Providers & Hobbyists:
.... what & how you do it in the hobby vs personal life?
Obviously for most men it's trying to satisfy various fantasies & for Escorts it's work with at times enjoyment thrown in.
But in hobbying, is sex for you planned, scripted, strategized to get the most out of your time & dollar?
Or does sex with a SO have more monotony or emotional satisfaction? Guys response for this is obvious?
What about Providers & a SO? Is there a sexual distinction in what you do w/ a BF vs client?
Just curious after a porn star brought up the subject w/ me.
It's better with Providers because they is NO attachment or strings attached.
Sex is always different when it's a different person. That's what makes it so fun
I don't think there is a cookie cutter way to react to a client vs an SO. At the end of the day it's two people having a physical connection.
Even amongst people I have dated the difference in the sex has varied. Some can bring out my more submissive side, others allow me to be more dominant, some are more affectionate, others are just hit it and quit it...lol
The only time I can say sex is more detached is whenever I was actually on set shooting scenes for a company. Primarily because whether you have chemistry with your co star or not you have to be aware of the camera and have to hold certain poses or positions for the pics and/or video.
Aside from that I think the biggest thrill is for me is finding out what makes different people tick and how they react physically to certain things, whether its dirty talking, different outfits, etc. Knowing that I was able to give them an unforgettable experience or make their fantasies come true is a sexual satisfaction I truly enjoy whether it's a someone I am seeing for the first time or someone I am dating.
So to answer your question, in my opinion yes the sex is always different but that's a good thing:
Obviously, sex with an SO can be spontaneous, which can make it more exciting.
Sex with a provider has to be scheduled, which is a completely different situation
Practice makes perfect, after all.
With civies, they are often very passive, and not that much into it. Providers at least act like they are into it. (I don't want to get into the whole debate about whether it is possible to tell or not, that leads nowhere.)
I can recall one or two civies where the sex was fantastic, out of about 12 civies I've been with (Including my ex.)
But I get a great time with nearly all the providers I've seen.
It's NOT worth the debate (I agree)...But really who cares? Right? If they are faking or not....we have a good time, we cum, we have a good time, we cum, and we leave happy. That is the bottom line right? SO...Again...who cares : 
have a great weekend Mr. Fisher
Not all of us is faking it .I think its very easy to tell if she is faking in or not
But it's been years since I've been with a civvie and I hope and expect that string to continue. I've had OTC sex with providers, though. Does that count as civvy?
Having been with one woman for so long, it's hard for me to transition to having sex with others. I don't even know how to kiss someone else.
When times were good years back, the sex with my ex was far better than I've had with providers. I had no inhibitions, and it could get really wild.
With the providers, I don't feel completely at ease. That's changing, though, as I get more experience.
I guess the biggest difference is love. No matter how good things may be with a provider, there's no love. Granted, there's other things that can offset the lack of love. A provider with a really hot body goes a long way toward making up for the love I had for a woman with an overweight body.
Providers are better at, and more willing to have sex.
Not to mention the fact that they won't stop having sex with you if you won't let them move in with you. LOL
Fantasies can be fulfilled with civilians as well as providers , though it takes more screening
and effort to find a fantastical civilian girl .
She's not as shy and reserved as you think , if you will open up .
It could be an endless journey trying to find a provider who could match my favorite civilians in the bedroom , because my favorite civilians adore me , even when I'm broke . 
Posted By: decadentxy
Providers & Hobbyists:
.... what & how you do it in the hobby vs personal life?
Obviously for most men it's trying to satisfy various fantasies & for Escorts it's work with at times enjoyment thrown in.
But in hobbying, is sex for you planned, scripted, strategized to get the most out of your time & dollar?
Or does sex with a SO have more monotony or emotional satisfaction? Guys response for this is obvious?
What about Providers & a SO? Is there a sexual distinction in what you do w/ a BF vs client?
Just curious after a porn star brought up the subject w/ me.
I can say that I have pick people I can be comfortable with in my moody sexuality . I don't even consider men I don't click . I feel it isn't beneficial to the process, if you know what I mean LOL I love sex in many different was so I love all my guys. There are always a few extra EXTRA Great Guys. The ones that bring flowers, or gifts to put a smile on my face. you know who you guys are WINK wink.
the extra extra great gals give me all their gifts and put a smile on my face. And they love sex in so many different ways. Wink wink.
Posted By: jenniferxj6
I can say that I have pick people I can be comfortable with in my moody sexuality . I don't even consider men I don't click . I feel it isn't beneficial to the process, if you know what I mean LOL I love sex in many different was so I love all my guys. There are always a few extra EXTRA Great Guys. The ones that bring flowers, or gifts to put a smile on my face. you know who you guys are WINK wink.
usually very hot also, if not mind-blowing.When you choose right, you also enjoy great sex & Model good looks. I do fine in Civie life, but professionally have enjoyed a number of women that I would easily consider "Out of my League" if I met them about town.
Because the "bag" usually ruins the time for me.
Kissing is better with the wife. She also is one(and believe me there are only a few)who cares enough to stay for the NQNS. Hookers mostly use BJ just to get you to the main event
Thank You
2014 = 6 rings
world suits me well, because I love "strange". So new friends can have me wet via email. I don't see anyone often enough for it to get boring, so each time with a former lover is as hot or even hotter than the last. If I have an SO, the sex is still always hot because it is punctuated by my Sarah intervals. So I guess the answer is that it's always pretty damn good no matter who I'm with.
for the past few years.
I am going to try the civie thing soon but will find it hard to believe
she will be able to get my dick will get hard enough.
Well all sex for anyone is different with emotions involved with a real life partner men and escorts.
