Have been checking these discussion board posts from afar and have read so many about reviews.

if you're gonna be a White Knight, go all the way.

A review like that should have zero impact on her business, and I doubt seriously that a review like that would be have gotten past the mods with such a disparity between the text of the review and the score.  

The only way to hopefully avoid issues like this in the future, is to be VERY attentive to small issues that arise before the date. I like to say 'Worry about the little things, and you won't have to worry about the big ones.'

Agreed.

It's a good rule of thumb to throw out outlier high and low scores.

Why would he imagine opening a bottle or a prolonged role-playing scenario could extend his time? That's like saying he tried to go over by making too much smalltalk. That's his problem.  

If you booked a 1-hour session, would you open an entire bottle of wine, and invite her to share? Particularly if it were an outcall, and she had to drive home. (I mean, I could see maybe offering her a glass... but opening an entire bottle clearly says, 'Stay a while!')

Yes, you have some control over your performance.  But you have NO control over how your date perceives it.  You may think it's natural and sexy; he may find it forced and artificial.  He also may apply the numerical performance score rigorously or loosely.  The result can be a several-point swing either way.
Which is exactly why many of us will throw out the high and low scores and be completely reasonable.  The other problem is if a hooker has nothing but 10/10s in which case I and many others will throw them all out and not see her unless we know one or more of her reviewers and can gather information back channel.
Numbers by themselves are pretty much useless, especially since the so-called Top 100 degraded the system.

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Have become my regulars, I disagree with your "statement." They have the choice to rendezvous with many women in Las Vegas (a saturated market) yet they choose to repeat with me...thus, I'm obviously pleasing them!  

I've seen more than a few women in Las Vegas and have actually given some of them 10s.  But my point stands about someone's performance being able to be graded differently by different people.  And that the numerical system is TER's Achilles Heel.

I think we can meet half way.  I bet you'd be happy if they threw out your (if any) low scores.

I always ask permission before being refreshments. I don't do outcalls, so I can't comment on that. But I've never noticed any indication from the lady that I was inviting her to stay longer by opening a bottle. Of course, I don't buy $300 bottles or anything, so there's no compulsion to finish. She's free to drink as much or as little as she wants.

second the "bullshit."  Not worth a further response for me unless there is a link to the referenced review.  

'Let's just relax, I want to just sit and talk for a few minutes. Here, have a glass of wine. Here, your glass is now only 0.85% full! Let me pour you more!' Meanwhile, he rebuffs all attempts by her to get things started. She drags him to the bedroom at :50, then he takes 40 minutes to come. He knows she'll feel obligated to stay until he pops. Sometimes, he'll even ask her, 'Oh stay over!! I don't want you to have to drive home! Especially after the wine!' LOL. Reviews make it even worse, because if she is a "clockwatcher" (meaning, that she leaves on or near her time) or doesn't satisfy him, she's liable for a bad review. (This is exactly why girls sometimes dislike seeing reviewers.)

The high-low rule of thumb is applicable to most areas of human perception.  It's a probability thing as well.  Not to get all rocket sciency on you, but it is related to the phenomena known as regression to the mean.  In other words we can all have good days and bad days, but most days are "average" or somewhere in between, and if we want to predict what tomorrow will bring, we're more likely to see an average day than a bad or good day.

While we're discussing reviews, in case TER members were not informed of this information, I contacted TER and asked them to clarify the new performance score information (date it begins, and whether prior scores would be altered).  

Only nine reviews in nine years.  The last was a 10/10 from someone for whom it's his only reviews.  Red Flag!

... such that "04/01/2017" may not mean what you and others who live "across the pond" think it means.  Based on other info I've seen, I'm pretty sure that date is January 4, not April 1.  I hope Admin can weigh in to confirm or correct that.

I don't ever recall in my history of the hobby too many that tried for late nights.  I always assumed it was LE, or alcohol/drug fueled trigger fingers so I just ignored.  

I posted the following information, I received by TER (and was authorized to post),
"The new review system starts from 04/01/2017 and NO old reviews will be change to it."

Wonky. That's what nerds do. Not judging, just observing.

one brush. I'm sure some of us reviewers have better reputations than others.

Your comment, true or not, doesn't advance the discussion.

He is not saying that guys don't use the "bottle of wine ploy" as you call it to stretch out a session. He is saying HE doesn't and neither do I.  

While *you* might not pressure a girl to have more than one glass (or anything at all) many other guys certainly present an entire bottle of wine with an entirely different manner and intent. (Also, remember, this was a 1-hour date, and I was driving home directly after we finished. Or so *I* planned).  

Perish the thought!  Call James Bond!

