So, recently had my first session with a provider. She was great in every respect, but as I was extremely nervous, took a lot longer to than normal, and while 'lasting long' may be a feat in other situations, I imagine not so much here. Pretty much used up the whole hour. I was pretty close to giving up, but finally it 'worked out,' thankfully. The question though is (especially interested in provider answers, others welcome though), how normal is this, and how much of an annoyance is it to providers if a client seems to take too long? I'm kinda worried I made it an ordeal for the poor girl (probably should say woman since I think she's a few years older than me). She had a great attitude, and I gave her a little more than her rate, would've given more but as I'm a  grad student/researcher so I make next to nothing, and I tried to be as nice as possible about the whole thing.  

get off in a timely manner. Usually I can tell 15 minutes into the session and at some point suggest we take a break to kind of relax and let things reset. Try not rubbing one out a day or two before the session (of course too far in advance could have the opposite effect). As for the guilt issue, if your seeing high quality women (meaning women that take pride in their work and reputation) and don't see the $50 BP girls, they are doing this of their own free will. Nobody is forcing them into anything. Its just two consenting adults having fun. Relax a little, maybe have a drink to start the session and maybe see the same girl again, the more familiar with each other the better in my experience.

Next time, utilize ethanol as part of your research methodology.  Record results after volumetric titration.  
Relax..  Get over the puritanical "moral" response, you are punishing yourself needlessly.

Getting paid more per hour than an attorney has amazing healing benefits on these broads.  

JUST YOUR TURN.  

You did the right thing by giving her a bit more if you feel it was above average exhaustive for her. It's not annoying at all, or at least for women who care about pleasing a bit. It's better that it was able to work out at the end, it is a self esteem booster to her.  

First off there is a FAQ for Newbies board.. This is betterposted there , I think..

May I suggest an approach on you next encounter?

I guess that's a decent suggestion. Feeling sorry for someone's economic condition is not exactly an aphrodisiac. Perhaps not such an issue with higher end women.

You sound like a compassionate  human being. It was probably fine - meaning, well within her limits as a professional.  

I hope you're kidding, but even if you are...how do you actually bring yourself to hit 'post' after you write something like that?  

It is just a phase.  Don't give up.   Don't see the same provider again, try somebody new though.

I would say that what you experienced was normal.  But, you'll overcome it with time and experience.

Yes, actually. I did not know that. I figured the anxiety disorder itself could be a problem; didn't know about the meds.

for the first year or so until a gal said it wasn't necessary any longer.  I am still nervous meeting someone new.  
I am comfortable about my decision to play...  because if I didn't I'd have no sex at all.

Viagra does inhibit ejaculation.  So does performance anxiety.  If you're worried about performing well, you probably won't perform well.  It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.  You need to relax and live in your own moment.

There are many meds (including meds for modulating heart rhythm and tons of other meds) that can screw up the natural course of events.  Even vitamin deficiencies can affect it and certainly low testosterone counts.

She went full term. Sadly.

You didn't say if you took an ED med..  
I have a strong suspicion that Viagra impairs reaction somehow.. No one else mentioned it so I may be all wet.. I want to see what happens or doesn't happen the next time I am with someone.. The last 3 or 4 times.. I had to give the provider a hand so to speak to get off.. that bothers me

A provider pointed me to a study of men with PE (Premature Ejaculation) & Viagra did lengthen time to Ejaculation.    

Most max out at 20-30 minutes, some ten mins, and the rare occasion happens where you're waiting for 'the moment' and it just doesn't happen for a while. When I was seeing multiple/day, and a guy was constantly pounding for an hr and a half, there had to be some rearranging of my schedule that day. I had one day last year where I saw four guys two days in a row after practically no one for a couple weeks, and they were all long lasting. I have no idea how I did it, but that was the only time that had happened.

Find a bareback provider. Just kidding. I have that problem sometimes. I would suggest if you liked that one provider stick with just her for awhile till you get used to this. You don't have to do a hundred women like some here do. I have one lady I stick with. Been seeing her for years. Its good between us cause we have gotten to know what each of us likes. Then I have a few others I see occaisionally. And if someone is touring or new that has good reviews and they intrigue me then I see them. Good luck and I think with time your guilt will go away and who knows maybe it will help with your awkwardness with women, you just need more confidence. Women love that.

Is that shit ? Exactly how long is long ? Okay I can have a girl suck my cock for over an hour an not cum , yeah its great and I'm not married either ..lol....perhaps what you need to get used to is 1 night stands , I'm used to those so this is easy !!!! Oh and I go longer than an hour , book 2 to 3 hours read and have fun , save your allowance you'll have a better time , the 1 hour sucks !  

Im always up for a bit of a challenge, but for a first time visit it is a bit frustrating if it takes the WHOLE hour to finish the deed. only because it makes me feel like im not doing something right or keeping his attention long enough for him to finish the deed....  
If this is not normal for you i would give it a try again.... try something to calm your nerves.... then give it a go... dont over think it  
But Id say definitely dont give up because of one incident...