Providers & Hobbyists:
.... what & how you do it in the hobby vs personal life?

It's better with Providers because they is NO attachment or strings attached.

Sex is always different when it's a different person. That's what makes it so fun I don't think there is a cookie cutter way to react to a client vs an SO. At the end of the day it's two people having a physical connection.  

Obviously, sex with an SO can be spontaneous, which can make it more exciting.

Practice makes perfect, after all.

With civies, they are often very passive, and not that much into it.  Providers at least act like they are into it.  (I don't want to get into the whole debate about whether it is possible to tell or not, that leads nowhere.)

I can recall one or two civies where the sex was fantastic, out of about 12 civies I've been with (Including my ex.)

But I get a great time with nearly all the providers I've seen.

It's NOT worth the debate (I agree)...But really who cares? Right?  If they are faking or not....we have a good time, we cum, we have a good time, we cum, and we leave happy.  That is the bottom line right?  SO...Again...who cares  :      have a great weekend Mr. Fisher

Having been with one woman for so long, it's hard for me to transition to having sex with others. I don't even know how to kiss someone else.

Providers are better at, and more willing to have sex.

Fantasies can be fulfilled with civilians as well as providers , though it takes more screening  
and effort  to find a fantastical civilian  girl .
  She's not as shy and reserved as you think ,  if you will open up .
  It could  be an endless journey trying to find a provider who could match my favorite civilians in the bedroom , because my favorite civilians adore me , even when I'm broke  .  
 
 
 

Not all of us is faking it  .I think its very easy to tell if she is faking in or not

I can say that I have pick people I can be comfortable with in my moody  sexuality  .  I don't  even consider men I don't click . I feel it isn't beneficial to the process, if you know what I mean LOL I love sex in many different was so I love all my guys. There are always a few extra EXTRA Great Guys. The ones that bring flowers, or gifts to put a smile on my face. you know who you guys are WINK wink.

usually very hot also, if not mind-blowing.When you choose right, you also enjoy great sex & Model good looks. I do fine in Civie life, but professionally have enjoyed a number of women that I would easily consider "Out of my League" if I met them about town.

the extra extra great gals give me all their gifts and put a smile on my face. And they love sex in so many different ways. Wink wink.

Because the "bag" usually ruins the time for me.
Kissing is better with the wife. She also is one(and believe me there are only a few)who cares enough to stay for the NQNS. Hookers mostly use BJ just to get you to the main event

Thank You

2014 = 6 rings

world suits me well, because I love "strange". So new friends can have me wet via email. I don't see anyone often enough for it to get boring, so each time with a former lover is as hot or even hotter than the last. If I have an SO, the sex is still always hot because it is punctuated by my Sarah intervals. So I guess the answer is that it's always pretty damn good no matter who I'm with.

But it's been years since I've been with a civvie and I hope and expect that string to continue.  I've had OTC sex with providers, though.  Does that count as civvy?

for the past few years.  

Well all sex for anyone is different with emotions involved with a real life partner men and escorts.