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Question about Assistants and Bookers
Jayk47 2349 reads
posted
1 / 22
Question about Assistants and Bookers

This is a question for Ladies who use assistants/bookers to help screen. Do you disclose to prospective clients you will be giving their screening information to a 3rd party?

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 87 reads
posted
2 / 22
The booker/assistant already has your information

The email you send is opened and answered by them.

GaGambler 81 reads
posted
3 / 22
That's exactly what the OP is talking about

He is asking how many of you disclose the fact that you use an assistant/booker that will be privy to his/our confidential information BEFORE the screening information is sent.

 
Personally, I know a LOT of providers are quite open about the fact they have an assistant/booker working for them. I doubt too many of them are actually going out of their way to hide the fact.

 
Personally I prefer NOT to go through an assistant/booker, but it's hardly a deal breaker for me. What I don't like is a "flirty" booker who doesn't reveal she who she is, and then I walk into a session thinking I have had a friendly banter with the actual provider who of course is clueless about the flirting that went on between her booker and me.

Jayk47 77 reads
posted
4 / 22
Transparency

Out of the interest of transparency, I think providers should clearly disclose that on their website.

TheVoiceOfReason 85 reads
posted
5 / 22
Re: That's exactly what the OP is talking about

That of course assumes that the assistant is a she and not a he as some ladies have male assistants.  Would suck to have an assistant flirting with you only to find out later that it was a dude.

TheVoiceOfReason 77 reads
posted
6 / 22
No and Yes

I have never had a lady disclose that she would be passing my screening information to a third party.  That said, the overwhelming majority of booking assistants make it clear that you are communicating with a booking assistant so it is clear that the booking assistant is the one doing the screening.  I suspect that usually the provider provides her username and password to her accounts and periodically monitors correspondence.

TurbayVeronica See my TER Reviews 89 reads
posted
7 / 22
I dont like to have a third set of eyes

I dont like to have a third set of eyes on my emails, calendar. It is too much to trust. I respond all the emails myself, work on my own schedule. There are ladies that do it, and I respect it... but it is not for me.  

Whatever info is sent to me, is only for my eyes and no-one else. I know how to do my screening to my comfort level so I dont need anyone else to look into it or do research for me.
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impposter 49 Reviews 97 reads
posted
8 / 22
Re: I dont like to have a third set of eyes

Posted By: TurbayVeronica
Re: I dont like to have a third set of eyes
I dont like to have a third set of eyes on my emails, calendar. It is too much to trust.
I was going to post something about this from the client side. Some of the strongest arguments used to SUPPORT provision of personal info are that an experienced Provider with a good reputation has her business to protect. If a Provider ever outs a client, her business is ruined and over.  
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"If she has only been around for a few months with only a few reviews, be wary." kind of stuff.
"If she has been around for more than a year with many great reviews, she is probably trustworthy." kind of stuff.
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When the booker gets the personal info, we've got no clue as to who the booker (sometimes a he, sometimes a she) is and what THEY have to lose by abusing or misusing personal info ... usually, nothing.  
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If there is a problem, a Provider (or agency) might say, "We got rid of that person and hired a new person to handle screening and booking." So now we have a NEW unknown person to have to worry about!

TennGambler 20 Reviews 73 reads
posted
9 / 22
Not a Fan of assistants/bookers

I hate dealing with assistants.
I have a very detailed P411 profile which clearly describes my likes and deal breaker.
Also have over 40 okays.
Independent ladies almost always review my profile completely as I can tell from their replies.

Assistants rarely review my profile completely, they are just interested in the Okays.
Ladies with assistants almost never even look at my P411 profile so they have no clue what I like and hate.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 66 reads
posted
10 / 22
Re: Not a Fan of assistants/bookers

Assistants or not, no one that I've visited has ever (as far as I know) read my p411 profile.  
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Of course you never know if you are talking with an assistant unless they tell you that.  I have dealt with assistants who say right up front who they are.  But other times I wouldn't have a clue if I was dealing with an assistant or the provider herself.
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I would guess, however, that since assistants have to be paid, most providers don't employ them.  Just a guess, of course.

