Okay.  So.  First of all.  Let's talk about how I put myself, as a provider, in potential danger when I sell my time as a companion to someone.  I'm talking about physically and legally.    
Usually, they're some old ass fart who has a tongue that makes me cringe and skin like the dough boy.  Do you think I WANT to have sex with you?  No, no I do not.  Why do I do it?  Because it is my job and I am here to make YOU happy.

When you discussed that YOU do NOT want to have sex with the johns.

and if it does happen to you more often than to other hookers here, perhaps you should inward instead of outwards for the solution.

So maybe you should quit and get a job in the real world.
We all know the risk in this hobby for us or the job risk for you.
The funny part is no one is forcing you to do this type of work.

Any hooker that comes on here, me included, and does not sugar coat it, is not that way with her johns. Okay speaking just for me, I am not, but you will still read from guys that I do and how could I ever have any clients. I have a feeling that some ladies who rant or who are not kissing ass and under an alias, might do quite well as that persona is not who they are when with a john.

I figure any woman who still wants to see me after knowing who I am will most likely be a whole lot of fun, and any woman who hates GaGambler probably won't like the "real" me either, as I am not much different in real life.

I read this post because I thought it would be interesting. I don't want to sound mean, but it seems like you're really hostile about your clients. It seems like you're even saying mean things about the guys who have paid your price, although maybe I'm wrong about that & you're just venting. I think some guys just try to get their best price for everything (cars, homes, golf clubs, fruit from the farmer's market...) & it isn't personal for them, but it's hard for us not to take it personally. They probably aren't saying you aren't worth it, they're just seeing if you're willing to negotiate. Most of us already do. We say $500 for one hour, but if you buy 2 hours upfront it'll be $400 for each hour. If you think about it that way you may be able to turn it into better business for yourself. Don't get angry, get rich. LOL And it's none of my business, but try not to hate your clients, it'll destroy your soul.

And some of her clients are fat and doughy and old. And the reality is not all hookers really want to have sex with ALL of their tricks. Have you seen some of them? No you possibly are one them and that is why your knee jerk answer is "well they should quit".  

She very well could be "too expensive", I am not saying that she is for a fact "too expensive" but if she were, she would hardly be the first hooker with an overinflated idea of what she's worth.

We advertise publicly, and any random person can write anything to us. They can accuse us of being too expensive, they can ask us for XXX fetish, they can threaten to inform the CIA about our mission to impregnate American males w/half-alien offspring. Who cares what some random whacko/douchebag on the internet says?

Under an alias etc one can act however BUT in reality when with a john, well I am paid to be a certain way in order to retain business, despite how I truly feel.  

Sorry H+T but you've backed the wrong horse this time. When even the village idiot gets it right, you know she is on shaky ground.

What is wrong with calling it like it is. Some johns are fat and old and crusty and even gross. It is what it is. She got pissed because one of those tried to bargain her down.

The wrong one can make life utterly miserable for a hooker.

Let me start by saying that I have never been offered or been paid to have sex with anyone. A guy in Mexico promised me a drink once but he lied and all I ended up with was bumps that show up every 30-45 days and a lasting memory of a Love lost and the deep sorrow that comes with that.

It could very well be her problem here. Maybe she's just a bitch, but not a fun bitch like lets say London who has been a bitch under her "real" fake name for years, but still does just fine.

You would be surprised...maybe not you, that the images a hooker has on her site as well as the wording can make or break her in this business, meaning she can tolerate even like some of her johns or loathe the majority due to the persona she portrays

She is posting under an alias. You don't  know her location. You don't know what she looks like. You don't know her services. You don't know her rates!
How can you pretend to know if she is too expensive or not?

On an anonymous discussion board is for real? We really don't but the odds that she is that abrasive all the time are kinda low or she would be out of this business.  

As this is pure recreation for me and negotiations are work. And I am always respectful to the ladies, at least until they give me reason to believe otherwise. You ladies deserves as a rule a great deal of respect. Your job isn't an easy one.

You know your options, either take the money and run or keep sorting until you get the kind of client you like. It comes with the territory that there are countless guys who have nothing to do but whine about the women they can't afford to fuck.  

...can I just say how much I appreciate the fact that there are fit and beautiful women out there willing to have sex with me regardless of their motivations. Because of this I would never dream of haggling their price.

The difference between you and her is that you get the BOD since you've obviously been a hooker for years. This woman has three total posts, ranging from asking about keeping a john's jiz, to asking for dating advice, to this post of today. So her odds are impossible to calculate.

I can't say that I've yet faced this issue, but I think it's reasonable to feel upset about this. If you want to sell your time for $5 or $5000 an hour that is your choice. Take it or leave it.  

