TER General Board

My solution with panhandlers
Snotty 3894 reads
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Between the sick dogs, medical injuries, and inability to pay basic bills, there are so many  asking for straight up handouts from strangers.  

Are they really broke or just running game?

Do you "donate"  if you see these types of tweets?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 149 reads
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Closed mouths, don't get fed. Kindness is cool. I had a $500 gift sent to me during Covid, which I used to buy a treadmill, so I could continue to stay fit. One gentlemen sent me $200 for my dogs ear infection. It's called a, "voluntary contribution." Just because you have no empathy for providers during their time of great need does not mean others can not be generous. I am a single Mom + a dog Mama, life is hard enough why talk stank about something you can not relate too?

If anyone wants to donate click on my website for links. No shame. Once someone donates it makes us friends. I send my friends tokens of appreciation.

TooTheMoon 145 reads
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It's such a turnoff when you see it!
There is this Asian pornstar who is having a baby and she will beg for piece of toliet paper to blow her nose!
Once I see the begging, it starts to seem like they maybe desperate and/or careless.
Not the type I want to associate with.

But I wish them the best!

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 134 reads
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coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 134 reads
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"women" rather than providers, I will answer to that interpretation.  If you're talking about providers, I have a different answer.  

 
I think it's a little bit of both.  There have always been women, especially the ones who are somewhat intelligent, but also fat and lazy, who would rather scam for money than work for it. On the other hand, there are always women, especially those who's circumstances have recently changed (widowed, divorced, lost job, etc.) who are in a transitory period of their lives and are not getting by on their own resources.  You can often tell by the tone of their request.  If they seem embarrassed to be reluctantly asking for help, they are probably legit.  If they are asking for a loan rather a handout, then they have good intentions, but cannot always fulfill their repayment promise, so if you give them money, you should consider it a gift and not really a loan.  You might get paid back, or you might not.  If they sound entitled and use words like "tribute", or "contribution,"  then they are often scammers who specialize in sweet-talking men out of money, so they try to sound like a non-profit charity.  Lol  

 
To answer your question, I don't use twitter, so I would not have an occasion to respond to someone on there, but I have helped some women who I knew were going through a rough time until they could get back on their feet financially. I never accept sex from women down on their luck when they offer it in exchange for my financial help.  No good can come of it.  Keep it strictly an altruistic gesture.  If you can afford to help, it will give you a good feeling.  Just make sure the story is legit.  If you get scammed, you will feel worse than if you did nothing.  

eastside70 47 Reviews 124 reads
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I'm sure he meant "providers" since this is after all a hooker board.

So... what is your answer for providers doing this?

And yes, MANY HDHs are on Twitter doing this exact thing. *major eye roll*

Snotty 117 reads
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7 / 55

Did I really need to clarify this ://

JawKnee36 95 Reviews 117 reads
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It’s the same reason I left that one site that rhymes with “shitter” years ago.

John_Laroche 151 reads
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Especially the ones who brag about generous clients, etc..., but when the going gets tough all their "regulars" are nowhere to be found.  

Many years ago my regular gal was short of funds for a vacation. she offered a nice discount if I bought 3 sessions in advance. I gladly accepted, as I would do for any regular girl who was in need and was smart enough to add an incentive for me to be more generous than usual.

davincib1 96 Reviews 151 reads
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It's running game.  Why spend your money when you can spend the money of those who admire you (and think that maybe a kind gesture will get them somewhere).  The higher the rate the longer the Amazon wishlist.  

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 124 reads
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Posted By: coeur-de-lion

  ...I have helped some women who I knew were going through a rough time until they could get back on their feet financially. I never accept sex from women down on their luck when they offer it in exchange for my financial help.  No good can come of it.  Keep it strictly an altruistic gesture.  If you can afford to help, it will give you a good feeling.  Just make sure the story is legit.  If you get scammed, you will feel worse than if you did nothing.  
That's very nice of you. I did that one time. There was a lady I wanted to see and I reached out to her. Long story short she was going through a bad time and was convinced that her boyfriend was out to kill her and she was in hiding. She sounded legit and I convinced her to see me - not for sex but I wanted to give her the cost of an hour of her time.

