Victoria Love of Philadelphia and others like her will out you on Twitter if they get a wild hair up their ass about any random thing. Outing used to be reserved for the truly dangerous and harmful. Now it is done in an emotional pique whenever a MHB/BSC provider feels like it.  

..I mean she was butt hurt.. Can you imagine the emotional turmoil the guy put that snowflake thru? Had to be outed..  

I have seen increased demands from providers as a condition of a meeting.

anytime a provider receives a pre-screening or appointment request, P411 has a disclaimer stating, "We encourage everyone to do as much *additional screening as they feel is necessary*, to keep themselves safe."  

P411 members are made aware that providers can ask to see the ID used for P411 registration.  It doesn’t have to be a driver's license, I recall, but the last four digits of the card’s ID must match the last four digits of the P411 ID.  

Watching porn and rubbing one out before I would send a picture and ID to someone in this P4P world of ours.

Lesson learned, what exactly was reasoning behind this. A lot of vindictive people out there.

The provider posted the hobbyist’s selfie and ID with the following caption:

I have had a few providers ask to see my DL, at the door before the session though.  Sending it electronically is never a good idea IMO.  I think it's playing with fire.  Providers use aliases, the only alias protection we have as mongers are our handles.  I personally have 10 plus "Okays" from providers, so I ask why should clients be put in jeopardy of losing everything simply because someone wants to post their info all over Twitter.  That IMO is ridiculous.  

although we could debate the pros and cons of real world screening, it's 11pm on a Sunday evening - I'm fixin' to watch some Ozark and go to bed. The only point of my post was to reiterate that even if you are P411 verified* client, while you may not have to provide ID during the screening process, you may be requested to show within the first 5 to 10 minutes of you walking through the door for the engagement.  

I personally have no problem showing a provider my ID while in person to support my P411 verification. It's the demand to send a picture of it, in advance of meeting, that is my concern.  

She outed a guy for not paying her cancellation fee.  I don't remember the amount, $100 maybe, for a cancellation less than 24 hours prior to appointment.  He says he cancelled 23 hours 40 min before...something like that.  She says it was over 24 hours and posted his real name and employer on Twitter.

So I would love to know why he walked out. Yet in looking at the replies on twitter seems like most sided with her. That is disturbing to me. Lesson learned. I have no issues providing ID in person to verify yet will NEVER send again. That's just wrong.

She has been known to bat shit crazy for a long time. I wouldn't expect anything less from her.

She wasn't BSC then, nor was she young and that's more than ten years ago. I will say she did provide an excellent session.

She has reputation to go off on her clients for no reason. She used to be local to DC area and then, I think, moved out West. I think AZ.    

as soon as the girl sends me a picture of herself with her real name and photo ID i will do the same.   EOD

When I saw her she was in NYC, where she spent a few years.

I've been in the hobby eight or more years.  Will never give ID or work information.  That type of information can easily be used to blackmail you forever.  Imagine your office or home getting mail with photos of your emails and text to an escort.  She doesn't even need to show herself, she just needs to show you gave that information to an escort.

Did those providers not accept provider references?

There are a couple of providers in the DC area whose screening process is like going through an IRS audit.  In fact, I think one did ask for my last two years of tax returns.