Well you could have (and apparently did) fool me.
Been with plenty of AA gals...I haven't seen ONE that had different equipment than a non AA. Care to clue me into what I am missing?I've seen White woman use "I'm your All American Country Girl..." I've also seen women use "alabaster skin" or "porcelain skin"
At the end of the day its an AD to get more business, and its their business...
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I am white - big deal. I think all women are beautiful, each in her own way. I don't care about race, ethnicity, country of origin, etc. etc. I care about skin of any shade including pasty white Irish girls. I care about beauty in all its forms - about personality - about a sense of humor - about being sexy. Whenever I see a woman saying "don't you want a chocolate treat?" or "have you wondered about a woman of color?" or "I'm your ebony delight" and other such things, my immediate reaction is an assumption that she is playing into a racist sterotype of white men. What bothers me more is that I think they are demeaning themselves by playing that card. I don't recall reading caucasian women saying "have you wondered about pale easily sunburned skin?" or "I'm your ecru delight" or "have you ever wondered about a woman whose skin is indistinguishable from the hotel sheets?" Women are sexy and sensual, or they are not. Has nothing to do with skin color, size, ethnicity, big or little booty, and all that stuff. So why even bring it up in your ads??
Any more than a redhead making reference to being "flaming red hot" or something like that, or a South American woman claiming to be a "bronzed beauty".
I really think it's reached a point where folks are looking for racism where it doesn't exist.
,which is why we have so many people (Sharpton, Jesse, etc.) always shouting racism. We have become such a PC world, that no one can get fired anymore just because they have a poor work ethic. It always has to be racism, too old, too pretty, too fat, blah blah.
I don't discriminate when it comes to women. Everyone has there own type that revs the engine.
Think about what you wrote. You basically answered your own question.
There is a target audience here my friend. The target is money.
No matter what color, how good looking, or polite I am. I will always be a little fish.
The answer is in my wallet, and I'm cool with that.
I actually understand it because I used to be a waiter, and a bartender.
People who paid me.. Got better attention. Simple as that.
It isn't about race. It's about the loot.
And you are absolutely wrong about women not promoting their pale, kept skin.
Read my second review. That girl is an Angel.
To me there is nothing wrong in saying, I'm your ebony delight or I'm the "spicy Latina" that you always dreamed of..
I've seen White woman use "I'm your All American Country Girl..." I've also seen women use "alabaster skin" or "porcelain skin"
At the end of the day its an AD to get more business, and its their business...
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The headline of an ad saying you're ebony simply lets the buyer know what he'll find if he opens the ad. If that's what he's looking for, it's all good. If not, same thing. And, yes, I've seen several girls refer to their "ivory" or "alabaster" skin, too. It's just describing the product. This guy is just reading way too much into it.
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have become so sensitive to race that sometimes people pretend that it doesn't exist or get upset by even slightest mention of it.
Both, seem to me two sides of the same coin..
There are some who are ready to scream "racist!" as soon as skin color becomes a subject. Race is an entire other matter: it entails culture, and cultures coexist in a state of uneasy truce, sometimes
Yep. Add to the fact that there are NOT a lot of ebony providers. They have to market what makes them stand out, and that just happens to be things about their skin and bodies that we don't have. Duh....
I've seen White woman use "I'm your All American Country Girl..." I've also seen women use "alabaster skin" or "porcelain skin"
At the end of the day its an AD to get more business, and its their business...
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Well you could have (and apparently did) fool me.
Been with plenty of AA gals...I haven't seen ONE that had different equipment than a non AA.
Care to clue me into what I am missing?
I've seen White woman use "I'm your All American Country Girl..." I've also seen women use "alabaster skin" or "porcelain skin"
At the end of the day its an AD to get more business, and its their business...
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I mean it is RARE for white women to have a tiny waste, nice hips, and a bubble butt, without also being fat. I've seen bone skinny ebony women who still have that huge booty. I am not saying white women can't EVER be built that way, but it's far from the "norm."
For men who never had chocolate an invitation to perhaps inquire and sample . Black girls r sexy and beautiful . And they talk dirty .
