ever happen to anyone or to anyone they know?

I’ve been a little bit surprised by the lengths that providers go to, to keep a low profile at the hotel.  I consider myself discrete; but I’ve noticed they talk in hushed voices, some have a TV / music on for background noise, and the lights dimmed (interesting that they always have a light blanket over a lamp to further dim the lights).   I get it, and greatly appreciate the discretion.  It’s interesting to see how these things happen….

Needs to be given instruction as to what room it is---parking---etc....so they don't do stupid stuff like ask stupid questions....gals need to not get rooms with card controlled elevators or controlled parking---Duh !!  (seen it all)

i’ve only been to one hotel and didn’t like the experience…the provider texted me the room and it didn’t need keycards in the elevator, and it was crowded enough in the lobby where i didn’t have front desk staff staring me down, but when i got off on her floor (no pun intended), there was a cleaning manager and his employee standing there jabbering away in spanish…they were both staring me down as i walked to the room and knocked …

I have never had this happen. I only see clients during the "front door is open" hours, usually 8 am to 10 pm. I also never stay in a hotel that requires the room card to use the elevator or with a front door man. Since the inception of hotels sex workers have been using them to see clients. Hotels are only going to care if you or your client make a scene or act very out of the ordinary. No drugs, no alcohol, no fights. Get VERY specific instructions as to how to get to the room. Don't talk to anyone. Don't show up 30 min early and sit in your car or in the lobby. What ever you do, do NOT ever ask the front desk any questions. I very clearly remember a post on twitter in regards to a client that was to see a provider in  a very large hotel. He could not find the room so proceeded to ask the front desk how to find *hooker name* in room xyz. The front desk then called *hooker name* and said they had the room registered under *real name* in room xyz and that *client's name* was there to see her. They both were asked to leave and she was barred from using that hotel chain again. Don't stand out, don't ask questions, and look like you belong there.

How can dimming their lights have any impact at all on the hotel management? In my experience girls dim their lights to cover up the fact that they are older than their pictures. Or heavier.

Ok, I always leave the door unlocked. I either prop it open a small bit so it does not shut tight or place the bolt lock thing through the door so it is propped open.  
Clients should NEVER be knocking on the door!!! Way too obvious!!!  
That is the provider's fault, NOT the client's fault!!!

Oh my goddddddddd that’s AWFUL

In decades of hotel trysts, I've never had a problem.  What Scarlett says is spot-on.  I'll add that my sense is that hotels appreciate the business, know what's going on, and are fine so long as there's no disturbance and no undue call for extra linens.  

I have had a couple of providers alter the lighting (i.e. put something over the light) to enhance the romantic atmosphere.  

THAT guy did not get his deposit back!!!

...at the far end of the hall so there's as little noise as possible.  AFAIK, none of them have ever been asked to leave.

Do they not let their pussies breathe?

That's a pretty special breed of stupid.

Maybe more so since the provider is not there for a just few days.  

Why should they be asked to leave?
Management wants to book the room . $$
If harassed more then likely a righteous desk clerk getting g more then a little indignant.  
As for the cleaning staff pretty comfortable with a nice tip for extra towels.

Bruh, you’re way too organized, lol. But I’m not far behind. I keep notes on ladies I am interested in seeing based on reviews and other activity online. I draw the line at hotels though.

He is the same in real life!!! lol Super organized and exercises daily. And he even brought me healthy snacks to my hotel!!! Straight shooter and all around nice guy. Very glad I was able to meet him in real life when I visited DC.    

Yeah, I noticed that too. If you go up to the room and you see the last guy leaving at the same time that you are going in, that is NOT a good sign.

who would go around to motels near a major interstate highway intersection and harass the hotel managers about single women checking into their rooms.

I've found that it pays to take notes since many times I get the hotels confused. There are times when I really need a men's room when I arrive and will hit the one in the lobby before heading upstairs. Beats using a cup in the car lol.  

IMO we, the hobbyists, should also take steps not to look out of place or draw attention to ourselves. When going to a business hotel or a high end hotel arrive dressed in business casual apparel, or something that a frequent guest in the hotel would wear. When passing through the lobby act like you've been there before and walk straight to either elevators or the hotel bar if you don't have the 'coast is clear' from the lady. I've seen 50+ ladies at nice/above-average hotels and I've never had an issue or felt uncomfortable.

