While as a rule DFK has not in the past been a determining factor as to whether I decided to call a provider or not I will agree that those who did kiss are the ones who's company I enjoyed the most.  So, yes, I think you may be on to something.  I do have to add that I don't really get the "you can fuck me but you can't kiss me" thing.  I have seen a couple girls who felt that way and I still have had a good time and so I'm not saying it's right or wrong--I'm just saying I don't understand it.  But then there are many things about this hobby I don't understand.

I spent some time with a provider at one of my favorite places last Saturday.  She was a new provider to that establishment, was actually a very fine provider, and at that time I did feel that I enjoyed the session.  However, in retrospect, I decided that it wasn't nearly as good as others because this girl had an aversion to any service whose acronym contained the letter "K"---like DFK or LFK (or GreeK, for that matter, but that doesn't bother me at all).  I now know, for myself, that kissing to some degree is an important component of my enjoyment of a provider.  Here was a girl that, had she kissed, would be, on the TER performance scale an 8 or 9, but was merely a 6 because of this.  Just my .02

I must admit, what first got my attention on TER was the ability to find a provider who would kiss.  I spent a lot of time growing up at first and second base with my girl friends.  I learned early on, skipping the kissing and feeling her up stage, to jump right to the main event was not near as much fun.

So for me, to be able to go back and spend a lot of time DFK and exploring every inch of her body is a huge turn-on for me.

I think it is important to communicate the desire to make out early on and not rush.  Providers can't read our minds and in their desire to please, sometimes move right to BBBJ to get us to relax.  

Yes, sometimes I skip a base, we all do.  I love it when my SO asks for a "quickie" - so don't get me wrong.  But in my book, mind blowing, call up Guinness Records followed by a trip to the jewelry store time is running all the bases and spending a lot of time DFK before and after.

And finally, whoever said guys don't like to cuddle afterwards is just sleeping with the wrong guys!

Fitguy

I often prefer kissing over sex (Maybe I am freak, whatever.)  Further, I have an ATF that doesn't DFK for medical reasons.  She gets throat infections too easily.  However, she does so much for me in other ways (such a dirty girl!) that I accept this limitation and short of her retiring or my being in a committed relationship, I couldn't imagine not seeing her.

-Hoot.

The overwhelming nature of the responses to Eagle's initial post is impressive.  I applaud the few providers who responded and hope that many more of them have read the posts here.

Well, I will disagree with all of you.  DFK is okay if I have a special connection with the provider, but most of the time I would prefer to pass.  I like providers for what I do not get, or do not get enough of, from girlfriends.  Since DFK is one of the first things I get, I do not need it from providers.  Of course if there is a great connection and the provider is willing, I would not turn it down.  

Frankly, few of my great experiences have involved DFK.  To each their own, I guess!