Your just scared your penis may be to small or once u go black you'll never go back
Who is we , young William Tell . Do tell ?
Call of duty ? And wear a helmet your shell shocked over that girl in the pic below and the Spanish eastern European chick with the great @$$ !
ANAL ! We know your secret , and I'm gonna tell Now !
When I was a teen, a friend was at my place and the song Brown Sugar by Rolling Stones came on... and she was like ugh, racist much? And I was like...huh?!
We had a loooong convo about it, and in the end she realized how lame she was being... thing is, all the time we hear songs, compliments and descriptive of beautiful blondes, hot redheads, baby blue eyes, etc etc...but make a remark about any feature of a black woman in relation to being beautiful and it stand out. I was like...sooo, its racist he happend to write about a woman with skin the colour of brown sugar? He should only stick to blondes? She realized what she was implicating and Im happy to say, that convo ended...very well 
But no, its not racist to find a black woman beautiful, nor is it racist to describe yourself in a flattering light, no matter what race you are. Self love does not equal hatred for anyone who is not like you. NOW if the ad said something derogatory about people of other races, you have a case! lol But describing ourselves is something we ALL do. Its business to promote ourselves.
And for the record, I have as a matter of fact, seen ads where ladies describe themselves as having "porcelain skin", "blonde bombshell", "blue eyed beauty" etc etc... Black women arent exactly cornering the market of describing ourselves to catch the eye of a guy who may be interested in what we look like. Aye!
Just veering off-thread a bit, "Brown Sugar" isn't all that innocent a song. It's about slave traders raping black slave women when they arrived in the US. The Stones took a ton of heat for that song, and even more for "Midnight Rambler", a song about a serial rapist and killer.
yeah, I was just a teen at the time, so I had no idea LoL Though I dont know the full story (I shall check that out now, very curious now that you bring it up) I remember my brother in law saying something about that (while joking I shouldnt listen to his music anyway, and to listen to crappy music on the radio like the rest of my friends do lol). But with music lyrics, its too common that theres some deeper not as heartwarming meaning.
But the sentiment is the same...that she (and I) thought he was singing about a black woman, and she thought it was offensive til I pointed out theres nothing offensive about finding someones features attractive, regardless of what race they are. =D
Great answer!!
I once complimented a guy who was the boyfriend of an AA friend of mine on how stunning he looked in a black shirt. This man was a god! He had the blackest skin I'd ever seen and was wearing a long sleeved black button down and was just a sight to see. She later told me that he was a bit offended that I'd mentioned his skin color in the compliment. I felt terrible. But I guess there is the sense that when most of your life has been defined by your skin color, even mentioning it in a compliment can feel insulting.
I had no idea about what 89 springer posted. I will have to read up on that! And listen to the lyrics more closely.
Now I wonder about Black Betty!
yeah, you just never know unfortunately. I hope he realizes you didnt mean anything bad by it though!
Brown Sugar is also a reference to heroin. In the song is the line "Scarred old slaver know he doin' alright". Jagger actually sings "Skydog Slaver", which is a reference to "Skydog" Duane Allman, who was a studio musician at Muscle Shoals Studio at the time. That's where the song and album were mixed. He was called Skydog because he was high all the time. Jagger wrote the song when he was in Australia working his part in the terrible movie "Ned Kelley".
Keith Richards wrote the music and lyrics for "Midnight Rambler", and has said repeatedly that Mick Jagger has been the only person who could sing the song and get away with it.
I'm a huge Stones fan, and know all sorts of useless bits of trivia.
Now back to hobbying. 
I love useless trivia! LoL! this was a pretty interesting breakdown too I have to say.
If Im ever on Jeopardy and this comes up, I'll get in touch to make sure you get your share hehehe!
So I had to look up information about this song, and it is pretty fascinating, really! Black Betty was an old work song, and "Black Betty" referred to either a musket, a bottle of whiskey, a whip, or a penitentiary transfer wagon.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Bett
It seems this thread is veering more, so...