She was staying at a total shitbag motel and when I told her I arrived she didn't want me to come into her room because she was embarrassed by it, so she came out to my car. We sat and talked for quite a while and I gave her the money - she was literally living on nothing and was desperate to pay her motel bill for another few nights until she could find a place to stay.

She looked like a mess and apologized. I told her that when she gets out of her situation and starts working again she could make it up to me. I didn't text her again after that - I kept thinking that if she DOES end up dead I don't need any detectives reaching out to me.

I just remembered her and looked on P411 and her profile is inactive so I guess she still has issues. At first I was annoyed with myself for giving her the money but then upon reflection I was glad I could help her - she was truly in a fucked up situation even if her BF wasn't actually trying to kill her.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 120 reads
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First, I would not help one that I had not already seen professionally, because there is no way for me to verify there is a need for help rather than just a desire for free money.  I'm sure there are otherwise honest providers who will accept free money whether they need it or not.  Generally speaking, I'm not inclined to help providers because they have an ATM machine between their legs, but if one I know is in trouble due to no fault of her own (a police bust that confiscated her cash on hand, or a sudden work stoppage for some other reason, etc.), I can verify the need and have no qualms about helping out providers that have become my friends.  

 
When Covid hit and the ensuing lockdowns started, there were panicked providers that could not make their rent nor buy groceries, and there were no customers for a few months.  I helped several with the rent and food, no strings attached, and surprisingly, all but one eventually insisted on paying me back when business got better again.  I told them they don't have to pay it back, but the consensus was that they might need my help again someday and wanted me to be open to it if they did.  Fair enough.  Hopefully, most of them learned from the Covid experience to have some savings and not live week to week.  

impposter 49 Reviews 141 reads
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I grew up in New York and wrote about Panhandlers and Scamhandlers here:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/panhandlers-and-scamhandlers-988475
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On the one hand, I can be very empathetic. On the other hand, I remember too many proven scammer panhandlers from growing up in a big city.

Posted By: Snotty

Between the sick dogs, medical injuries, and inability to pay basic bills, there are so many  asking for straight up handouts from strangers.  
   
 Are they really broke or just running game?  
   
 Do you "donate"  if you see these types of tweets?

3302667 24 Reviews 161 reads
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Wasn't there a provider who claimed she got shot in the head then went on vacation and got new breasts?

252002 178 Reviews 125 reads
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Seriously it does bother me. Get a real job if you want money.

inicky46 61 Reviews 127 reads
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I wouldn't give them money because they'd only spend it on alcohol or drugs. So I go into a fast food place and bring them out a bag of food.

636sd 122 reads
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It doesn't bother me but I absolutely will not give a cent to a walking money maker, that I've never met, who has the luxury of tweeting about her problems.

There's a saying "if you have to talk to more than 1 person about your problems, you're not looking for help, you're looking for attention".  

And it's got nothing to do with empathy or generosity. It's my ATF's birthday month and between flights/spending money/fashion/jewelry I'm at like $12,000 in gifts to her in 30 days, zero strings attached. Any of my regulars know they can hit me up 24/7 if they need help with anything and I'll take care of them.

636sd 140 reads
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that I'm down $1.1m in the stock market this week, I wonder how many providers will throw me a freebie?

My guess ZERO

impposter 49 Reviews 150 reads
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I've done that with a few different outcomes. Some are grateful, thank me, and accept the offer (and eat it or carefully put it in a bag for later). Some have spurned the offer and called me names. They said they want a dollar for food but they weren't really hungry, they just wanted some cash for some other purpose.  
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Sometimes, I am leaving a place with a 2-for-1 special or similar and know that's it's too much food for me so I offer what I've got (this (extra) sandwich or nothing). Other times, I ask before entering what they might want ("I'm getting a burger. You want a burger or chicken?" "I'm getting a slice. You want a slice?") Sometimes I get the scornful replies even when they can choose an item and not just get offered my "this one or nothing" extra sandwich.

Posted By: inicky46
Re: My solution with panhandlers
I wouldn't give them money because they'd only spend it on alcohol or drugs. So I go into a fast food place and bring them out a bag of food.

636sd 58 reads
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Lmao good one  

I got into btc at $800, sold some at 58k, so idc about where it's at right now. I still have faith in btc and eth. The rest is stupid.  

