...Chicago and it's suburbs are loaded up with mexicans.
Between the sick dogs, medical injuries, and inability to pay basic bills, there are so many asking for straight up handouts from strangers.
Are they really broke or just running game?
Do you "donate" if you see these types of tweets?
Closed mouths, don't get fed. Kindness is cool. I had a $500 gift sent to me during Covid, which I used to buy a treadmill, so I could continue to stay fit. One gentlemen sent me $200 for my dogs ear infection. It's called a, "voluntary contribution." Just because you have no empathy for providers during their time of great need does not mean others can not be generous. I am a single Mom + a dog Mama, life is hard enough why talk stank about something you can not relate too?
If anyone wants to donate click on my website for links. No shame. Once someone donates it makes us friends. I send my friends tokens of appreciation.
Seriously it does bother me. Get a real job if you want money.
This has been my hobby, since I created my family.
It bothers me too.
This doesn't apply to all sex workers but for the ones that are pretty and charge upwards of $500/hr, they make more money than the average American and then start asking for handouts, yea, i call b.s. Manage your money right instead of blowing it all on drugs and reckless spending. You got into the stigmatized, dangerous, and better-paying game of sex work because you couldn't stand your underpaid 9-5. There's no excuse for you not being able to manage your money once you start getting paid to do sex work. If you're one of those bringing 15k to 30k a month and can't pay the bills, what did you get into this line of work for?
Now of course plenty of white knights out there that will throw money at them when they ask for it. Whatever.
It doesn't bother me but I absolutely will not give a cent to a walking money maker, that I've never met, who has the luxury of tweeting about her problems.
There's a saying "if you have to talk to more than 1 person about your problems, you're not looking for help, you're looking for attention".
And it's got nothing to do with empathy or generosity. It's my ATF's birthday month and between flights/spending money/fashion/jewelry I'm at like $12,000 in gifts to her in 30 days, zero strings attached. Any of my regulars know they can hit me up 24/7 if they need help with anything and I'll take care of them.
Adding that she would never ask or expect these things from me.
It's such a turnoff when you see it!
There is this Asian pornstar who is having a baby and she will beg for piece of toliet paper to blow her nose!
Once I see the begging, it starts to seem like they maybe desperate and/or careless.
Not the type I want to associate with.
But I wish them the best!
So with that, why you trippin??
"women" rather than providers, I will answer to that interpretation. If you're talking about providers, I have a different answer.
I think it's a little bit of both. There have always been women, especially the ones who are somewhat intelligent, but also fat and lazy, who would rather scam for money than work for it. On the other hand, there are always women, especially those who's circumstances have recently changed (widowed, divorced, lost job, etc.) who are in a transitory period of their lives and are not getting by on their own resources. You can often tell by the tone of their request. If they seem embarrassed to be reluctantly asking for help, they are probably legit. If they are asking for a loan rather a handout, then they have good intentions, but cannot always fulfill their repayment promise, so if you give them money, you should consider it a gift and not really a loan. You might get paid back, or you might not. If they sound entitled and use words like "tribute", or "contribution," then they are often scammers who specialize in sweet-talking men out of money, so they try to sound like a non-profit charity. Lol
To answer your question, I don't use twitter, so I would not have an occasion to respond to someone on there, but I have helped some women who I knew were going through a rough time until they could get back on their feet financially. I never accept sex from women down on their luck when they offer it in exchange for my financial help. No good can come of it. Keep it strictly an altruistic gesture. If you can afford to help, it will give you a good feeling. Just make sure the story is legit. If you get scammed, you will feel worse than if you did nothing.
I'm sure he meant "providers" since this is after all a hooker board.
So... what is your answer for providers doing this?
And yes, MANY HDHs are on Twitter doing this exact thing. *major eye roll*
First, I would not help one that I had not already seen professionally, because there is no way for me to verify there is a need for help rather than just a desire for free money. I'm sure there are otherwise honest providers who will accept free money whether they need it or not. Generally speaking, I'm not inclined to help providers because they have an ATM machine between their legs, but if one I know is in trouble due to no fault of her own (a police bust that confiscated her cash on hand, or a sudden work stoppage for some other reason, etc.), I can verify the need and have no qualms about helping out providers that have become my friends.
When Covid hit and the ensuing lockdowns started, there were panicked providers that could not make their rent nor buy groceries, and there were no customers for a few months. I helped several with the rent and food, no strings attached, and surprisingly, all but one eventually insisted on paying me back when business got better again. I told them they don't have to pay it back, but the consensus was that they might need my help again someday and wanted me to be open to it if they did. Fair enough. Hopefully, most of them learned from the Covid experience to have some savings and not live week to week.
...I have helped some women who I knew were going through a rough time until they could get back on their feet financially. I never accept sex from women down on their luck when they offer it in exchange for my financial help. No good can come of it. Keep it strictly an altruistic gesture. If you can afford to help, it will give you a good feeling. Just make sure the story is legit. If you get scammed, you will feel worse than if you did nothing.
She was staying at a total shitbag motel and when I told her I arrived she didn't want me to come into her room because she was embarrassed by it, so she came out to my car. We sat and talked for quite a while and I gave her the money - she was literally living on nothing and was desperate to pay her motel bill for another few nights until she could find a place to stay.
She looked like a mess and apologized. I told her that when she gets out of her situation and starts working again she could make it up to me. I didn't text her again after that - I kept thinking that if she DOES end up dead I don't need any detectives reaching out to me.
I just remembered her and looked on P411 and her profile is inactive so I guess she still has issues. At first I was annoyed with myself for giving her the money but then upon reflection I was glad I could help her - she was truly in a fucked up situation even if her BF wasn't actually trying to kill her.
