I just don't get all these guys that think it's so great that they pay for sessions with providers and then brag about the provider getting off. I'm paying 3-5 hundred dollars for me to get off with a beautiful young lady that wouldn't give me the time of day in real life. Let's get real. Maybe some guys just enjoy eating pussy, but it's not really my thing. Maybe I'm selfish.....but I am the one paying.
Guys do this for different reasons and get off on different things. I personally find a session much more fulfilling when I give as much as I receive. I just love it. I'm not naive enough to believe that every O is real, and you'll never see a review from me in which I boast about the number of times I made a girl cum because Os are easy to fake. But its much harder to fake an actual physical response. And when that happens I'm in heaven. But that's just me
Please don't fake noises or orgasms...that's that fastest way to deflate my boner. I'd rather have you just lay there. I have picked you because you are fucking HOT, so as long as you show up, get naked & let me have my way with you, I have more than gotten my money"s worth! BTW, I get all the fake noises, fake orgasms & just laying there from my wife that I need!
Many guys like to hear that moaning and shit. Gals will do what seems to be in the majority...so I would think that the moans and shit is preferred given how many gals do that.
Easy solution for you and others who lose their boner with that nonsense...tell the gal when you get there that it's a turn-off. I'm sure she'll be relieved to not have to do the fake crap.
Also, hand her the remote so she can be entertained while you're licking away. Maybe she'll put on Jeopardy and then you can determine whether she has a HS degree?
Posted By: captain7
Please don't fake noises or orgasms...that's that fastest way to deflate my boner. I'd rather have you just lay there. I have picked you because you are fucking HOT, so as long as you show up, get naked & let me have my way with you, I have more than gotten my money"s worth! BTW, I get all the fake noises, fake orgasms & just laying there from my wife that I need!
Most ladies I see don't have to fake it. I'm that good! lol I understand it's a dilemma for them. If they don't act like you are rocking their world, some guys probably won't come back. And I'm not talking about DATY, doesn't do much for me. I'm an old fart so I understand I'm not going to rock a 20-30-something's world. I'm not hard to look at for my age, but, sometimes, I ask them to close their eyes & enjoy. Like I said before, if they show up, get naked & let me have my way with them, I have got what I came for and truly appreciate them being with me. It is one of the most awesome experiences in life.
Please don't fake noises or orgasms...that's that fastest way to deflate my boner. I'd rather have you just lay there. I have picked you because you are fucking HOT, so as long as you show up, get naked & let me have my way with you, I have more than gotten my money"s worth! BTW, I get all the fake noises, fake orgasms & just laying there from my wife that I need!
Seems like you have had too many fake moans and shit...or are you just back tracking on your post?
Hey...whatever works for you. And for $$$ I'm sure that all the gals will tell you whatever you like. It's their job LOL
I was serious in suggesting to you that if you don't want to hear the crap...tell them upfront. Unless you think that it's real I can't imagine why it would otherwise ruin your fantasy. Most guys seem to be afraid to tell a gal what they are really looking for. And the gals have heard it all...and will usually accommodate a request. Another way to shut them up is stick your dick in her mouth. Seems to work quite well
Posted By: captain7
Most ladies I see don't have to fake it. I'm that good! lol I understand it's a dilemma for them. If they don't act like you are rocking their world, some guys probably won't come back. And I'm not talking about DATY, doesn't do much for me. I'm an old fart so I understand I'm not going to rock a 20-30-something's world. I'm not hard to look at for my age, but, sometimes, I ask them to close their eyes & enjoy. Like I said before, if they show up, get naked & let me have my way with them, I have got what I came for and truly appreciate them being with me. It is one of the most awesome experiences in life.
First of all, we have no idea if she is faking it for our benefit or really getting off. Not that I even mind if she does fake it, in fact it is a real service to me that she cares enough to do so.
On the other hand, maybe I'm such a stud that I got her off. Nothing wrong with that either.
Suffice it to say, it's not our job or our concern to get the gal off. Maybe we like to do so and she will engage us that way, which is my thing, but hey, to each their own.
has an intolerance for someone doing something different from what YOU like to do.
I guess you also can't get why anyone would NOT vote for the candidate YOU like.
Perhaps you don't get why someone would buy a luxury car versus an economy car.
If you don't like DATY...don't do it. But to "not" understand why the other guy does is not being an ass....but ignorant. I like my gals tiny and petite...maybe YOU like them big and fat. Whatever!!
