I hear so often men enter this hobby due to physical and emotional needs not met

Real love can transcend basic emotional and physical needs.  If the couple have a strong connection between them, a partner can excuse the loss of certain relationship components.  Sometimes these components can be absent temporarily, sometimes permenantly, due to illness or emotional distress at no direct fault of the other partner.  Now, because certain needs are so basic, one may decide to fulfill them through another source while still maintaining love for their partner.  Think of it this way...most people maintain close friendships outside of their romantic relationships.  Finding a friend for...say sex, under the circumstances described above...would just be adding a component to the typical definition of friendship

Wait - I do not need to imagine it, do I?

This is how some of you have sounded the last couple of days on here complaining about other people post.

Whether they are happy, miserable, content, or bored silly they just stay together under any/all circumstances.  I don't know if I'm mature enough to make that kind of commitment.  I imagine that after a while (15/20/30...years together) and families and grandkids and all that, that's just YOUR LIFE and you can't (and don't want to) change anything.  You just live out your binding marriage contract and try to find some passion and happiness in life just like everyone else.

no fucktard not same post...

If I leave, she gets half the money, and you don't get anything.  

I guess my post hit a nerve but that is the point.
Also I like your pictures and let's just say age is not a issue for me.  
Just seems to me everybody should post as many comments as they wish.
Thanks for making my point and the laughs.

ooooh you hurt my hooker heart....bringing up the fake review..

First off leaving can be very, very expensive.

Well if the review is fake then why did you not get it remove?
Also this must be a new thing with calling bad reviews fake. Lol
Thanks for the laughs and not looking to hurt your heart.
Just wondering why you are so pissed with me making a point.

...allowing each other some sexual novelty outside of the marriage. Sorry, but it's practically impossible to maintain passion and desire over the long haul and there's usually more to a marriage than romance. Beyond family, for a lot of people it's about security and having someone to rely on through thick and thin.  

i would never be happy settling...

Since we are in the same age range baby.
The difference is after a date with me.
You would be the one tried. Lol

I could retire to Paris and spend my days eating pastries and street crepes.  

My pussy isnt for sale..

We're just independent and free and go wherever we want when we want, and move cross-country, then go to Australia on a whim one day, then decide to go back to school, then decide to work, then decide to go back in the hobby, then go to Japan for a month just for the cultural experience, then go back to school again, then date a civie and quit the hobby, then dump him and date your ATF ...

If I stayed, most likely I too would have become a cheater at some point and I would have grown to hate not only her, but myself as well.

and that kind of attitude may be the reason that such a high percentage of my "real" relationships are with hookers. I've also noticed the breakups are so much less drama filled when breaking up with a hooker GF than with a civvie chick. I still remain friends with most of my hooker GF's. I can only think of one civvie girl in the last twenty plus years that I had any desire to stay in touch with after we broke up.

So not only is it clear why your last review is not a fake.
The comments exposed your true intentions on here.
You were jealous of the attention another provider was getting by her threads.

My pre-providing dating life was filled with drama.  Every guy I dated, I wanted to marry and expected him to only have eyes for me.  So if I suspected him of cheating, all hell would break loose!  And vice versa!  Guy would think I was cheating and he'd stalk me and hide in my bushes.  So silly.

dude your a loser ok

You keep proving my points.
I would stay away from jealousy.
It's not a good quality anybody.
 

seeing your bs

I will say this again Caitlyn.
My reviews are up for everyone to see right now.
You and everybody else that runs this line about alises are fools.
We all are on here using alises with or without showing reviews and guess what it's allowed on here.
I show both of them.

It really is kind of amusing watching you running around and around in a circle, just like a dog chasing it's tail. The dog is much smarter of course as it eventually tires of chasing it's tail, while you seem to be able to do this dance for days on end. I am sure Bill is having a huge laugh at your expense as well.

What man runs around looking for so much support on here like you do?
I laugh at your comments because you have no fucking clue.
What you are talking about clown.

This one time at band camp ...

Critical thinking???!! Surely, you jest!

Life is far too short to be unhappy. I got divorced twice and I'd do it again but I've learned my lesson ... There is no such thing as free pussy.  

Interesting judgments considering I've heard 75%+ of hobbyists are married...is it reasonable to have judgment about something you also capitalize on? Just curious. That would be like me having judgments about the morality of transactional companionship....which I do not.

I would say "unilaterally decide" is a big assumption...and I don't think anyone DESERVES to get cheated on. In my case my feelings have been made clear, dangerously close to ending the marriage in fact...but we moved on eventually, and it's the same as it was, or less. I think she assumes or rationalizes that I've adjusted to living without.  That doesn't mean she deserves what she gets. Everyone is just doing their best, she doesn't have it in her to understand, much less fulfill my desires.  

I don't believe you can love someone, and betray them.  

(Most) Women don't quite get it.  They don't undertand how important sex is to men both as a physiological (?) need and also for his mental health and self esteem.  

It's better for the family unit (husband wife and children) to stay together while dad very respecfully has some of his needs fulfilled outside.  

You're right.  My opinion was a bit too simplistic.  GENERALLY youd think women are the ones having sex with husband begrudgingly as a chore or turning him down, but you're right that women can be ignored, not desired, and neglected by the husband too.  And women cheat for that very reason.  

This is a tangent, but sex drive has absolutely nothing to do with gender.

You are the one who brought up the review not her.

"sex drive has absolutely nothing to do with gender."

But that which you describe sounds like cancer for a household.

Didn't say I was unhappy, just no sex. Sometimes your SO gets ill. I don't hate her, nor would I leave her for that. My emotional needs are still met, and I get the pleasure of playing a wide open field for sex. I don't hate myself at all, nor do I feel guilty for choosing to do so. I just play the deuces i've been dealt.  

The sex drive/desire would be back immediately!  What a loser he was.  I got up early and worked full time + while he slept in, mooched off MY money, and probably cheated.  My vagina was so DRY with him.

In this life, you get what you want, when you want, with whom you want for as long you want, and then it's "see you next time darlin". And she gets paid!

In my case the lack of intimacy, and lots of other dysfunctional crap, has been going on since long before I became a punter.  If I had the cojones I'd get the divorce.

I think your headline says it all dumb ass.
So who are you calling out and follow along before struggling to write a response comment.
 

I think it boils down to married guys simply taking the path of least resistance.

I've told my sons....marry an adventurous nymphomaniac, who you can also take home to Mom (for Thanksgiving!).  

You can't.