Did I really need to clarify this ://
It’s the same reason I left that one site that rhymes with “shitter” years ago.
Especially the ones who brag about generous clients, etc..., but when the going gets tough all their "regulars" are nowhere to be found.
Many years ago my regular gal was short of funds for a vacation. she offered a nice discount if I bought 3 sessions in advance. I gladly accepted, as I would do for any regular girl who was in need and was smart enough to add an incentive for me to be more generous than usual.
It's running game. Why spend your money when you can spend the money of those who admire you (and think that maybe a kind gesture will get them somewhere). The higher the rate the longer the Amazon wishlist.
I grew up in New York and wrote about Panhandlers and Scamhandlers here:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/panhandlers-and-scamhandlers-988475
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On the one hand, I can be very empathetic. On the other hand, I remember too many proven scammer panhandlers from growing up in a big city.
Between the sick dogs, medical injuries, and inability to pay basic bills, there are so many asking for straight up handouts from strangers.
Are they really broke or just running game?
Do you "donate" if you see these types of tweets?
I wouldn't give them money because they'd only spend it on alcohol or drugs. So I go into a fast food place and bring them out a bag of food.
I've done that with a few different outcomes. Some are grateful, thank me, and accept the offer (and eat it or carefully put it in a bag for later). Some have spurned the offer and called me names. They said they want a dollar for food but they weren't really hungry, they just wanted some cash for some other purpose.
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Sometimes, I am leaving a place with a 2-for-1 special or similar and know that's it's too much food for me so I offer what I've got (this (extra) sandwich or nothing). Other times, I ask before entering what they might want ("I'm getting a burger. You want a burger or chicken?" "I'm getting a slice. You want a slice?") Sometimes I get the scornful replies even when they can choose an item and not just get offered my "this one or nothing" extra sandwich.
I wouldn't give them money because they'd only spend it on alcohol or drugs. So I go into a fast food place and bring them out a bag of food.
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An escort and his money, her legs are soon parted.
Wasn't there a provider who claimed she got shot in the head then went on vacation and got new breasts?
that I'm down $1.1m in the stock market this week, I wonder how many providers will throw me a freebie?
My guess ZERO
I will give you an hour free w an hour paid , i am nice but not stupid. And i dont beg on twitter. Just because you asked nicely.
Most of these girls also post pics of their luxury cars or very expensive gifts they got from their favorite clients.
I remember a lady (who brands herself as very high end) tweet that she had some car trouble that made her late to a date. She later tweeted a picture of a set of Range Rover keys tied to a card from her suitor that said "No more excuses for being late."
Still not sure I believe it.
It happens, I've given some crazy expensive gifts (not range rover level), BUT any provider that I give expensive stuff too will have more class than to post that shit on Twitter or any social media.
Also keep in mind that really good providers that are high end probably make more money than 90% of the men they entertain. All these dudes thinking they're ballers not realizing these chicks would financially dominate them. That's another reason I look down on Twitter begging, if you make $200k+ and are broke you gotta get your shit together. On the flip side I also understand, easy money in easy money out. In my younger years I was a bartender at a upscale nightclub and made about $1.5k in tips a night....a lot of it went up my nose and parties in Vegas
This post 100 times 👍
It happens, I've given some crazy expensive gifts (not range rover level), BUT any provider that I give expensive stuff too will have more class than to post that shit on Twitter or any social media.
Also keep in mind that really good providers that are high end probably make more money than 90% of the men they entertain. All these dudes thinking they're ballers not realizing these chicks would financially dominate them. That's another reason I look down on Twitter begging, if you make $200k+ and are broke you gotta get your shit together. On the flip side I also understand, easy money in easy money out. In my younger years I was a bartender at a upscale nightclub and made about $1.5k in tips a night....a lot of it went up my nose and parties in Vegas
I don’t understand this thread. I see people asking for $ ( panhandling, begging, whatever you wish to call it) on most major intersections. Asking for money on twitter is no different… it’s just electronic instead of physical.
Times are hard for a certain segment of society .. always has been for the history of the US and probably always will be no matter what bullshit politicians (of either party) try to tell us.
Why get offended or make this an issue? If you don’t want to give somebody something, then don’t. If you do, then do. No one is making you do anything - you have free will.
is asking for handouts?
And who's offended? Sounds like I hit a nerve with you. Do you need a few bucks?
I only find it odd that you care what someone is doing when it doesn’t affect you and its none of your fucking business.
To be fair if you put shit out there in the twitterverse it becomes everyone's business. So it's fair game to discuss and judge. Waste of energy? Sure. But so are 99% of the rest of these threads. It's just entertaining discussion.
In the words of the great Dave Chappelle: "Personally I don't give a fuck because Twitter isn't a real place"
You can either slip them a fiver or not. They are infinitely more honest than hookers on the internet asking for a handout. I am a professional whore myself (lawyer) and I would never ask a prospective client for a gift. It’s a matter of self respect and respect for your profession. Have you ever even seen the janitor in your building ask for a handout?
If some sex worker has that little regard for her profession, than what kind of respect will she have for her client? Doubtful performance is not a big selling point for me.
I always state that Chewy gift cards or any other pet related sites are graciously accepted and appreciated.
There always those animal lovers and generous gentlemen that enjoy assisting me with my rescue work.
To each their own
If it does not concern you why not just scroll on by instead of the negative rant. It's really none of your business anyways.
Regards
The Sexy Swinger
Elle Vegas
How is advertising on twitter any different then advertising on this shitty site?!!
then why are you here?
Anger isn't sexy.
he seemed to be talking about requests for charity due to having some hard times story to tell.
Your desperation is so sad!