1- I know some providers do what they do because they make a lot of money. But lets say if you had a monthly income of $2500-$3000 doing spmething else at home would you ever consider leaving the business????

2- Lets say one of your clients offers to take care of you and is a perfect sugar daddy but is older!
Another client is younger and is a professional sports handicapper specializing in basketball. He has enjoyed his time with you and is willing to teach you everything you'll need to know to become successful and make enough money every year to take of yourself after all you really do not need to know anything about the game or even watch the games or study the teams, its a numbers game. He is very genuine but is not going to be your sugar daddy but wants to help you get out of the business and is seeking a long term relationship!

Which one would you rather be with????

The first situation is probably not going to last forever and you have to depend on other people and when its over probably your back to where you were before.

The second situation may not last forever either but if you really learn what he offers you will become successful and you never have to depend on anyone but you'll need at least $5000 to start and learn!

I'm glad you asked this question.
It's not about the MONEY!!! I know the Hobbyists have a hard time understanding that, but, FOR MANY, it's not about the money! True, we wouldn't do it for free, but do you go to the office for free? Ok, so there's the comparison and that's about it. It's simply BETTER money, and more fun! Many of us ladies are professional women, have careers, and play the Corporate America BS games, and also hate it!(see my earlier posts on how I feel about that) Being a Provider is so much more for me than I can possibly list in a posting, but here's a few: thrilling, exciting, empowering, stimulating, enlightening, challenging, pleasurable, sensual, carefree, FUN..just to name a FEW. If I didn't do this, I'd miss it. I didn't begin this because I 'needed the money'. I do it because I love it! I do it because I always, always dreamed I would. As Mara put it, and I concur - we don't date. This is dating for us. I like the variety, I love the company, and the intimacy is wonderful. And it gives me my space. They go home.
I can't really relate to the question because, $2500-$3000  is nothing. (especially in SD, when my mortgage is almost $2k) You make that working. In this business, there are plenty of ladies who make closer to $20k a month..I'm not one of them, only because you would have to 'crank them out' like cattle to get that, and that defeats the whole enjoyment and reason for me in doing this.
As fun as I'm sure it probably can be to be somebody's 'kept woman', I couldn't do it. I'm too independant to be that. I have to earn my own way, do my own thing, and I can't 'belong' to anybody. I enjoy 'sharing' times with someone, and having them 'share' times with me, but I have to be my own person.
You mention someone showing you how to make a nice living - I'm all for 'teaching a man to fish' and that would suit me fine, and he could have lots of attention in exchange - that would work well for me! You also mention that one is young, and the other 'older' and that wouldn't really matter. The man matters. I have a young 'bf' now ( 2 and 1/2 years) and many 'older' clients. Love them all.

Lots of love,
Sedona


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On the first question, no.  I'm working up to a goal that requires a huge investment of cash.  I would consider $2500-3000 doing something at home comparible to sitting on my ass watching Fairy Springer on welfare.  There's more to life.

On the second question, the older gentleman.  I really don't have any interest in changing my career, because I do it out of a tremendous passion for what I do, have put 20 years of blood, sweat and tears into it, literally.  I have *zero* interest in basketball or learning any other "trade", and I'm actually more attracted to older men than younger, and I don't want anything to last forever!

BJ, Palm Beach, Florida
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To answer your questions

#1. I work full time as an accountant during the day. I started this job to get out of debt, have lots of sex, to save now & for retirement. I AM NOT IN IT FOR THE MONEY...I AM JUST REALLY GOOD AT ESCORTING AND LOVE BEING WITH MEN AND YEAH LADIES TOO.

#2. My guy is 16 years older than me.
I base my relationships not on money, but how the other person treats me. If he is shitty (that was huband #1) I would not tolerate it. A relationship's foundation is based on trust and communication.

My two cents...Philadelphia's Tattooed Escort...Shaye

I gave up my full time day job a couple of months ago so I could travel more.  I had a job I loved and I still work on a freelance basis.  I couldn't only do escorting as I love the day job work I do and I think it's important to keep my brain active as well as my body.  I consider myself very lucky that I can escort, have more fun than I ever imagined, and still have the time and money to travel frequently.  I'd certainly miss escorting if I gave it up as I love meeting and getting to know new people all the time.  And, of course, I get to have lots of sex too which is very, very nice!

I would chose either situation that allowed me to be in total control of my own life, the sugar daddy thing is nice but very draining one is expected to ask "how high?" when told to jump.  Putting your life on someone's hands is not a good decision-especially given the fact usually Mr SD is married, he already has displayed his inability to commit, what makes a gal think he will honor taking care of her?

2,500 -3000 isn't quite enough for most ladies, well maybe it would be without being in this biz from the very very high overhead

I don't think most ladies would be willing to use 5K of their own hard earned money on a gamble though too risky unless they have disposable investment capital but then if have that anyway they most likely are pretty set in the biz and wouldn't need to anyway.

I'd rather go for the sure thinga legit biz investment/franchise with the help of a sugar daddy say combine the 2 with things in my name