So I seem to develop crushes and have the best time with 15-25 yrs my senior. I never thought that was logical, do you guys just forget about the difference?
I don't care how "young at heart" you are, if you are 80 and seeing a twenty year old, there are going to be some issues.
Try 60+ and seeing a 20-25 year-old. It's not easy. Fun, but not easy. 
In the meantime 60 is now closer than 50 for me, and I am seeing a few 20-25 year olds, I do realize that at some point my poor old body is going to trump my immature mind.
My real point is by being in Latin America I see 30-40 year age differences all the time, some of the guys can pull it off and look perfectly natural with their much younger GF/ATF's, other guys look quite obvious that she is only there for the money. I want to be one of the former for as long as I can before succumbing to the latter, but I realize that it is an inevitability unless I either change my tastes in women or fall over dead.
I know you got my point.. Yet you decided to...
What were you doing there Gurgler?
take up healthy eating and exercise you can fuck when you are 90 provided you don’t die before you reach 90.
Not kidding.
I understand you have a crush on me but I wasn't expecting you'd post about it. lol 
Seriously though, I have discovered that the age difference doesn't mean much when there's chemistry.
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I am more attracted to women 25-35 years my junior, but the same principle applies. We don't really have a choice in what is attractive to us.
I do think that part of it is feeling comfortable with our choices, I hear tell all the time about guys who feel uncomfortable being in public with women young enough to be their daughters. I don't feel any such shame. I will say that the current lady that I have been seeing rather regularly and who I might make into a "real" GF has commented that I still look young enough for us to look like a "real" couple and that she would never be involved with a guy who was so old that they would look "odd" together. She is 29 years younger than me, and yes I took it as a compliment, but it did make me think that in a few years as I close in on 60 that might no longer be the case.
There is one other thing about seeing women more than 20 years younger than yourself. Their parents tend to be younger than you which can be a bit awkward at times, but I have been seeing a girl in Atlanta for about 7 years now who is almost exactly 30 years younger than me, her father is about ten years younger than me, but has grown to accept it. We were a "real" couple for a while but now we are on a more FWB type terms.
My father is 52, and I'm not that young so yeah, those I see are very much his age or a bit younger/older than he is. When I started I thought it was something I would have to "look past" it. The specific connection to his age I mean. And yet that's not the case, but I can't pinpoint why, I wouldn't consider myself an old soul.
Most of the people I knew took that as a sign..
I didn't fall unconscious on pourpose.
Now I'm the devil to half of my family...
Fuck Church...
externally mediated. Worrying about what others think. And I hate it. Freedom denied, in a sense.
I am perfectly OK being with anyone I like, in any situation I like, provided they are equally comfortable. If someone I am with is not comfortable being with me (regardless of possible opinions of others), then I am with the wrong person.
My All Time ATF-OMG I've never experience that kind of sensual sex like that... He tells me I keep him young....he's like 18yrs my senior..... I met him like the 3day of being a provider.... He's been soooooo good to me, not just coming to see me but shares his Wisdom with me... He sees me once a week & I ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ IT!!!
Me too. I tend to prefer older (10 to 20 years older).
When I'm with someone so much younger than me that the events and ziet giest that were important to shaping me in my youth are regarded by her as ancient history, it makes me uncomfortable. The possibility of a relationship shouldn't depend on our life-to-date background, but I get frustrated when I can't discuss Vietnam, the draft, Jim Crow days, The Civil Rights Movement, Avant Garde Theater, Modern Dance, acid, The East Village, Ellen Stewart and Cafe La Mama, Jerzy Growtowski... With somebody who has never heard of such things. Then there's the long list of scientific understanding.
Can you remember when the moon was a mystery? Before it was walked on?
I see a provider 44 years younger than me..I am a few months shy of 65, and she's 21.. I see her frequently..and I look at her and think how wrong it is.. but how much I enjoy it.. the age difference makes for some very interesting conversations..like "well, in your business, it's not like yoiu have a 401k".. she said.. "what's a 401k?"..
I've given up mentioning anything about music.. but we do get along really well.. I look at her and she is so damn young.. it bothers me..she keeps telling me that age is only a number.. I tell her that if she spent about a day with me "outside" she would be bored in about 10 minutes.. I'm not at all bored with her.. I find that when I am with a provider over 40.. it's an entirely different dynamic and refreshing..but give up the young one? Noo. I want to see her mature and hope her business does not mess her up..
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Even while seeing paid companions I've a lot of undefined or half-defined relationships with women.
Those relationships, some going back a long ways, keep that bygone person I was alive, just older and sort of an anachronistim nowadays. The younger, newer companions are visited by a ghost of that person. And the ghost, only a spirit now, has a brief material experience, a physical experience. Then the ghost leaves and returns to the person who is its home.
It would be nice to have all the beautiful aspects of all the beautiful people in one woman.
Of course, all that lives in matter is finite. Mortality is a bitch.
Being above three score I prefer providers who are +45 as we have much more to talk about when we come up for air. The catch is that there are not an abundence of +45s. Last week I traveled to a smaller city, and ended up with a lady of 26. We had a grand time. With younger women it is pure, wanton sex. With women more near my age, it is companionship with sex. The two are quite different but equally enjoyable.
The above said, I have a 23 year old cut off. Under that, I feel like I am trolling a high school. Not interested in kids, only women.
and that is so true.
In my mind, I'm always 25 years old. When I see a photo of me I always wonder who that old guy is that is always around.
Some day I might have to concede to reality, but I'm holding off as long as I can.
By the way, so senior gals also believe they are 25, and we have some very hot times together fooling ourselves.
his disposition is youthful and fun, and there are no performance issues, with no meds used. It works for us. At first I was afraid of telling my dad and friends his age, but all have been supportive.
For long term compatibility same age or younger than myself works better. I like to be able to reminisce with someone who gets my references, but I also like to teach and explain stuff too. Older than me gals, I just fuck for fun. Now that I'm hitting 46 later this year, there are less and less older gals I am attracted to though. There are some.
With my comparatively meager funds (I'm not Tony Montana), an on-the-clock dinner or an overnight aren't in the cards. If they were, I'd want someone late 30's or early 40's who could at least understand some (emphasis on "some") of the cultural references from the 60's and 70's, and who could talk about more mature subjects.
As it is now, I'm there for sex, companionship and some fun talk for two or three hours. The 20-something's I've seen can carry on a pleasant conversation about at least something that interests us both.
I love women of all ages, though, and for a variety of reasons.
If I walk into a restaurant or other public place, it should look "normal". Since I'm not George Clooney or Brad Pitt look-wise (age-wise yes), having a 20-something on my arm would not pass muster. I'm not out with my "neice" or more obviously, an escort.
Also, shared experiences, music, culture, jokes, and conversation points are really important to me. Some guys are up for 60 minute sessions with young hotties, which is great. I prefer longer term time investments for the most part, and think it's important to be with someone that is nice. Yes, it's P4P but it should be fun.
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... it's friggin awesome? then yes. 15-20 years younger is a requirement in general. Women tend to be more mature for their age too than men too...But that isn't the reason for me. If I'm paying, I want to be seeing a woman I can't get easily in civvie life. Or I can but it's so much easier and cheaper this way. It's that simple. I'm not looking for my true love like RTurd.
.....tends toward women in their early-mid 30s; based on my rule of thumb for trophy wives (the guy's age/2 + 7 = the desired age of the woman).
Naturally I make room on both edges of the fence if there's something else that I see about the lady in question--but generally, younger than 30, I find it difficult to relate to them.