You can try spoiling me.... and I'll act like I'm unhappy.
But then someone may get upset by that. Lol

On a serious note, guys most definitely seem to want some reaction when spoiling a girl. Deep down, I think it is safe to say that the gifters / spoilers doing the spoiling are always expecting something in return. No such thing as a free lunch. Either the dude wants to get special treatment, get into her pants, or into her heart....
except for strange people like Ghandi or mother teresa or selfless me, not many would want to spoil someone unless there is an "agenda". Actually, I do favors for friends and spoil them on occasion if they do me a huge favor too but that falls under friendship.

So the guy doing the spoiling may not continue to spoil if he starts feeling like his ROI isn't performing well. Prolly advantagous for the lady to put on a great hollywood act, or a "demsel in distress" show. Lots of saps... I mean guys... respond well to that.  Lol

Saw this video and had to share.

Plus...

We are the elite.  Men are debonair and rich, women beautiful and classy.   Let's leave it at that and be unashamed of spoiling and enjoying each other's company.  

I wish we would quit bashing each other and complaining.  This hobby is meant for relaxation and indulgement.  If you find yourself with the slightest irritation- move on to another companion.

If you do spoil (whether in real life or in this hobby)- trust that such actions do not go unnoticed or unappreciated. Some of us are shy about acting too giddy about trinkets and do our happy dance when you can't see us.  

If any of you gentlemen want to spoil a girl who makes you happy, you have my blessing.

That is all,

Destiny Delight

P.S.  I am WAY too hesitant to post this because I am scared of alias attacks.  But you know what, Marilyn Monroe rocks my socks off..  Soooo..... POSTED.

doesn't react gracefully.  that's why it's called "spoiling".  nice sentiment, though.

First of all, you are waaaaay to cute to attack.  Well, I am actually planning an attack soon, but it's one you're going to like.  Meanwhile, I'll see your link and raise you with this video of one of my favorite SNL characters.

Muah hahahahahhahahah

Thank you!  I have never seen that before and LOVE it.    

The title of your post worried me.  I'm glad it turned out to be a nice message!  

An attack I will like, eh?

MeOw,
Destiny Delight

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many times the girl ends up taking it for granted or takes the guy for a chump.  
I hear 2 or 3 carat diamonds are the standard these days...  too expensive for a drunk and broke guy like me to afford.  

So I limit my spoiling and wait til the girl is much more committed to me and reciprocates with a rolex / chappard watch, maybe a brand new sports car with a V8 engine.

Guys like to be spoiled too.

I'm out of town or I would have seen you at the mixer.  I'll be back around Thanksgiving so maybe I can help stuff your bird.
nick

That is the sentiment that makes me sad.  Girls need to stop that!  How do they make you feel like a chump?    

It doesn't have to be diamonds, silly.   It really is the thought behind a present that can be touching.  Though, really, all of us are fine without and they are not expected at all.

A gift can be a romantic signature of times past.  Nevertheless, I totally understand your wanting to save presents for wifey. I also understand your want for women to be more appreciative and for them to spoil you.  

XOXO

You romantic beast, you.  Sounds great.  

XOXO

I guess I've never spoiled someone and been unhappy with the reaction, so I can't relate...

But if that is what happens- I understand not wanting to go out of my way to make someone happy..

XOXO,

Destiny Delight.

I can't toss on a pink dress and we can't reenact that Marilyn Monroe video???

Oh, Mannnnnnn.







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You're always on the receiving end of 'trinkets' and the envelope.

Read my link from a previous thread. Speaks for itself as far as some chump expecting a sign as far as trying to be thoughtful enough to do something as fucking stupid as to give a working girl anything more than is required when a guy meets her.

Fuckin' please.

FUCK YOU, YOU FUCKING FUCKER!! Your problem is your fucking dick is a fucking "trinket."  You no-dick, mother-fucking bastard!  I will rip off your head and shit down your neck.  The whole fucking world knows you are Destiny's WK.  Believing you'd rip on her is like believing Dick Cheney would turn down a heart transplant.  OMG!  Is this the fucking P&R Board?  Fuck you anyway!

Lady pissed me off with that statement, and you even worse cuz you're a self righteous douche-bag.

Go ahead.  Prove me right. I rule. Fucking fucker-loser. I own you!  I already know the fucking lady is hotter than fuck.  I will bone her into oblivion.  I am Doctor No.

Before she could say men are debonaire and rich and ladies are something and classy. Have to look it up, but trust me, if I have to go back and do my research it'll piss me off even more.

I'm not rich, unless she knows something I don't, and in that case I'll be more than happy to buy her some more shoes she won't wear.

Fucking went to NYC to model and you slimy assholes got your claws into her. Fucking pisses me off. She doesn't even talk like she used to. It's all PR and shit like that.

You really don't want me to go on...!

and felt like sharing the lovely video I came across.

Naturally, I've come across my share of bad cookies.  But I adore classy men and I love being spoiled and I don't want to have to apologize for it.  

I'm not quite sure I understand what men want in return, though. Puppies are wonderful at expressing excitement when something is given.  Women can be shy and try to express it through kisses or something that may be deemed insufficient.  In this light- I suppose gifting may not be such a great idea.  I would hate to dampen any relationship with being thought of as ungrateful...  

MP67-  I know you are not rich.  You are a wonderful person and very caring.  One doesn't have to bring diamonds.  You brought sushi and sweet drinks.  The sweet thought behind it was wonderful, and I'll always remember you taking the time to do that and to bring my favorites.  

I see you are trying to stir up trouble.  But I'm going to bed.  Try to be good.   PFftahahahahHahahah.  Yeah, right...

Telling people out loud I did this or that for you? Damn, lady. I have a rep I have to maintain and you put a bullet in it quicker than shit! Fuck!

I can fuckin' see it now....

'Destiny, Mikey's being mean to me. Would you please tell him to stop? I'll pay you cuz I know he listens to you...'  

BTW, try to be good? You know when I'm bad I'm even better, lol!

and although i don't have the pink dress and accessories to go with it, if you get me drunk enough, i will channel Marilyn at a karaoke bar....

hope nobody goes blind from that

instead of the fucked-up version you've got now?  Fred rules!  Roger them roundly, dude!