That said I'm just down in the markets, it's not a realized loss. And it's not how I make a living so I'm not really worried about the economy.

636sd 133 reads
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Adding that she would never ask or expect these things from me.

my-0.02-cents 115 reads
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Most of these girls also post pics of their luxury cars or very expensive gifts they got from their favorite clients.

inicky46 61 Reviews 71 reads
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the one on the day you buy and the one on the day you sell."

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 132 reads
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An escort and his money, her legs are soon parted.

636sd 58 reads
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Jk, I know you get a lot of hate here but I like toxic women so keep doing you. I was gonna fly to Chicago just to let you pop my black cherry but that happened yesterday by accident.  

Next time I manage to pick up a reservation at Alinea we'll do a dinner date so you can talk shit about white people food at one of the best restaurants in the world

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 55 reads
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How did your black cherry get popped by "accident?"   Did you pass out drunk WITH a boner and a black woman jumped on it before you woke up, or what?  

636sd 60 reads
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Lol not super interesting. Saw an ad for what i thought was a dark latina but it was a light skinned black girl. Kinda Caribbean looking girl. For whatever reason black girls have never been interested in me, and typically they're not my type either, so she was my first. Turning 40 this August and still experiencing 1sts. What a life we're living!

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 53 reads
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imagination was hotter than the reality, but that seems to happen a lot to me.  Lol    Thanks for sharing, anyway.  Still, a first is a first.  Congratulations.  What is your next "first going to be?"  A Canadian Eskimo woman, or someone more easily accessible in the US?   Lol  

636sd 49 reads
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Been with a native Alaskan Eskimo.....I think only group missing on my list is Japanese. After that firsts will be limited to kinks, which isn't really my thing

inicky46 61 Reviews 49 reads
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The people of that area refer to themselves as Inuit and consider the word Eskimo as a racist relic of colonial times. You need to get woke. LOL.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 55 reads
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Get yourself an Inuit and put your dick intoit.  

 
As far as wokeness goes, it doesn't work.  I call myself a handsome raconteur, but nobody else calls me that no matter how much I correct them.   Lol

-- Modified on 6/16/2022 7:22:53 AM

BathtubGin 32 Reviews 49 reads
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...Chicago and it's suburbs are loaded up with mexicans.

BathtubGin 32 Reviews 60 reads
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QueenBia See my TER Reviews 120 reads
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This has been my hobby, since I created my family.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 41 reads
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a guy went into a butcher shop and said, "How much are the pork chops?"  The butcher said $12.00 a pound.  The customer said, "That's a little high.  Your competitor down the street sells them for $11.00 a pound."   The butcher says, "Then go buy them from him."  The customer says, "He's out right now."  The butcher says, "When I'm out, my price is lower than his."  

MintyFreshness 66 Reviews 147 reads
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I remember a lady (who brands herself as very high end) tweet that she had some car trouble that made her late to a date.  She later tweeted a picture of a set of Range Rover keys tied to a card from her suitor that said "No more excuses for being late."  

Still not sure I believe it.  

mrfisher 115 Reviews 42 reads
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He defined a cynic as one who knows the price of everything, and the value on nothing.

impposter 49 Reviews 42 reads
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"Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same." - Oscar Wilde

Posted By: gdaddy100
Re: I Can Resist ANYTHING...
Another OW Nugget:  
 "I can resist anything except temptation"
Posted By: mrfisher
Re: Oscar Wilde could chase both of you up a tree...  
 He defined a cynic as one who knows the price of everything, and the value on nothing.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 57 reads
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I'm a pretty hip old guy, I get bit on the ass by wokeness.  Lol

jpj 16 Reviews 131 reads
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I don’t understand this thread.  I see people asking for $ ( panhandling, begging, whatever you wish to call it) on most major intersections.  Asking for money on twitter is no different… it’s just electronic instead of physical.
Times are hard for a certain segment of society .. always has been for the history of the US and probably always will be no matter what bullshit politicians (of either party) try to tell us.  
Why get offended or make this an issue?  If you don’t want to give somebody something, then don’t.  If you do, then do.  No one is making you do anything - you have free will.

Snotty 152 reads
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is asking for handouts?  

And who's offended? Sounds like I hit a nerve with you. Do you need a few bucks?

