Does a firestorm make me more or less likely to visit a provider?

I guess what you don't know won't hurt you.

Posted By: wholewheelofchz

Does a firestorm make me more or less likely to visit a provider?  
   
 I've seen both views expressed in various posts on the threads below. I can't make up my mind.  
   
 OTOH, since I have little game I really resent a provider that would make fun of hobbyists for having no game and having to visit providers. I mean, you can't just take our money and not make fun of us for it? Do I really want to give that person my business?  
   
 OTOH, wouldn't it then though be satisfying to have and possess her in that very way, to tame the tiger, to make the fireball mine? Sounds hot  
   
 And of course what do we all consider most when considering providers. She appears to have my preferred body type and the rate may be reasonable. So I can't figure it out but I'm sure some rational and well-intentioned advice is coming

Yeah I got over on that sucker. You are paying for the fun don't fall in love with them lol.

They are human. They have prejudices that may temporarily be suppressed by money.  
If you know their prejudices beforehand, it might be a turn off and dissuade you from seeing them.  

Providers never get rich in this business and most are always broke, waiting for the next client to pay their bills

Lol, that kind of thinking is going to get you far.

They spend it all on shopping sprees, drugs/and or alcohol. I know one who use to get drunk everyday. When she did not have a trick to use she would steal beer from a store.

LOL, where did you find her? Just so you know, that's not true for the majority of Ladies.  
Shopping sprees? Are you speaking of the elite companions???

As for the attraction to women who hate you, this has been covered to a Tee in Seinfeld.  Behold

I guess it's not really all that creepy however  

If it was good for business more service industries would do it or stop apologising when their employees..  Enough said

Posted By: wholewheelofchz

Does a firestorm make me more or less likely to visit a provider?  
   
 I've seen both views expressed in various posts on the threads below. I can't make up my mind.  
   
 OTOH, since I have little game I really resent a provider that would make fun of hobbyists for having no game and having to visit providers. I mean, you can't just take our money and not make fun of us for it? Do I really want to give that person my business?  
   
 OTOH, wouldn't it then though be satisfying to have and possess her in that very way, to tame the tiger, to make the fireball mine? Sounds hot  
   
 And of course what do we all consider most when considering providers. She appears to have my preferred body type and the rate may be reasonable. So I can't figure it out but I'm sure some rational and well-intentioned advice is coming

EVERY woman laughs at men... even the woman you've married, had children by etc etc.
NOBODY is exempt from giggling and just outright laughing at men. Even men laugh at other men.

I remember I bought one some shoes with her kids. Her daughter called daddy about mommy getting some new shoes. Daddy was driving around town looking for me. I had to hide out for a few months lol.

To each his or her own on this point, but personally I like a little fantasy in my GFE.  It makes it more difficult for me to suspend my disbelief if I've seen too much behind the scenes footage.  Once you see how the sausage is made, you will lose your appetite for hot dogs.  Once you see that it's just a bat-shit crazy old goofy man behind the green curtain, you'll lose your faith in the magic of the wizard.  Once I know too much about a provider's RL SO, business model, experiences with other clients, love-hate relationship with TER reviews, etc., it feels too much like a cold, mechanical business transaction and not enough like the GFE I'm going for.  It may be a business transaction, but I personally prefer that it doesn't feel like one.    

Really??  Yah those providers are out there but IMHO you should think about stepping up your game a bit.  As in climbing the ladder a bit and rising above the mediocrity of Backpage

Like Kate-Spade. I can remember I was on vacation with the wife, sneak the store and had a expensive kate-spade pocketbook sent back to my PO Box. I was glad to get to the post office in time before it closed. I could barely get the pocketbook to fit in the shipping box.  I gave the pocketbook to the provider when I got back in town.

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I'm just under 50. I got a gut that's just over 50... inches that is.

but there's no real need to get overly cynical either.

I like the social aspect as well, so for a girl to be a good match for me, she needs to be close to intellectual equal.  I often learn more about a provider when she gets into it with someone as far as how quick-witted she is.  Just because she disagrees with someone in not in itself a turnoff if her position is reasonable when viewed solely from her perspective.

You could fool me with some of your responses to posts.  

I agree completely.
I've been trained very well by crafty strippers to never look too deep below the surface in this business.  
Life's simpler (and sexier) that way.

I think most here are reasonable most of the time.   Its human nature to be passionate about certain things you believe in. I know I certainly try to avoid being the one that is not always reasonable, and I think most people here are similarly situated when it comes to their opinions.  Are you buying this bullshit?  I can't believe I'm writing it with a straight face.

Agree. Who cares if they have a laugh? I wouldn't blame them for laughing at a guy who falls in love with the first provider who tickles his balls with a feather. I'd rather be in the "Zero Fucks Given" group.

While there are a number of gals this may well be true for, I hate to see all of us thrown into this description.  I do none of the above.  Those that know me through the "biz" constantly comment on how "normal"  I am, because I have a very diverse life, am involved in a number of community groups, etc.  The majority of my money is put away for investment and retirement. While I shake my head when I see gals who are posing in 1200 shoes, saying they don't have money for rent...... we aren't "ALL" in that situation- so please don't lump us together!

if clients would  act like men instead of boys escorts would have nothing bad to say. If you are clean, respectful of her and her rules (before, during and after meeting), not sexually awkward, and are not too timid/nervous,-which makes them uncomfortable- or aggressive-which also makes them uncomfortable- what can she say? Nothing

Are you being a racist? Ghetto barbie?

i was with you all the way until "not too timid/nervous" ---

and don't worry, if LL doesn't make fun of you, I am sure one of the rest of us will find some reason to make fun of you. Especially if it's a slow day.

At 57 I am hardly "seriously old"  and I damn sure am not a "terrified young man"

certainly many interesting posts that run off the rails when they're hijacked by the same school of sharks ... regardless of who's posting, so much bullshit to sift thru to find the interesting kernels.  

Yes... Yes she get's to make fun of you. So what? Why do you care? You can afford the company of beautiful women who will do things for you that many men will never get to experience. I would envy you if I wasn't doing the same damned thing.

Yes.... Yes he is.

And yes luv we do get the last laugh when we pick up that envelope and pull out your hard earned money that you left😅

I think it is a matter of what is important to you. Just the service, or what is going on in someones head while she is providing that service? It sounds like you already pick up on energy easily, so most likely, you'd be able to tell if she is faking it or not into it. I'd say, pick another girl in that case.

LL never in fact made fun of me. She made fun of another guy for not having game and having to fuck hookers instead.