First of all, we have no idea if she is faking it for our benefit or really getting off.  Not that I even mind if she does fake it, in fact it is a real service to me that she cares enough to do so.

On the other hand, maybe I'm such a stud that I got her off.  Nothing wrong with that either.

Suffice it to say, it's not our job or our concern to get the gal off.  Maybe we like to do so and she will engage us that way, which is my thing, but hey, to each their own.

I just don't get all these guys that think it's so great that they pay for sessions with providers and then brag about the provider getting off. I'm paying 3-5 hundred dollars for me to get off with a beautiful young lady that wouldn't give me the time of day in real life.
Let's get real. Maybe some guys just enjoy eating pussy, but it's not really my thing.  
Maybe I'm selfish.....but I am the one paying.

Guys do this for different reasons and get off on different things. I personally find a session much more fulfilling when I give as much as I receive. I just love it. I'm not naive enough to believe that every O is real, and you'll never see a review from me in which I boast about the number of times I made a girl cum because Os are easy to fake. But its much harder to fake an actual physical response. And when that happens I'm in heaven. But that's just me

Please don't fake noises or orgasms...that's that fastest way to deflate my boner. I'd rather have you just lay there. I have picked you because you are fucking HOT, so as long as you show up, get naked & let me have my way with you, I have more than gotten my money"s worth! BTW, I get all the fake noises, fake orgasms & just laying there from my wife that I need!

has an intolerance for someone doing something different from what YOU like to do.

If a woman wants to let me know what she likes and is willing to direct the daty I'll definitely give it the old college try. But I agree, I'm paying, and for women I'd never be able to be with if it weren't for the hobby. It's been my experience that some providers aren't interested in daty, unless the John insists. I don't mind if she fakes an O to make me feel good, but don't let me waste my time if she isn't interested. I'd rather just talk and get a little glimpse of who she is if she isn't interested in daty during the down time, and then rock on for round 2.

Many guys like to hear that moaning and shit.  Gals will do what seems to be in the majority...so I would think that the moans and shit is preferred given how many gals do that.

There's only been a couple of times when I was certain a provider was actually getting off on what I was doing. It excites me when it's for real. It bores me when it's faked. If I'm doing something and she's obviously not really getting off, I'll ask for her suggestions. If that doesn't work, I'll ask her to give me a bj again, or just play with her boobs, or run my hands over her.  

Ben Franklin she might be more inclined to fake it with enthusiasm?

I don't pay $300-$500 to get off.

Back then, I rarely went down on girls or even cared so much if they got off, just as long as I did.  By your handle, it may lead one to assume you are a younger guy looking for older women...  

A unique approach... No two are the same...

Most ladies I see don't have to fake it. I'm that good! lol I understand it's a dilemma for them. If they don't act like you are rocking their world, some guys probably won't come back. And I'm not talking about DATY, doesn't do much for me. I'm an old fart so I understand I'm not going to rock a 20-30-something's world. I'm not hard to look at for my age, but, sometimes, I ask them to close their eyes & enjoy. Like I said before, if they show up, get naked & let me have my way with them, I have got what I came for and truly appreciate them being with me. It is one of the most awesome experiences in life.

But I guess I could see that may have been what he was posting about.

It works both ways my dear...plenty of gals show up with an attitude of "I'm the hottest gal in the world...and you better just cum so I can be on my way".

But your point is taken. The way I look at it if I get off and she gets off, it's a win-win. Men like having their cock sucked, it feels good. Women like sex too, to include having their pussy licked. Whether they're charging by the hour  or not.

Remember that show?

You should be selfish cuz ur right u r paying for it but maybe the others who post enjoy "getting a providers off or licking the kitty"...... If I paid for a service I better get what I want.... Lol

I'd fuck her as well.

Toss one at her and see how she looks.  If she's got that angry look...toss her another one.  Repeat till you get that smirk and you're good to go.

I'll start with $10s and step to a $50 before dropping 3x $20s. Lol.

I'm happy to deliver a swift kick to the bells too!
I'll expect a benji for that.

you just prefer a gas station type provider vs. a gfe one. Please make them aware so they can charge your dumb ass extra. Thanks.

You are the kind of lady that expands my view of the world and the pleasures in it.
My thought if he's going to use an alias to put this out, perhaps it's a good idea, otherwise he'd probably make it onto a DNS list or two.

1 in 100,000 provider get off all the other are just good actresses

Let's face it -some stereotypes are true!

Almost correct. Gfe for me= kissing and bbbj cim, easygoing downtime, and hopefully a hotter provider.  

I am very sorry you are that bad in bed. Fact is, many providers get off from oral... just not with you. Buy yourself a Mango, cut in in half, and practice.

Hell I'd do her too, but perhaps she shouldn't reproduce. I would have much more respect for a person in her position  who simply says "I'm not sure".But then again, in Spain there have been people running with the bulls since the year 500 something and the ones that don't get killed contribute to the gene pool, that's a ridiculous thing to do

Same as a provider, her business her rules.  

how about watching a movie?

You must not purchase anything.

We purchase a lot. Or should we trade.

Here's another thing.
Paying what it's worth is about knowing what it's worth, timing, and alternatives.