TheGovernor 141 Reviews 56 reads
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Matt Damon:  “Fortune Favors The Brave!”
TheGovernor  “Bankruptcy Favors The Foolish”!

Never have purchased Crypto.  Do not see any intrinsic value!  Where is the supposed hedge on inflation?

DT_lover 188 Reviews 58 reads
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Costs you for electricity and MBytes to buy, sell, and hold...whether the price goes up or down.

636sd 125 reads
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It happens, I've given some crazy expensive gifts (not range rover level), BUT any provider that I give expensive stuff too will have more class than to post that shit on Twitter or any social media.  

Also keep in mind that really good providers that are high end probably make more money than 90% of the men they entertain. All these dudes thinking they're ballers not realizing these chicks would financially dominate them. That's another reason I look down on Twitter begging, if you make $200k+ and are broke you gotta get your shit together. On the flip side I also understand, easy money in easy money out. In my younger years I was a bartender at a upscale nightclub and made about $1.5k in tips a night....a lot of it went up my nose and parties in Vegas

Jinx_The_Cat 33 Reviews 133 reads
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You can either slip them a fiver or not.  They are infinitely more honest than hookers on the internet asking for a handout.  I am a professional whore myself (lawyer) and I would never ask a prospective client for a gift.  It’s a matter of self respect and respect for your profession.  Have you ever even seen the janitor in your building ask for a handout?

If some sex worker has that little regard for her profession, than what kind of respect will she have for her client?  Doubtful performance is not a big selling point for me.

CamilleUK See my TER Reviews 142 reads
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This post 100 times 👍

Posted By: 636sd
Re: Luxury girls
It happens, I've given some crazy expensive gifts (not range rover level), BUT any provider that I give expensive stuff too will have more class than to post that shit on Twitter or any social media.  
   
 Also keep in mind that really good providers that are high end probably make more money than 90% of the men they entertain. All these dudes thinking they're ballers not realizing these chicks would financially dominate them. That's another reason I look down on Twitter begging, if you make $200k+ and are broke you gotta get your shit together. On the flip side I also understand, easy money in easy money out. In my younger years I was a bartender at a upscale nightclub and made about $1.5k in tips a night....a lot of it went up my nose and parties in Vegas

jpj 16 Reviews 155 reads
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I only find it odd that you care what someone is doing when it doesn’t affect you and its none of your fucking business.

636sd 151 reads
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To be fair if you put shit out there in the twitterverse it becomes everyone's business. So it's fair game to discuss and judge. Waste of energy? Sure. But so are 99% of the rest of these threads. It's just entertaining discussion.  

In the words of the great Dave Chappelle: "Personally I don't give a fuck because Twitter isn't a real place"

ElleVegas See my TER Reviews 129 reads
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I always state that Chewy gift cards or any other pet related sites are graciously accepted and appreciated.  

 
There always those animal lovers and generous gentlemen that enjoy assisting me with my rescue work.  

To each their own

If it does not concern you why not just scroll on by instead of the negative rant. It's really none of your business anyways.  

Regards

The Sexy Swinger
Elle Vegas

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 139 reads
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How is advertising on twitter any different then advertising on this shitty site?!!

inicky46 61 Reviews 110 reads
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then why are you here?
Anger isn't sexy.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 137 reads
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he seemed to be talking about requests for charity due to having some hard times story to tell.

Why_you_reading_TER 137 reads
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It bothers me too.  

This doesn't apply to all sex workers but for the ones that are pretty and charge upwards of $500/hr, they make more money than the average American and then start asking for handouts, yea, i call b.s. Manage your money right instead of blowing it all on drugs and reckless spending. You got into the stigmatized, dangerous, and better-paying game of sex work because you couldn't stand your underpaid 9-5. There's no excuse for you not being able to manage your money once you start getting paid to do sex work. If you're one of those bringing 15k to 30k a month and can't pay the bills, what did you get into this line of work for?

Now of course plenty of white knights out there that will throw money at them when they ask for it. Whatever.

Snotty 121 reads
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sexystephie See my TER Reviews 124 reads
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I will give you an hour free w an hour paid , i am nice but not stupid. And i dont beg on twitter. Just because you asked nicely.

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