Not saying I understand what providers go through, because I'm sure none of us hobbyists do.  But if "Vanillabean" has a problem with a customers particular body size or looks, then she should be more proactive about getting the type of clients she wants.  I have seen some provider's ads who require you send them a picture of yourself as a part of the "screening." At the end of the day I think it's human nature to put on your best performance for someone you are genuinely attracted to vice someone who may be less attractive.  Any who, as a rule of thumb and out of respect, I have never tried to negotiate with a provider, your prices are your prices, and if I can't afford them then that is a call she will never get and won't miss.  However, If I can afford her, then i expect the very best she can give me, and she should respect that the same way I respect what she is asking for.

Why and how would you actually take the time to look up how many post she/he has...dude, you have way too much time.

and it would make a huge difference. Everyone here is simply a sum total of the thoughts they have posted here. A person creates an identity by the thought they air on these boards, The OP has none of this, Three total posts, no reviews, no web site, Nothing, nada, zilch.

My responses were directed to how she is behaving on here under an alias and that what she says about some of her tricks is quite possibly true and the fact that she is possibly nicer when in person. That is really all I was commenting on.

And I will give you a choice of less time or less services for that discount.

and I am pointing out that there is nothing that points to that conclusion.

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At first you were willing to take her at face value that it was all the fault of her clients who wanted to haggle. Slowly but surely you are now starting to see other possibilities.

When a provider says she dislikes haggling and the other posters assume it's because she's a man hating bitch who needs a job. What? You're all psychic now? lol

Well I hope this is a genuine question & I'm not just feeding an argument. I don't "know", really nobody "knows" if a girl is too expensive. A girl chooses what amount will make her happy while still being marketable. Some will see that price as fair, others won't. There are even guys who will only see the most expensive girls because they're turned on by excessive confidence. When I was a stripper I would have guys try to bargain down the price of a $20 dance, and I'd have other guys give me thousands of dollars. It's all subjective.
It's typically considered polite to say something positive before giving a criticism to someone. Since her post seems to describe clients she sees it sounds like she's getting business and she's just frustrated about the emails requesting discounts. She never mentioned that she's unable to make money, so I chose that particular encouragement before I made critical statements about her anger. I know the internet is no place for politeness, but sometimes I like to buck the trends.

I for one let my auto response deal with it. Yeah it's still annoying when I see "can u do hh for 200" in my inbox, but I'm not about to have an aneurysm over it. Seriously, just ignore and delete. You'll expend way less energy.

On this discussion board until a hooker tells a john that "he's angry"...then it's just not so  

It is her business thus it is her responsibility to attract the clientele she wishes serve. Trying to change the individual behavior of an entire client base is not realistic. It is much easier to attract a more desirable client base and that is 100% on her as owner, and sole employee of her sexually oriented business she chooses to run. She can't control her clients but she can control herself and her marketing and attitude she portrays.

Maybe a nice latte will soothe your paranoia?

Does that get him a blacklist from you as well?

Good luck finding enough young hard bodies  
I am one of those old farts and you just make me not to likely to see you.

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Well said, but I highly doubt she is as good of an actor to hide those bitter feelings. It sounds like her business is already suffering and she is blaming those asshole clients instead of taking a hard look at herself. It may be time for her to usderstand that guys won't put up with "bitches", much less pay to be with one. She overestimated herself and reality is rearing its ugly head. Venting on the board won't solve the problem. Only having an honest conversation with yourself about how you can fix the problem will.  

Also me being old now that's funny but again not even close clown. Lol
I see you are throwing anything against the wall hoping it sticks.
So are you retired yet smart ass?

What does "OFTFBC" stand for?

trying to get attention.

I have noooooo idea, remember? Tell us about this fabulous 15 minute circuit while you're at it. Maybe for once you could say something besides "how can I get the most people to ask what I'm drinking today?"

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Ouch.

SO just like you she is in the wrong line of work.

Awww...another alias bust  LOL

...and good riddance to you.

Huuuuummmm......

why would you of all people reply under my comment?
yup. exactly.

that you have someone tell you whats posted on the po board?  not only do you think its funny, but you openly boast about it? youre not funny.

n a public message board no less.

It's hard to be happy when you've constantly got a rash down there.

OTHFBC= Over The Hill Fat Broad Club

BTW our unhappy hooker with the limited posting history appears to be new at this with a handful of posts from the Carolinas board.

THANK YOU.  I love what I do, but I can't stand these clients who call me fat, complain about the price, and are unclean or just plain rude and try to talk down the price like I'm some junk on eBay.

You're pretty ignorant honestly.
Perhaps I am smart enough to use an alias?  Get your foot out of your mouth...or your foot out of your ass.  You don't know me, so don't judge me when I say that someone tried to bargain me down like some auction on eBay.  

Thank you.  Has it occurred to anyone on here that perhaps I am smart enough to use an alias?  Hehe.

Skinny women are rarely called fat.  

You really have a lot to learn here, don't you?

And there are old ass farts with gross tongues out there. I met one, she did and many hookers have