I feel at a disadvantage here always unable to answer this question because I couldn't possibly think in terms of an ATF at this point in my hobby career.

I haven't seen that many ladies compared to some of you and more ladies when compared to others, but I have so many more ladies to see first before I settle down to one in particular.

Do I have a favorite of two that I will spend more time with someday when I get around to the top of the order again , you bet I do.

But for now I will simply be satisfied plugging along while trying to empty a favorites list that seems to grow longer by the day.

So what is it about your ATF that keeps you coming back?

Sure the sex is great but for me it's her personality and sense of humor.

the sex definitely has to be worth repeating, but i think a big part of it would be  good rapport between the 2 of you(at least that the client perceives from his point of view). a little chemistry between the 2 would also be beneficial to calling someone  an atf. just my 2cents.

My ATF & I have a pretty good rapport with each other. When she tours my area, I may buy her lunch sometime and hang out with her and talk & not have a sexual session.  

We now kind of have a vibe of just hanging out & chilling during sexual session. Which makes it really relaxing.  Funny thing my ATF is as sexy as she is.....she kind of has a dorky side to her, because she'll try to tell a joke or do something that isn't funny.....but makes you LOL because she did it.

Sex is good. Great sex is better. Even good sex with someone you like and enjoy is better than great sex with someone you don't click with.  Great sex with someone you like? Priceless lol...

All of the above...but it still gets back to the fact that she's an insane sex monster, a drooling, squirting, moaning, pillow-chewing, fuck-machine.  Yes, it's important that she's the total package, including a great sense of fun, smart and literary.  But if all I wanted was to discuss books I'd stay home with my wife.

But I also like talking with the girl, especially if that girl has more than two brain cells to rub together (and especially if you can talk about things you can't talk about with the wife or GF).  Otherwise, I might as well just save up my money and buy a RealDoll.

she stops making me feel like a king, I start to look elsewhere.

All of my ATFs have very little gag reflex, or simply don't mind gagging for about an hour.

Never had much conversation with any of them.

Well now we're getting into what's the definition of an ATF.  For me it's The Best You Ever Had So Far and by no means exclusive.  The idea of an exclusive provider violates a profound rule for me.  Because you're right, there are so many wonderful women out there, how could I possibly limit myself to one?  It's like asking me to violate my genetic code as a pre-programmed man-whore.  My ATF is amazing.  But she's only my ATF until somebody tops her.  That's the man-whore code. And even if someone tops her, I'll still go back for more.

Everything I want but just can't have......

We seem to have a mutual chemistry and at least attraction, which then equates to incredible sex...

Think you're the only one she shines the pearly whites for? Or makes you see God when she fucks the taste out of your mouth?

Tell you what. I got a bridge. Prime real estate. Can't miss it. Connects Brooklyn to Manhattan.

I'll let you have it at the low, low price of 10 million.

It's a steal! Usually I ask 25, but for you? I'll take 10. That's the kinda guy I am.

Shit!!!!

You hit the nail on the head. I drive 2hours round trip to see her, why? Sure the sex, but for the couple of hours I'm with her, she has me convinced that she likes me too. She'll text me out of the blue with something cute or witty. Is it marketing? Probably, but when I'm with her, it's like I'm the only man in her life. She's really good!

bringing reality back into it.  LOL

Some guys really enjoy an hour or two of fantasy time ......... nothing wrong with that.  Reality comes back in to focus soon enough, when it's time for her to leave (before turning into a pumpkin).  Rising above the trickosphere, on occasion, is a good thing.

Re "no gag reflex" here's what a Love about my ATF.  She wants me to hold her head to me in DT while she semi-gags.  "Take my air," she says.  Even better, when I relent she doesn't even come up for air and just stays glued down there a while longer.  I think I'm in love.

so you can give me back 2M in cash.

My ATF offers an encounter that is perfect for me.  She is beautiful, intelligent, affectionate, passionate, does little thoughtful things to make the experience more personal and enjoyable, and relates to me as if we were genuine lovers.  She's amazing.