: TER General Board Discussion : Nope. It looks like FIDIOT

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 1936 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Damn! WTF??!

Stole this from the Ohio board. Just Wow!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 555 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 17

You know the OP is really fucked up

when Lungman and ridgetucky are the voice of reason in their replies!

lungman 10 Reviews 460 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 17

Re: You know the OP is really fucked up

She does need to change a few things when it comes to hooking, that's for sure!

dontknowanymore 4 Reviews 367 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 17

Yeah...about that...

Sometimes you just shake your head in disbelief. Soooo many things wrong in that scenario

bludive_1 382 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 17

Re: Own Home

True, but this can happen working from a hotel as well. (craigslist killer comes to mind) Having traffic in and out of a hotel room draws attention and other guests or personnel could call police AND you have the added issues of cancellations & no shows after having travelled to & payed for the room.

Posted By: cummingslane

I never understood why some providers do that. You are opening the door to many possibilities of too many bad things happening such as

1. your neighbors call the cops
2. you invite a stalker in
3. someone knows where you live so they try to rob you

An incall might cost you a little bit of overhead but in the long run it eliminates a whole lot of headaches.

GaGambler 389 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 17

Yeah, it looks like FIDIOT has clear sailing for this years SPOTY

I wonder what his response would have been?

AAR I am surprised no one called the OP a hooktard, because she certainly fits the definition. lol

and Dungy I am ashamed and disappointed in you, I think you are intentionally throwing the competition just because you know I have money riding on you. lol

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 354 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 17

This year's SPOTY is much like this year's AL EAST...

Every day there is a new contender, and it may go down to the wire with last few days deciding the winner.

Don't count out Dungman Dungbettle and RidgeFucky just yet...

And above all..Don't lose hope..

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 335 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 17

Sorry guys.. I only lasted one minute into the rambling..[e]

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Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 357 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 17

Jasmne would you say that is Judgement unbecoming of a provider.EOM.

END OF MESSAGE

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 374 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 17

Working From Home Can be done successfully if you do it the right way.

I work from home, BUT I do not just take everyone who calls, and if it is a new client I will usually get a room for our first session, and then once I feel a little more comfortable with him, invite him to my incall.

BUT I also live in an apartment building, so my door cannot be accessed by anyone. You have to have a key. And I have a 2 bedroom apartment, and use 1 bedroom for myself and the 2nd bedroom for sessions.

While I am planning on getting a second apartment very soon, at this time it is not financially possible. But I have worked out of my home for about 75% of my career and I haven't had any problems as of yet.

But the OP on the linked thread did a lot of other things wrong, and sounds like she just doesn't know how to control the situation. As providers we have to be the one in control or you open yourself up to abuse.

rainbowCPA 388 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 17

Re: Sorry guys.. I only lasted one minute into the rambling..[e]

What he said^

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan

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inicky46 61 Reviews 338 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 17

Nope. It looks like FIDIOT

has left the building after a certain member exposed his MFM activities. But no doubt he'll be back when he thinks the coast is clear. But it won't be.

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Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 248 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 17

Re: Jasmne would you say that is Judgement unbecoming of a provider.EOM.

Ms. Cummings:
You wouldn't be judgemental. You would just be making an observation predicated on the evidence. Thus it would be obvious to you predicated on your previous comments that it would be imprudent to conduct business out of her primary residence.

skarphedin 297 reads

posted 13 years ago

14 / 17

You and Curly are intellectual two pump chumps. -e-

END OF MESSAGE

GaGambler 292 reads

posted 13 years ago

15 / 17

His MFM "activities" read more like MMF to me

not that I want to judge, just saying...........

inicky46 61 Reviews 296 reads

posted 13 years ago

16 / 17

It was almost as good as when I read LAFFY's reviews...

and found out he liked to cuddle. I dubbed him "the Cuddler," and kept putting up that Mike Epps video. Poor Laffy's head exploded.

ComradeM 46 Reviews 341 reads

posted 13 years ago

17 / 17

Re: Own Home

1. Craigslist Killer - No difference working from home or hotel for this risk. It could happen either place.

2. Traffic in and out - Much easier to spot traffic in and out of a residence over the course of a few weeks than in and out of a hotel room. For one, you have the same neighbors every day at home who know who to expect. And these neighbors have a greater interest and stake in the happenings in their neighborhood. A dude across the hall from you has no idea who should be going into your room, will likely not see more than 1 or 2, and won't care either way.

Your biggest threat in the hotel is housekeeping, who probably don't care, and who will care much less when you leave Alexander Hamilton or Andrew Jackson (or even Abe) sleeping on the pillow every morning.

3.The cost of cancellations should be a happy trade-off for the security of knowing that your clients don't know where the fuck you live