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wrps07 46 reads
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Some of my regulars are no longer seeing clients that they have never seen before. One of them is just seeing me. They are also requiring STD test results before doing BBBJ and DFK. This has been going on since mid 2025.  

They are recently concerned about the reports of STDs from spring break.  

I do realize that professional providers take a lot of precautions and are generally more cleaner that non providers.  

When I am out and about if I see fine/attractive women they don't phase me any more since I realize in the US that 1 out of 3 people in the US have a STD according to CDC reports. 110 million people and about 9 million more women than men.

Is it just me or are there less of independent GFE providers who offer BBBJ CIM around these days ?  It does seem like I see less and less providers offering this service. In my area  the review boards have been entirely taken over by Asian/ Korean girls who do provide BBBJ/ CIM and at a good price. What are your thoughts ?    

Its definitely just you.  

Plenty bbbj and bbfs going on today.  

Covered bjs are lame.

Of course you had to get "BBFS" into the thread.  

 
He seemed to be asking about BBBJ-CIM together not BBBJ in general. In 9 years I've probably run into only 1 or 2 providers at the most who only did CBJ. One other had reviews that ALL said CBJ only but I saw her twice before she disappeared and experienced only BBBJ with her.  

 
I find that women who allow CIM are somewhat unusual  but not rare and even then most spit. Not a big deal for me either way.

Laspho40 reads

Seems to be the same amount as any other time. Cbj or no cim is a deal breaker for me so I only stick to reviewed girls or word of mouth recs.

"word of mouth" - LOL!

Posted By: Laspho
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Seems to be the same amount as any other time. Cbj or no cim is a deal breaker for me so I only stick to reviewed girls or word of mouth recs.

I enjoy BBBJ enormously. I prefer it. Occasionally I'm asked to perform a CBJ; rare, but it happens. I oblige but my taste buds cringe (latex, yuck!).

Why is it providers like you always end up on the other side of the country. Lol......

I really want to CIM and I never have.  I’ve always been afraid to ask.  I’ve  only finished in the bag.  How do y’all broach the topic?

Why are you wearing a ‘bag’ when getting a blowjob? That might be your first problem.

It’s always been been bbbj then covered fs

It's called communication.  If you want her to open her mouth, you need to open yours and ask.

 
Your very first review of a Provider has a TER profile that says she swallows.  If you read that before seeing her, it makes your job much easier.  Even if a Provider's profile doesn't indicate CIM, still no harm to ask.  The worst she can do is say, "No."

hehitshewins29 reads

Some will list it in their ads or on their websites. If not that, check reviews. It’s easier to ask if you already know it’s on the menu.

It’s a searchable filter on the provider search here on TER.  

I would never put it on my website because I’m not putting anything explicit/incriminating there. But I do make sure my TER listing is as accurate as possible 😇

This is a business about getting your fantasies filled! There should NEVER be anything that you "really want" and "never have"... There is a provider for EVERY legal fetish. There might be a price point for it, but...  

 
Isn't there a spot on the reviews that says whether she does CIM and/or spits or swallows? If she's not highly reviewed and her reviews aren't your jam, then move on.

 
-K

"When I cum do you swallow or spit?"  It doesn't matter what her answer is because both of these presume that you have cum in her mouth.  Those who are new to P4P tend to overthink questions like this and often miss the obvious shortcut.  

-- Modified on 4/15/2026 7:58:44 PM

Once you're in the room, there's no reason to tiptoe around about what you want. You tell her you want to finish with a BJ and ask, "can I cum in your mouth?" Simple as that.

hehitshewins35 reads

If that’s truly the end goal, it helps to know in advance.

Of course, always check the reviews to see if it's typically on the menu. But he said he was afraid to ask. Closed mouths don't get fed, extra pun intended.

-- Modified on 4/16/2026 12:23:01 PM

hehitshewins42 reads

You're right, once behind closed doors it never hurts to ask. Just never expect it and do it politely. I have learned in life there isn't much you cannot say (ask) if done with the right tone.

wrps0745 reads

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get out the kitchen. I have never understood CBJ. And this is totally different from my view on BBFS.  

 
But hell, I'll say it since it must be said, everyone's spunk doesn't taste good! There's a nasty, acid-y kind that leaves a horrible aftertaste that you can't get rid of. I think it comes from excessive eating of processed foods. And I, too, hate the taste of latex and 99.9% of lubes. BUT, I've always been a picky eater.  

 
For me, I'll do BBBJ until the cows come home, but can you please just cum on my face?

wrps0747 reads

Some of my regulars are no longer seeing clients that they have never seen before. One of them is just seeing me. They are also requiring STD test results before doing BBBJ and DFK. This has been going on since mid 2025.  

They are recently concerned about the reports of STDs from spring break.  

I do realize that professional providers take a lot of precautions and are generally more cleaner that non providers.  

When I am out and about if I see fine/attractive women they don't phase me any more since I realize in the US that 1 out of 3 people in the US have a STD according to CDC reports. 110 million people and about 9 million more women than men.

Surprised to hear you would rather have it on your face than in your mouth….  I was going to start with asking for CIM instead of COF because I figured it is less offensive / messy for her…  

I enjoy both! But COF is preferable. 🔥

As long it’s not in the eyes! Someone got Chlamydia that way in her eye in our group. She was out work for several weeks while getting it treated!

During the height of an orgasm it's not always easy to aim. LOL

sex with one on one instead of doing it in a group.  It will lessen the chances of a shot in the eye if you only have to watch where ONE dick is pointing.

worried31 reads

All will cover, if you ask.  

It probably depends on the type provider you are seeing. I could be wrong but I see a pretty wide gap between providers seeing those who are first time clients on spring break compared to your average P-411 , TER  clients  

I always want to cip, cim or cia.  

However, I have not allowed a yrans provider to cim in my mouth. Not ready for that.  
I do enjoy a cia.  

So I guess if a woman doesn't want cim , I can relate.

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