do any of u fellow TER members disclose you belong to TER when u see a provider?  not w/the idea of haggling, but w/the idea of letting the pro. know that the session could possilbly be reviewed?  plz. share.

Since I only see independent women that have reviews on TER, I figure it is helpful for them to know I am sending a serious inquiry and not wasting their time, when I give my ID. If they have VIP here, they can read my reviews to see if they like my focus.

I never mention my ID with the intent of trying to get 'more' or making her feel under pressure. Since I 'screen' providers well, I have yet to be disappointed in a date.

of the ladies I've seen have multiple pages of reviews, and the comment that the session "could possibly be reviewed" is not going to cause her to give me an extra good session. If I treat her with respect and courtesy, the session is going to be great anyhow. Never failed me yet.
jhb

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They usually swoon and throw themselves all over me.


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I tell all (TER and date check) to reassure the lady that I am not LE.  I also want her to be able to read any reviews or --in case she has seen me post-- to know whatever she wants to know.  I am not trying to leverage anything just to balance things since I have read her reviews and seen her web site and have information about her.

They are always relieved afterwards.

(Gotcha!)

8o)

so I go along with it.

I'm of two minds about it:

First, a provider has a right to ask anything she feels she needs to be sure that she is safe.

Second, it could be seen as gaming the review process because if she finds that the reviewer is tough, she might just decide not to see him thus skewing her ratings through reverse adverse selection.

All and all, I think the former takes precedence.

Fortunately, I've haven't had the moral quandry of seeing a provider with whom I was unhappy.

I chalk that up to being very selective and doing lots of research.

If I select a lady from TER, I inform her that I saw her listing & give her my review handle.
skb

They usually laugh at that...

and still, I get no respect

She said she had a "no review" policy and would not see me.  I replied that is fine, and I would respect her policy and refrain from writing a review.

She never replied to that email.

In my early years I would select or be selected from the casino floor for my much of my companionship. A silver wrist watch, cash, and who knows how many other items of value later and I discovered the review boards.

I am a VIP member on this website who as yet, does not review, but would if asked to do so.

I always mention my membership, just once, when I begin correspondence with the female to let her know how I found her. It is also to let her know how comfortable I am with her through the information provided and hope she might feel a touch more relaxed with me than with someone cold calling to her personal website.

In mentioning TER to her I expect no more than fulfilling the thoughts that I have expressed above.

From a providers point of view, most hobbyist announce themselves in their intial inquiry.

But the fact is I find most of my dates right here on TER so they already know when I get there.  I have had ladies ask me to write a review on occasion but I've never tried to leverage my TER membership to get better service.

It is surprising how well that works.  Of the menu services, and huge discounts and off the clock sessions.




(still not mrfisher)

Most of my ladies have been on here, and I want to let them know I will write a review, unless they tell me not to.  I also tell them I have Date-Check for refs if needed, that I have so many whitelist referrals here, and I also review on escortsdotcom.

Hopefully, this info will help them screen me if I am a new client, and let them know the way I write my reviews.

Swim