Is it just me or are there less of independent GFE providers who offer BBBJ CIM around these days ?  It does seem like I see less and less providers offering this service. In my area  the review boards have been entirely taken over by Asian/ Korean girls who do provide BBBJ/ CIM and at a good price. What are your thoughts ?    

Its definitely just you.  

Seems to be the same amount as any other time. Cbj or no cim is a deal breaker for me so I only stick to reviewed girls or word of mouth recs.

Of course you had to get "BBFS" into the thread.  

I enjoy BBBJ enormously. I prefer it. Occasionally I'm asked to perform a CBJ; rare, but it happens. I oblige but my taste buds cringe (latex, yuck!).

"word of mouth" - LOL!

I really want to CIM and I never have.  I’ve always been afraid to ask.  I’ve  only finished in the bag.  How do y’all broach the topic?

Why are you wearing a ‘bag’ when getting a blowjob? That might be your first problem.

It's called communication.  If you want her to open her mouth, you need to open yours and ask.

Some will list it in their ads or on their websites. If not that, check reviews. It’s easier to ask if you already know it’s on the menu.

It’s a searchable filter on the provider search here on TER.  

This is a business about getting your fantasies filled! There should NEVER be anything that you "really want" and "never have"... There is a provider for EVERY legal fetish. There might be a price point for it, but...  

"When I cum do you swallow or spit?"  It doesn't matter what her answer is because both of these presume that you have cum in her mouth.  Those who are new to P4P tend to overthink questions like this and often miss the obvious shortcut.  

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You got that right!

Once you're in the room, there's no reason to tiptoe around about what you want. You tell her you want to finish with a BJ and ask, "can I cum in your mouth?" Simple as that.

If that’s truly the end goal, it helps to know in advance.

This video goes into the calculation and probability of catching herpes from oral sex.

Of course, always check the reviews to see if it's typically on the menu. But he said he was afraid to ask. Closed mouths don't get fed, extra pun intended.

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You're right, once behind closed doors it never hurts to ask. Just never expect it and do it politely. I have learned in life there isn't much you cannot say (ask) if done with the right tone.

Why is it providers like you always end up on the other side of the country. Lol......

get out the kitchen. I have never understood CBJ. And this is totally different from my view on BBFS.  

All will cover, if you ask.  

Some of my regulars are no longer seeing clients that they have never seen before. One of them is just seeing me. They are also requiring STD test results before doing BBBJ and DFK. This has been going on since mid 2025.  

It’s always been been bbbj then covered fs

It probably depends on the type provider you are seeing. I could be wrong but I see a pretty wide gap between providers seeing those who are first time clients on spring break compared to your average P-411 , TER  clients  

Surprised to hear you would rather have it on your face than in your mouth….  I was going to start with asking for CIM instead of COF because I figured it is less offensive / messy for her…  

I enjoy both! But COF is preferable. 🔥

As long it’s not in the eyes! Someone got Chlamydia that way in her eye in our group. She was out work for several weeks while getting it treated!

During the height of an orgasm it's not always easy to aim. LOL

I was unaware of the high chlorine content in sperm.....  Learn something new every day!  ha!

sex with one on one instead of doing it in a group.  It will lessen the chances of a shot in the eye if you only have to watch where ONE dick is pointing.

Ba Da Bing
Ba Da Boom!

during sex and you won't get that burning sensation.  

I always want to cip, cim or cia.