When YOU pay for my session then I'll gladly listen to your preferences...OTC of course LOL
And I promise I won't judge any of your preferences either...we all like what we like.
Posted By: MilfHunter1
I just don't get all these guys that think it's so great that they pay for sessions with providers and then brag about the provider getting off. I'm paying 3-5 hundred dollars for me to get off with a beautiful young lady that wouldn't give me the time of day in real life. Let's get real. Maybe some guys just enjoy eating pussy, but it's not really my thing. Maybe I'm selfish.....but I am the one paying.
But I guess I could see that may have been what he was posting about.
Still...it's what each guy is looking for. And if the OP or any reader of a review doesn't buy the story it's their prerogative. Last I checked no one was forcing anyone to read anything on here.
I like to hear the stories from guys who are adamant that they are "just that damn good" that she's getting off multiple times.
What 28 year old gal isn't turned on by someone two or more times her age? I believe they just start getting wet at the thought of that LOL
If a woman wants to let me know what she likes and is willing to direct the daty I'll definitely give it the old college try. But I agree, I'm paying, and for women I'd never be able to be with if it weren't for the hobby. It's been my experience that some providers aren't interested in daty, unless the John insists. I don't mind if she fakes an O to make me feel good, but don't let me waste my time if she isn't interested. I'd rather just talk and get a little glimpse of who she is if she isn't interested in daty during the down time, and then rock on for round 2.
There's only been a couple of times when I was certain a provider was actually getting off on what I was doing. It excites me when it's for real. It bores me when it's faked. If I'm doing something and she's obviously not really getting off, I'll ask for her suggestions. If that doesn't work, I'll ask her to give me a bj again, or just play with her boobs, or run my hands over her.
Ben Franklin she might be more inclined to fake it with enthusiasm?
Nah...it's not worth an extra bennie to have her moan loudly and call out "CPA CPA...you're the best".
And you're not CPA
Posted By: 89Springer
There's only been a couple of times when I was certain a provider was actually getting off on what I was doing. It excites me when it's for real. It bores me when it's faked. If I'm doing something and she's obviously not really getting off, I'll ask for her suggestions. If that doesn't work, I'll ask her to give me a bj again, or just play with her boobs, or run my hands over her.
Back then, I rarely went down on girls or even cared so much if they got off, just as long as I did. By your handle, it may lead one to assume you are a younger guy looking for older women...
If you don't care about trying to please the provider you are seeing, then by all means don't try; you can get off, get out and move on to the next conquest. It doesn't make you an ass, but I agree with Mr Fischer it seems a bit of an ass to brag about it and condemn others.
For me, I have evolved quite a bit as I moved into my 30s and now early 40s. I now find it to be a really big turn on for me personally, and I can get "rock hard" (pardon the common, overused, phrase, lol) when it appears my partner is getting off and enjoying herself too. It can even make the difference between a one and done vs. a MSOG session. I think I read somewhere that this is not uncommon with older, more mature men.
Sure it's quite possible the provider is faking an O. If she does a good job of it and it seems real and getting me excited then fine. If it's obviously fake, or I am doing it wrong, I would hope the provider would give me a little guidance as to what gets her off (which I find really hot too, and always good to learn something new), even better. If she is just not into DATY, ok, that is fine too, and let me know so I don't want MY time There are also other ways to get women off besides "eating their pussy".... Maybe magic fingers, help from one of her toys, or even just plain intercourse which some do prefer. There are also some fairly tell-tale biological signs a women is actually enjoying herself. Anyone watching "Masters of Sex" on Showtime? It is fascinating. I guess it may be possible for a skilled provider to take some of that, but I am guessing a good number have been real. My favorite quote from a provider who had a huge O with me, after she looked down one and said, "you just can't fake that shit". I loved it!!! That was on to round 3 for me!!!
In the end, it all comes down to personal preferences. You have yours and I have mine. I like to give as much as to receive. It makes me feel like I had a better session if it seems like the provider enjoyed being with me as much as I enjoyed being with her. That is what I am paying my hard earned money for in this realm. To each their own.
But your point is taken. The way I look at it if I get off and she gets off, it's a win-win. Men like having their cock sucked, it feels good. Women like sex too, to include having their pussy licked. Whether they're charging by the hour or not.
You should be selfish cuz ur right u r paying for it but maybe the others who post enjoy "getting a providers off or licking the kitty"...... If I paid for a service I better get what I want.... Lol
I am very sorry you are that bad in bed. Fact is, many providers get off from oral... just not with you. Buy yourself a Mango, cut in in half, and practice.
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