It has never happened in 17+ years with us.

Much more common in Russia if you speak out against the current ruler. Coming to America soon.

yea, darwinism in action….

righteous front desk clerk or an angry and jealous wife/gf

Smart! This is why I always give directions to the  elevators when I send my room number.

I have previously posted some of the tricks I use to avoid suspicion while forging a hotel liaison.
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/a-busy-big-suits-my-strategies-810739
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I'm very nervous about incalls at hotels. First, never use your cell phone in the hotel lobby because the staff know that the only people using cell phones are calling their hostesses for room numbers. The women, children and geezers with walkers using cell phones? Probably planted there by hotel management and LE to create a false sense of security.  
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In my briefcase, I carry an assortment of decals and name badges for the major hotels. For example, I will slap a "Custodial Staff" on my back, pick up a large potted plant from an area out of view of the main desk and, with my face hidden behind the fronds, I'll head for the elevator. If anybody asks, I'm "Just moving this to the lounge on 23."  
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My briefcase is a "transformer briefcase" that I can quickly twist into the shape of a tool bag. I put on my "IMP Plumbing" disposable paper coveralls before heading over and head for the elevators. If stopped, I shout to the desk, "I got a call to plug an annoying leak on the 17th floor. I'll be done with 'er in an hour or two."  
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My "fireman with fire axe" outfit used to work well; the ensuing panic took a lot of attention off of me, but just made things worse in the long run.
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I have many other strategies to avoid suspicion and escape detection by the Hotel Desk Police.  
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That's why I prefer the bigger hotels with a moderate to heavy traffic
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/secrets-to-avoid-le-824704
Secrets to avoid LE
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I have already posted about my disguises and other tricks I use to pass thru the lobbies without attracting the attention of the hotel staff or LE. (Carry a huge potted plant to hide my face; my "IMP Plumbing" disposable overalls; etc.)  
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To avoid being caught carrying large amounts of cash, I have resorted to other measures:
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I had a florist weave a stack of 20s into a nice floral arrangement so no one would suspect I was carrying cash while visiting my hostess. She appreciated the camouflage but complained about the aphids that the florist forgot to remove.
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One time, I placed my bills between the layers of a cake. What's LE going to do? "Put your hands up and drop the cake!" My hostess liked the cake but complained about the icing making the money all sticky.  
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So the next time, I switched to pie: blueberry pie. It stained the bills purple but she was able to make out the denominations and we had a great session ... with the pie she had for the main course and some blueberry pie for dessert.
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When I don't have time to prepare so carefully, I just place the cash in an obvious place without making a big show out of it. Sometimes, I buy a magazine and use the bills as a bookmark; I make sure that she knows that I have bookmarked an important page so she doesn't just throw away the magazine without checking it.  
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I haven't used an envelope in years and have never had a complaint.
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Props for one of your funniest posts ever.

I thought stupid guys were better in bed.  Why didn’t you just reschedule?

Well thanks for the review! I, too, was very glad I got to meet you in person. You're a treat!

Yes. What helps is a provider who tells me where the elevator is located so I can do what you said, walk in like I know where I’m going.

A city or area where the force has too much time on their hands. They will copy ads from advertising sites and go to hoteks/motels in that area. Showing front desk copy of the ads and asking if anybody fits description in the ad to notify them. I recall hearing this from clients and providers.

I traveled from Boston to DC via train for 12 years. I stayed at the same hotels and got a boatload of extra towels each time. I have never ONCE been asked anything about it. I also tip housekeeping well daily, but that is small fries. Also, I normally order room service and again, tip well.  

I always use the hotel gym, sometimes if I have a cancellation and can't fill it I will take a dip in the pool. But for sure everyone better know my cheap ass is going to be down at the hotel food trough filling up for free breakfast and taking enough stuff back up for lunch. And another coffee to go for good measure. This whore doesn't charge enough to afford room service. Sheesh.

the last provider i saw hosted from a private incall and insisted that i call her on the phone and she gave me verbal directions to the room, including telling me not to repeat anything out loud…

I too had a similar experience.  The Provider wanted to guide me into her incall by voice and not to have my phone on speakerphone.  

