Since I only see independent women that have reviews on TER, I figure it is helpful for them to know I am sending a serious inquiry and not wasting their time, when I give my ID. If they have VIP here, they can read my reviews to see if they like my focus.

I never mention my ID with the intent of trying to get 'more' or making her feel under pressure. Since I 'screen' providers well, I have yet to be disappointed in a date.

of the ladies I've seen have multiple pages of reviews, and the comment that the session "could possibly be reviewed" is not going to cause her to give me an extra good session. If I treat her with respect and courtesy, the session is going to be great anyhow. Never failed me yet.
jhb

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They usually swoon and throw themselves all over me.


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I tell all (TER and date check) to reassure the lady that I am not LE.  I also want her to be able to read any reviews or --in case she has seen me post-- to know whatever she wants to know.  I am not trying to leverage anything just to balance things since I have read her reviews and seen her web site and have information about her.

so I go along with it.

I'm of two minds about it:

First, a provider has a right to ask anything she feels she needs to be sure that she is safe.

Second, it could be seen as gaming the review process because if she finds that the reviewer is tough, she might just decide not to see him thus skewing her ratings through reverse adverse selection.

All and all, I think the former takes precedence.

Fortunately, I've haven't had the moral quandry of seeing a provider with whom I was unhappy.

I chalk that up to being very selective and doing lots of research.

If I select a lady from TER, I inform her that I saw her listing & give her my review handle.
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She said she had a "no review" policy and would not see me.  I replied that is fine, and I would respect her policy and refrain from writing a review.

She never replied to that email.

From a providers point of view, most hobbyist announce themselves in their intial inquiry.

But the fact is I find most of my dates right here on TER so they already know when I get there.  I have had ladies ask me to write a review on occasion but I've never tried to leverage my TER membership to get better service.

Most of my ladies have been on here, and I want to let them know I will write a review, unless they tell me not to.  I also tell them I have Date-Check for refs if needed, that I have so many whitelist referrals here, and I also review on escortsdotcom.

Hopefully, this info will help them screen me if I am a new client, and let them know the way I write my reviews.

Swim