GaGambler 43 reads
posted
11 / 22
Hi Mya, welcome back

You started drifting over to the "dark side" over the last week or so. Nice to have you back in  "reasonable land" lol

 
I agree about "getting to know who you are meeting" this goes the same in reverse of course, there is nothing worse than engaging in a little pre session banter through email or text and then meeting the girl in person and she is completely clueless about what was said before you met because it wasn't her you were talking to, talk about starting a session on a bad note.

 
I have always found it amusing how many women claim how "low volume" they are, but in the very next sentence they start talking about how busy they are and that all pre session correspondence needs to go through their booker.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 82 reads
posted
12 / 22
I've had booking assistants who . . .

pretended to be the girl, and starts calling me "honey" and engaging in flirty conversation.  Then when I meet the girl, she has no idea who I am.  Lol

Lifeuniverseandeverything 123 reads
posted
13 / 22
Then there are the ladies who claim they have assistants but don't.

A few have claimed to have assistants for the illusion of professionalism. Or to have a scapegoat when they screw up a booking.
There's a little bit of everything in this thing.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 92 reads
posted
14 / 22
Re: Then there are the ladies who claim they have assistants but don't.

Have your people call my people.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 97 reads
posted
15 / 22
This has to do with bookers but not what you're posting

But I found this interesting....I have to jam soon so in short
Guy talks to booker, guys tries to negotiate a better deal, booker say fuck it xx percent is better then no percent. Booker doesn't tell lady (no communication) about revised rate. Lady shows up, WTF the guys is going to short me, She's now bugged.  Talks to the sap (my version)
Guy gives in, lady still bugged thinks guy is a fuck and does a quick "Hit it and quit it" figures I ain't this cheap fuck again.  
Moral of the story, if you can't do the dime, don't do the time....lol

The review:
General Details
Emailed her assistant and setup a date and time, she can’t host so we planned on my place and we went back and forth on the rate. She had something come up but rescheduled for the next day. She arrived on time and is cute, late 20’s, 5’4” brunette with curves and tattoos. Members read on.

The Juicy Details
We kissed and made small talk for a minute then she went to the bathroom to get ready for several minutes. I left the donation in the bathroom Beforehand. She came out asking for 120 more, claiming some confusion. I obliged and she thanked me and got naked. She has a good body nice big ass and lots of tattoos but wasn’t shaven which was odd, but some guys are into that. She started with a bbbj and went deep, sloppy just how I like. This went on for a few minutes then she put on a condom and got on top and rode me until she came, about 4 mins. She is tight and it felt nice. Then rev. cowgirl while I fingered her ass for about 6 mins until I came. I cleaned myself then she cleaned herself in the bathroom for quit awhile. We had 30 minutes left and I was hoping for round two but she just gave me a massage and chatted then got dressed. It was a nice time but I expected more for 620.

TurbayVeronica See my TER Reviews 81 reads
posted
16 / 22
Re: Not a Fan of assistants/bookers

I like to do my own screening. I have plenty of time to do so (even with my civvie job) I may take fa bit more to respond if im busy with other personal obligations but would not be more than 4-6 hours unless Im traveling overseas.  
During my screening, I can see how he look like, things he like en enjoy and we can have a little convo about his likes and dislikes. (also if different political views I know that subject is better to keep it off limits) LOL !

TheVoiceOfReason 114 reads
posted
17 / 22
Re: This has to do with bookers but not what you're posting

You forgot about the denial of the okay and blacklist that followed for not getting the donation right.

TennGambler 20 Reviews 78 reads
posted
18 / 22
Set up your P411 profile

Check the box for e-mail notification when a provider opens your P411 profile,

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 81 reads
posted
19 / 22
Re: I've had booking assistants who . . .

And then you find out her scheduler is a guy.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 71 reads
posted
20 / 22
I'm pretty sure they were all . . . .

female assistants, but wouldn't it be creepy to find out that its not.  LOL

GaGambler 77 reads
posted
21 / 22
Hate to tell you this CDL,

But I have known  of SEVERAL male "assistants" that not only do screening, but who also pretend to be the provider and "fluff up" the clients before meetings. lol

 
If it takes you a while to respond, I will assume you just took a "puke break" lol

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 74 reads
posted
22 / 22
Okay, so I didn’t puke, but . . . .

I may not  eat lunch today.  If I think about the idea of a male fluffer later, I reserve my right to still puke.  Lol

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