I am white - big deal. I think all women are beautiful, each in her own way. I don't care about race, ethnicity, country of origin, etc. etc. I care about skin of any shade including pasty white Irish girls. I care about beauty in all its forms - about personality - about a sense of humor - about being sexy. Whenever I see a woman saying "don't you want a chocolate treat?" or "have you wondered about a woman of color?" or "I'm your ebony delight" and other such things, my immediate reaction is an assumption that she is playing into a racist sterotype of white men. What bothers me more is that I think they are demeaning themselves by playing that card. I don't recall reading caucasian women saying "have you wondered about pale easily sunburned skin?" or "I'm your ecru delight" or "have you ever wondered about a woman whose skin is indistinguishable from the hotel sheets?" Women are sexy and sensual, or they are not. Has nothing to do with skin color, size, ethnicity, big or little booty, and all that stuff. So why even bring it up in your ads??

Any more than a redhead making reference to being "flaming red hot" or something like that, or a South American woman claiming to be a "bronzed beauty".

,which is why we have so many people (Sharpton, Jesse, etc.) always shouting racism.  We have become such a PC world, that no one can get fired anymore just because they have a poor work ethic.  It always has to be racism, too old, too pretty, too fat, blah blah.

Think about what you wrote. You basically answered your own question.
There is a target audience here my friend. The target is money.
No matter what color, how good looking, or polite I am. I will always be a little fish.
The answer is in my wallet, and I'm cool with that.
I actually understand it because I used to be a waiter, and a bartender.
People who paid me.. Got better attention. Simple as that.
It isn't about race. It's about the loot.

To me there is nothing wrong in saying, I'm your ebony delight or I'm the "spicy Latina" that you always dreamed of..

For men who never had chocolate an invitation to perhaps inquire and sample . Black girls r sexy and beautiful . And they talk dirty .  

The headline of an ad saying you're ebony simply lets the buyer know what he'll find if he opens the ad.  If that's what he's looking for, it's all good.  If not, same thing.  And, yes, I've seen several girls refer to their "ivory" or "alabaster" skin, too.  It's just describing the product.  This guy is just reading way too much into it.

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have become so sensitive to race that sometimes people pretend that it doesn't exist or get upset by even slightest mention of it.  
 
Both, seem to me two sides of the same coin..

When I was a teen, a friend was at my place and the song Brown Sugar by Rolling Stones came on... and she was like ugh, racist much?  And I was like...huh?!

Who is we , young William Tell . Do tell ?

I guess you gotta do whatever gets the phone ringing!

We come in all shapes, sizes and colors...we all have our preferences and fortunately we don't all like the same thing...some ladies are petit and slender, some tall and curvy or BBW, some are white some are brown or black, some have large boobs and some small, some have augmented boobs and some have natural boobs, some are shaved others have varying amounts of pubies...certainly there is nothing wrong in describing yourself so that we can make informed decisions based on our personal preferences...if a lady is black why she should ignore that fact in her ad?

now I'm going to go fuck my-self...

Because of two things

A feeling u see things here just like me ! Fucking hysterical .  

It's a matter of aesthetics.  Skin color, looks, even cultural behaviors all have a certain attraction under the right conditions.

So, she markets it along with whatever else she's got.

It's a free country.  Take it or leave it as you will.  It's not a problem for moi.

Re: LMAO! I'm out of my league. End. / go play

Call of duty ? And wear a helmet your shell shocked over that girl in the pic below and the Spanish eastern European chick with the great @$$ !

Just veering off-thread a bit, "Brown Sugar" isn't all that innocent a song. It's about slave traders raping black slave women when they arrived in the  US. The Stones took a ton of heat for that song, and even more for "Midnight Rambler", a song about a serial rapist and killer.

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Great answer!!  

Yep. Add to the fact that there are NOT a lot of ebony providers. They have to market what makes them stand out, and that just happens to be things about their skin and bodies that we don't have. Duh....

Well you could have (and apparently did) fool me.

ANAL ! We know your secret , and I'm gonna tell Now !

Computers too .? Because the fucking misspelling is ridiculous . They all suck ! Or skinny white girl ? Wtf is that ? Anorexia !

yeah, I was just a teen at the time, so I had no idea LoL Though I dont know the full story (I shall check that out now, very curious now that you bring it up) I remember my brother in law saying something about that (while joking I shouldnt listen to his music anyway, and to listen to crappy music on the radio like the rest of my friends do lol). But with music lyrics, its too common that theres some deeper not as heartwarming meaning.  

In doing business there's nothing wrong with taking race into account if it really makes a difference in the experience. A lot of lighter skins are more moist and a lot of darker skins are drier. On I humid day I might prefer a playmate whose body would slide against mine easily rather than being all sticky, so I might incline towards the ebon variety of human contact. Other times I might prefer the softer skin. If providers would advertise that it would be more helpful to the comparison shopper

yeah, you just never know unfortunately.  I hope he realizes you didnt mean anything bad by it though!

Hahaha! You remind me of a certain date I had where he said he just had to see me because I was exactly his type.  and I said oh? you like black women? tall women?  And he said oh yeah...and short women, and average height women, and  white women, and asian women, and...and...and...

Brown Sugar is also a reference to heroin. In the song is the line "Scarred old slaver know he doin' alright".  Jagger actually sings "Skydog Slaver", which is a reference to "Skydog" Duane Allman, who was a studio musician at Muscle Shoals Studio at the time. That's where the song and album were mixed. He was called Skydog because he was high all the time. Jagger wrote the song when he was in Australia working his part in the terrible movie "Ned Kelley".

So I had to look up information about this song, and it is pretty fascinating, really! Black Betty was an old work song, and "Black Betty" referred to either a musket, a bottle of whiskey, a whip, or a penitentiary transfer wagon.

I love useless trivia! LoL! this was a pretty interesting breakdown too I have to say.

It seems this thread is veering more, so...

You obviously have never been personally immersed in black culture — that is lived as a white minority.

That's pretty cool! Did you get it at an auction?

Racism is racism no matter which races are involved. (Human race, Martians, etc... )

Id never sell something like that, but it would be so interesting to find out its value!

Yeah u me and a lot of people , these things SUCK , I got one that changes the words in the sentences , and is so sensitive it grabs other words , I've noticed it a lot here and with various people . Oh and some of the guys kid with u b/c u seem cool ! Hey , have a good weekend . L8r.

In this world

You sound stupid

There is no such thing as reverse racism.... there is only racism irrespective of which race is being a bigot toward another... there in lies my point.   If she had advertised "tired of all the pasty skinned flat back crackers? come get with a real dark skinned beauty" Then I would agree with you... having pride in who you are and advertising who you are isnt racism. Putting down another race of people to elevate yourself is racism.  Based on what you said about the advertisement there may be some insecurities on your end.

What an idiot.

There are some who are ready to scream "racist!" as soon as skin color becomes a subject. Race is an entire other matter: it entails culture, and cultures coexist in a state of uneasy truce, sometimes

I mean it is RARE for white women to have a tiny waste, nice hips, and a bubble butt, without also being fat. I've seen bone skinny ebony women who still have that huge booty. I am not saying white women can't EVER be built that way, but it's far from the "norm."