I have a piece of history in my possession. It's a piece of carved wood of the sort that was over doorways in homes from the 1800's. It has a cherub and some flowers on it. It was given to me as a birthday present by a friend.
The piece was over the doorway in a large home that was once Kitty Williams brothel in Milwaukee. Kitty arrived in Milwaukee around 1890 when she was 21, and worked at some brothels. She saved her money and eventually opened her own.
Milwaukee had a notorious red light district at the time. In the very late 1890's the city elected a reform mayor who vowed to close down the brothels. He closed most of them, but not Kitty's. Her place served the wealthy and the politically powerful. It was more exclusive, with her charging $3 to $5 an hour for her girls, versus the $1 an hour the other brothels charged. The new mayor conveniently overlooked her place.
That's pretty cool! Did you get it at an auction?
Id never sell something like that, but it would be so interesting to find out its value!
I guess you gotta do whatever gets the phone ringing!
We come in all shapes, sizes and colors...we all have our preferences and fortunately we don't all like the same thing...some ladies are petit and slender, some tall and curvy or BBW, some are white some are brown or black, some have large boobs and some small, some have augmented boobs and some have natural boobs, some are shaved others have varying amounts of pubies...certainly there is nothing wrong in describing yourself so that we can make informed decisions based on our personal preferences...if a lady is black why she should ignore that fact in her ad?
now I'm going to go fuck my-self...
See Tiddles it ain't just you.
A feeling u see things here just like me ! Fucking hysterical .
See Tiddles it ain't just you.
Because of two things
1. You say white woman doesn’t say this that and the other
2. Your assumption all men are white is totally, 100% wrong.
Instead reverse racism, you are being one.
You are a hypocrite trying parade as something else you really are not.
It's a matter of aesthetics. Skin color, looks, even cultural behaviors all have a certain attraction under the right conditions.
So, she markets it along with whatever else she's got.
It's a free country. Take it or leave it as you will. It's not a problem for moi.
Equal Employment Opportunity Provider
Love them, especially AA, Latina, Asian, White and This one lady from Russia
I could care less how they advertise.
Hahaha! You remind me of a certain date I had where he said he just had to see me because I was exactly his type. and I said oh? you like black women? tall women? And he said oh yeah...and short women, and average height women, and white women, and asian women, and...and...and...
and I was like...so basically, women are your type. LMFAO
Gotta love it =D
In this world
absolutely
In the civie world. well I need a bit more than race, size and looks.
but looks helps. lol
In doing business there's nothing wrong with taking race into account if it really makes a difference in the experience. A lot of lighter skins are more moist and a lot of darker skins are drier. On I humid day I might prefer a playmate whose body would slide against mine easily rather than being all sticky, so I might incline towards the ebon variety of human contact. Other times I might prefer the softer skin. If providers would advertise that it would be more helpful to the comparison shopper
You sound stupid
What an idiot.
Some women do advertise about how pale their skin is... I think it's pretty much the same effect, wondering having sex with a type of women you don't interact with much in day to day life. It's not racism at all, it just plays into the reason why many men hobby, because of the variety - you get to experience women of all skin colors and ethnicity.
I have to admit I would be greatly interested in an ad that said "I am your ecru delight".
You obviously have never been personally immersed in black culture — that is lived as a white minority.
Frankly, when I hear other whites say the condensing, patronizing things that you say (as if you have the ability or right to decide how a black man or woman refers to themselves, or how they SHOULD feel about it) it make me embarrassed to be a cracker. It shows you think - as a white - that you know better.
It's kinda pathetic. ... just sayin'
Racism is racism no matter which races are involved. (Human race, Martians, etc... )
But seriously- racism is racism. The concept of "reverse racism" is a weird one. Does it mean "non-racism"?
There is no such thing as reverse racism.... there is only racism irrespective of which race is being a bigot toward another... there in lies my point. If she had advertised "tired of all the pasty skinned flat back crackers? come get with a real dark skinned beauty" Then I would agree with you... having pride in who you are and advertising who you are isnt racism. Putting down another race of people to elevate yourself is racism. Based on what you said about the advertisement there may be some insecurities on your end.