will suspect it is from the anticipation and the 'lead' up to the date. It can in the same breath, work for both parties in this way. But for those who it takes a lil more time and care, sometimes it just takes a look or a soft touch on the leg or a small whisper in the ear close enough but not touching that'll do it. Finding that 'comfort' factor is key. Most men react the way you want them to if one pays attention to what works for them, if one takes the time to know how to read an individual on any level, the signs are there in plain sight. You just have to know what you're looking for. Now, some are easier to read than others, but overall, men love to be touched anywhere, anyhow by beautiful women they 'feel' some kind of connection with. And that starts with first communication typically, which is why I say choose your first words wisely, always. 'It' starts there.  

Now Lust I like you, but I can't give all my secrets away. I'm sure you get the idea. I did enjoy waking up this morning and appreciated your rather vast vocabulary and well worded post here other than what I normally wake up to, so thank you...did make me giggle.  

Remember, a lot of it is in the mind first and sometimes we just can't get the body to do what we want to do on command. It's just not wired that way in most cases. And it's only natural for both genders to want to 'perform'. But we aren't perfect creatures and sometimes things just don't always go as planned. The key is to somehow 'control' the mind to allow the body to do what it is supposed to do naturally, and that is enjoy itself with someone you are spending time with.

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palomamontecarlo821 reads

I had gentlemen have that problem when they take certain type of medication.. I feel that you can still make someone happy with a nice massage.. Wine, great conversation when physically the stars won't align right?

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wrps07799 reads

Or timing between pops. The lady has to be really hot and I have to be prepared to get 2 pops in a hour. I recommend that you get your rest, get a morning appointment or afternoon appointment right after you eat for a multi pop appointment. If you want a guaranteed for 2 pops book a multiple hour appointment. Also it could be hydration. If you coming from the gym stay out steam room, sauna and whirlpool. Those places will dehydrate you. It also helps that you drink plenty of fluids before the appointment. Pineapple juice is good between pops. Also try to go the bathroom before going to the next round.

It is also helpful if you have good shit at home/work before going to the appointment. Of course make sure you take your baby wipes to clean those dingle berries if you get them lol.

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Lonerider958 reads

Posted By: wrps07
Or timing between pops. The lady has to be really hot and I have to be prepared to get 2 pops in a hour. I recommend that you get your rest, get a morning appointment or afternoon appointment right after you eat for a multi pop appointment. If you want a guaranteed for 2 pops book a multiple hour appointment. Also it could be hydration. If you coming from the gym stay out steam room, sauna and whirlpool. Those places will dehydrate you. It also helps that you drink plenty of fluids before the appointment. Pineapple juice is good between pops. Also try to go the bathroom before going to the next round.  
   
 It is also helpful if you have good shit at home/work before going to the appointment. Of course make sure you take your baby wipes to clean those dingle berries if you get them lol.
Time of day could be the key here. I'm naturally a night person. Always have been. But I tried to take advantage of the few hours of freedom I had today when I can go play, which was early afternoon.  

It also didn't help that as I was entering the room, I hear the door right to me starting to open up. Even though once I saw what walked out was defiantly not LE.
Thanks for the replies.

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MasterZen757 reads

I mean, to make it "up" to her. smh

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russbbj831 reads

I can have a raging roger from bbbj, and she'll put a condom on me for full service and I can't maintain and I mean it matters not how hot she is, my ATF is the most beautiful woman I've ever met in person and the same thing. She actually told me that it's fairly common that some men just have a mental block to condoms. Damn, I wish I could get past that mental block, I haven't been able to cum during vaginal sex since I've been divorced. But I don't miss it enough to get a civie GF.

I'm not sure why a provider would get annoyed though, you are paying for her time, so if she can't make it happen in the time frame of your session she still gets the same amount as if you came 3 times. It sounds to me like this may be a BP provider, and what these women don't realize is that they're hurting their own cause by acting annoyed. Nothing will put me further from the finish line more than a provider trying to hurry me or being annoyed. No doubt it's an act and the best of providers are great actresses.

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wwm200420021039 reads

You need to find ladies that use female condoms. The difference in feel is amazing

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russbbj761 reads

I'm convinced it just a mental block for me, and so I guess I keep reinforcing that every time I say it. It's almost like the little guy is getting suffocated by the condom, he starts strong but I can't maintain.

I'd like to try the female condom once to prove or disprove my theory, oh my goodness I'm such a nerd that I'm treating my fuck life like a scientific experiment.

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GaGambler870 reads

The first time I ever tried I actually pulled out and started to accuse the lady of going BB on me, it felt that good.

The other great thing is you don't have to break the momentum going from foreplay to penetration, which I believe is where a lot of guys lose their wood, especially when the woman is a bit clumsy or finicky about the way she puts the condom on. I don't have a problem staying hard in a condom most of the time, although finishing in one is definitely an issue for me. That said, even I have lost wood and had a hard time regaining it when the lady fumbles around for five minutes trying to get the condom on to HER satisfaction, and then follows that by taking another ten minutes trying to get into a "comfortable" position for sex, by that time I have most likely lost all desire to fuck her.

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russbbj641 reads

I've seen that more and more ladies are female condom friendly now. I agree about the fumbling and with that stupid mental block I'm usually completely flaccid by the time it gets on. Or I guess I could see a professional about the mental block, but I don't want someone to tell me how BSC I am.

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MasterZen959 reads

the FC, it was a bit like you said: provider fumbling to get it inserted just right, the vision of the FC hanging out like some strange vaginal exudation. A Pecker-Wrecker experience and vision for sure. Second time around, a better experience... but I still don't like the visual with the FC.

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hbyist+truth=;(699 reads

She was "annoyed" at the thought of all the work she had to do to get it up.

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EscortCouple690 reads

That sucks she was annoyed! I'm sure her being annoyed didn't help the situation.

I just think it's nerves....or maybe shouldn't have had that last beer lol.

If a guy doesn't seem to be rising to the occasion, I just direct his attention elsewhere...Me! I have hot buttons too that need to be pushed ;)

Kisses,
Christine

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TiannaTemptation627 reads

Wow, she seemed annoyed?  That's not cool.
Ive had some experience with men that have varying degrees of ED and we always find fun things to do. ;)  
I feel that it is the provider's job to make you feel comfortable, after all you are the one paying for her services...

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