I am more attracted to women 25-35 years my junior, but the same principle applies. We don't really have a choice in what is attractive to us.

I do think that part of it is feeling comfortable with our choices, I hear tell all the time about guys who feel uncomfortable being in public with women young enough to be their daughters. I don't feel any such shame. I will say that the current lady that I have been seeing rather regularly and who I might make into a "real" GF has commented that I still look young enough for us to look like a "real" couple and that she would never be involved with a guy who was so old that they would look "odd" together. She is 29 years younger than me, and yes I took it as a compliment, but it did make me think that in a few years as I close in on 60 that might no longer be the case.

There is one other thing about seeing women more than 20 years younger than yourself. Their parents tend to be younger than you which can be a bit awkward at times, but I have been seeing a girl in Atlanta for about 7 years now who is almost exactly 30 years younger than me, her father is about ten years younger than me, but has grown to accept it. We were a "real" couple for a while but now we are on a more FWB type terms.

I don't care how "young at heart" you are, if you are 80 and seeing a twenty year old, there are going to be some issues.

In the meantime 60 is now closer than 50 for me, and I am seeing a few 20-25 year olds, I do realize that at some point my poor old body is going to trump my immature mind.

My real point is by being in Latin America I see 30-40 year age differences all the time, some of the guys can pull it off and look perfectly natural with their much younger GF/ATF's, other guys look quite obvious that she is only there for the money. I want to be one of the former for as long as I can before succumbing to the latter, but I realize that it is an inevitability unless I either change my tastes in women or fall over dead.

So I seem to develop crushes and have the best time with 15-25 yrs my senior. I never thought that was logical, do you guys just forget about the difference?

I understand you have a crush on me but I wasn't expecting you'd post about it.  lol

externally mediated. Worrying about what others think. And I hate it. Freedom denied, in a sense.

Try 60+ and seeing a 20-25 year-old. It's not easy. Fun, but not easy.

My father is 52, and I'm not that young so yeah, those I see are very much his age or a bit younger/older than he is. When I started I thought it was something I would have to "look past" it. The specific connection to his age I mean. And yet that's not the case, but I can't pinpoint why, I wouldn't consider myself an old soul.

My All Time ATF-OMG I've never experience that kind of sensual sex like that... He tells me I keep him young....he's like 18yrs my senior..... I met him like the 3day of being a provider.... He's been soooooo good to me, not just coming to see me but shares his Wisdom with me... He sees me once a week & I ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ IT!!!

I know you got my point.. Yet you decided to...
What were you doing there Gurgler?

Most of the people I knew took that as a sign..
I didn't fall unconscious on pourpose.
Now I'm the devil to half of my family...

Me too. I tend to prefer older (10 to 20 years older).

When I'm with someone so much younger than me that the events and ziet giest that were important to shaping me in my youth are regarded by her as ancient history, it makes me uncomfortable. The possibility of a relationship shouldn't depend on our life-to-date background, but I get frustrated when I can't discuss Vietnam, the draft, Jim Crow days, The Civil Rights Movement, Avant Garde Theater, Modern Dance, acid, The East Village, Ellen Stewart and Cafe La Mama, Jerzy Growtowski... With somebody who has never heard of such things. Then there's the long list of scientific understanding.

I see a provider 44 years younger than me..I am a few months shy of 65, and she's 21..  I see her frequently..and I look at her and think how wrong it is.. but how much I enjoy it.. the age difference makes for some very interesting conversations..like "well, in your business, it's not like yoiu have a 401k".. she said.. "what's a 401k?"..  

Even while seeing paid companions I've a lot of undefined or half-defined relationships with women.

Being above three score I prefer providers who are +45 as we have much more to talk about when we come up for air.  The catch is that there are not an abundence of +45s.  Last week I traveled to a smaller city, and ended up with a lady of 26.  We had a grand time.  With younger women it is pure, wanton sex.  With women more near my age, it is companionship with sex.  The two are quite different but equally enjoyable.  

and that is so true.

In my mind, I'm always 25 years old.  When I see a photo of me I always wonder who that old guy is that is always around.

Some day I might have to concede to reality, but I'm holding off as long as I can.

By the way, so senior gals also believe they are 25, and we have some very hot times together fooling ourselves.

his disposition is youthful and fun, and there are no performance issues, with no meds used.  It works for us.  At first I was afraid of telling my dad and friends his age, but all have been supportive.

For long term compatibility same age or younger than myself works better.  I like to be able to reminisce with someone who gets my references, but I also like to teach and explain stuff too.  Older than me gals, I just fuck for fun.  Now that I'm hitting 46 later this year, there are less and less older gals I am attracted to though. There are some.

With my comparatively meager funds (I'm not Tony Montana), an on-the-clock dinner or an overnight aren't in the cards. If they were, I'd want someone late 30's or early 40's who could at least understand some (emphasis on "some") of the cultural references from the 60's and 70's, and who could talk about more mature subjects.  

take up healthy eating and exercise you can fuck when you are 90 provided you don’t die before you reach 90.

If I walk into a restaurant or other public place, it should look "normal".  Since I'm not George Clooney or Brad Pitt look-wise (age-wise yes), having a 20-something on my arm would not pass muster.  I'm not out with my "neice" or more obviously, an escort.  

... it's friggin awesome? then yes. 15-20 years younger is a requirement in general. Women tend to be more mature for their age too than men too...But that isn't the reason for me. If I'm paying, I want to be seeing a woman I can't get easily in civvie life. Or I can but it's so much easier and cheaper this way. It's that simple. I'm not looking for my true love like RTurd.

.....tends toward women in their early-mid 30s; based on my rule of thumb for trophy wives (the guy's age/2 + 7 = the desired age of the woman).