I have known a few really cool reviewers. Some of them reviewed me, most did not (I don't ask clients to review me, and I don't discuss TER with clients).  

Want to advance the discussion?  I'm just here to make fun of guys with six reviews that think they're serious hobbyists.

As NYE mentioned, numeric dates can be written differently.  
Month/day/year
Or day/month/year.
Sometimes it is better to spell it out.
Information I saw said "January 4, 2017" written out.

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Both cases things worked out good. I saw one from 2:00am to 4:00 am, 9:00 am lax flight. The other 1am to 300 am.  I was away on business and could not get to sleep.

be pretty young!!!

...that the "raves about the BBBJ, intense touching kissing" was what he was telling to the provider DURING the session.  AFTER the date, he tried to tried to reach her for a follow-up appointment on P411.  She was a bit slow to respond to his P411 follow-up request.  SUBSEQUENTLY, he writes a review and gives her a 3 in performance.

It started from  January 4, 2017

I think you are the one being argumentative, just for the sake of being argumentative.

and does not claim to be either the reviewer or the reviewed party. How would the OP have a clue as to what happened during the session that was not in the review?

"Why would he imagine opening a bottle or a prolonged role-playing scenario could extend his time?"  

It happens to everybody, so I am not casting aspersions. It has to be hard dealing with "The great unwashed" on such an intimate basis for this long, but I've spent a LOT of time on these boards, and it's usually a bad sign when a lady starts getting that tone of bitterness and a general dissatisfaction with her customers. NOT taking a break often ends up with the woman joining the rest on the MHBs over on Twatter and I would hate to that happening to you.  

because it's pointless. I didn't at first realize it was you with whom I was disagreeing. That was an accident. There isn't any point trying to have an honest disagreement with you, based on past interactions.

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a clever retort. How long did it take you to think that one up?  Your assertion seems at odds with the number of people that read my posts compared to yours.  Once you established your reputation for being boring and full of your own seriousness, you are of no interest to anyone here.  The numbers don't usually lie.  Perhaps you should lighten up.  Most are here to have fun.

Las Vegas at least once a month.  Its a unique market for providers.  Most girls there see many more clients than are shown on TER reviews because most advertise other places locally.  The Vegas board has a number of regular provider-posters with a low number of TER reviews who are quite busy, but mostly with visiting conventioneers who are infrequent hobbyists and don't write reviews anywhere.  Vegas locals are more likely to write reviews, but that's only a fraction of that market.  

Dear Ms. Young,
Would you say that once you are in a session with a client, you would be to the hobby what Joe DiMaggio was to baseball? Joe DiMaggio said that he always played hard because he didn't know if that would be someone's first time seeing him with their hard earned dollars.  I am thinking that is the same with you. You definitely don't want to cheat someone and you want to make it better than what he expected. When it comes to performance, you try to render a gold medal winning performance.  Thus when they evaluate their experience with someone who is as young gifted and talented as yourself you usually grade off the charts as far as the standards that TER sets.  I dare say that you are in the top 10 percent of providers in the Nevada area.  You also have a burgeoning business that is constantly growing.  Considering that your reviews are strong and word gets around, I dare say that your book of business is solid and growing.  Also I would assume that you have fans from Reno to Las Vegas and beyond .  At this point, reviews are nice but they might be superfluous. Giving strong and outstanding customer service and having a strong proclivity for social an sexual activity is critical to being a successful provider.

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Have become my regulars, I disagree with your "statement." They have the choice to rendezvous with many women in Las Vegas (a saturated market) yet they choose to repeat with me...thus, I'm obviously pleasing them!  
   
 I didn't create the review score system, and all I care about is pleasing my date, so...don't blame me if my performance scores are 10's! I earned them, and I'm very proud of them!

You're the one that said you don't wish to contribute anything useful.  I don't know what possessed you to say that. Maybe the Russians hacked your brain.

Keep getting weaker.  i didn't say I didn't want to contribute. You're making that up. I said I'm not always interested in advancing the discussion, especially one of Soul's boring posts.  I'd rather make a few people smile by making fun of you and him.  Are you two the same guy?  You sound the same. Both way too serious.

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If you have to keep telling everyone you are winning, you probably aren't.

The Great and Powerful Wizard has spoken.

11pm is fine, if its planned in advance. But last minute 11pm will almost never go well, someone will flake,. someone will be cranky etcetcetc

Not that your opinion is even worth two cents of course.

Patronizing.  It's a word.  Look it up.

I certainly hope you don't have to look it up. but if you feel obliged to do so, I am sure you will be able to recognize your own picture looking back at you next to the definition.