I'm frugal-ish. But not that much. LOL. I gotta eat dinner!

If I only knew this years ago ...
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When I was in HS, I had some college interviews with Admission Officers who would visit the city and stay in a major hotel. At least two of those more memorable interviews were with attractive youngish women IN their hotel rooms!! Alone, just the two of us!  (I was a HS student, in my interview jacket and tie. They were probably in their mid- to late-20s or 30's at the oldest in their official business attire.)  
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I was accepted at those schools and I didn't even have to have sex with the Admission Officers!! ... I mean, Rats! I was accepted but I didn't even get to have sex with those Admission Officers!

It’s not always sex at least for me. I do maybe one guy a day at level 3 the rest are either level 1 or bdsm. And then a couple level 2. I have actually gone days without doing a level 3. Lately I have been craving it too. I don’t know if it’s just hormone shift as I get older or what but it’s making things a lot more erotic so far this year 😆

I do same! I always tell them to walk in like it’s their room. I mean pretend you have key even. Play the part blend in.. help us help u!

lol. This was hilarious. I tell guys to bring something to blend in and have some ideas on my website. I also often have folders that I give them to walk out with that way if seen the desk is not questioning why they came. I mean why would you be shagging with a folder. And then if they forget to toss it and it’s seen by spouse in car it’s not questioned either. It’s a folder. I got it from work or from my friend etc. I found it under the seat when cleaning car etc etc. You can make up any story and it’s legit.

Yes! I do this. I like when I do outcalls and the guy tells me too. But often I have to ask.

I really loathe when the guy shows up and walks in the room and says my name at the door 🤦‍♀️. Uh thanks sir for giving everyone my naughty name. I even had one do it as he was walking up a driveway at an Airbnb I was staying at. I was standing at front door when he got in I gave him a stern talking to !  

lol. I do same! Always take enough for lunch and maybe dinner. But I’ll eat at least one meal outside of hotel or Uber Eats.

Staff at major hotels are taught to detect and report signs of trafficking, particularly underage.

....there is a real concern with properties being used by escorts with some brands.  Some don't care.  The broad brush that hotels just don't care doesn't fit this narrative.

Well, I could have been saving money this whole time. LOL. I wonder how many girls do this?

Recently visited a hotel in the *suburbs* to see a "friend".  It was fairly new, required paid parking via an app, only for guests, no parking for visitors. Key cards required.  My friend got some grilling on check in.  

what are signs of trafficking?

i encountered a nasty ass doorman on one of my visits and he wanted to know where i was going and called up to the room…thankfully she confirmed and he let me go without an interrogaton

good one…got a chuckle reading that

I give my visitor clear directions on where to park (and not park), where the elevators are, whether the lobby is crowded or empty, and I avoid hotels that need a key card for the elevators as much as possible.  

Which hotels are "friendly". I haven't heard of a young lady being kicked out or banned.
But on the other hand, I do know of a "John" that was banned from a hotel.....I know because that "John" was me...lol

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Ive been told the managers know and dont care as long as nothing out of the ordinary occurs.

The main one being:   Never have open flames in the room!    If you want mood lighting, get some LED Christmas lights and drape them over the headboard.   No fuss, no muss, and no fire worries.

I’m just MORE careful.
And the C notes were exchange at my bank with no problem. Just needed the serial numbers to be legible.
Funny thing, it’s not the only time I had someone come in and see all sorts of shit on the floor. Imagine having room service in Vegas at 3am… there’s a sight

they have plaisible deniability if something goes wrong and business is business, especially now when tourism is down…i mean, an attractive woman checks in alone with luggage, gives a credit card, shows id, provides a phone number and otherwise follows the rules

I let my clients know where to park that is the most discreet and easiest way to get to the elevators.
If they have not been to the hotel before I give directions on how to get to the elevators from the lot/garage.
I have had to tell clients  DO NOT sit in the lobby due to them arriving early. They try to say they know how to blend in.
I ask for client to stay in car or away from desk until I give room# this was after a client years ago decided to stand in front of front desk when he called for the room#.

I've been to a few hotels for morning appointments and noticed the breakfast buffet and thought to myself "next time I should come an hour early and have a nice breakfast" lol.

do you have a blog or substack with your "advice?" I'd like to subscribe.

I should have hired a better agent.